So I recently relocated to Minneapolis area about two months ago and I am wondering is it the norm here for gentlemen to request appointments with multiple ladies? I have greatly appreaciated them telling me they booked with someone else, but it is still insulting. Why waste ladies time with getting you screened if your intentions are to book with who says you can come over now, with or without them verifying you. I am no magician. I can only screen as fast as reference checks come back unless you fill out my reservation form.
No lady likes feeling like she was your 2nd, 3rd,or 4th choice. I know this is a fantasy but we all like to feel like we come first and we were someone's 1st choice.
I strive to make each gentlemen feel as if they are important, so let's try to treat each lady like they are important.
Also please oh please guys stop sending emails that say "Available Now" or "Times,rates,location". Unless a lady just sits around waiting for guys to come she is not Available Now. Especially when you two have never met.
We are in the age of auto Responses and websites... Reading is important. A lady who cares about her safety is not going to tell you her location without screening you.
My little rant is over.. I want to let all the wonderful ladies here in Minneapolis know that you are special, important, and you are valued.
Your Seductive Concierge,
Andrea Davis
... it's not MY norm. But then, I almost never schedule with a provider on short notice. Usually I book at least a week out, more often than not 2 or more weeks out, because my open windows are few and narrow. When I have scheduled on short notice I've asked one provider at a time.
There was a thread on this topic someplace not long ago... Newbie board or General board. There were various opinions, but the majority opinion seemed to be it was not a good idea to request appointments with more than one provider for the same time unless maybe you make it clear you need a response in a given timeframe and you'll take the first confirmed appointment. That way, providers can quickly determine if they want to try to schedule with that client, or pass.
P.S. I'm glad you believe in auto-responses. I wish more providers, especially those w/o assistants, would use that tool.
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Posted By: AndreaDavis
So I recently relocated to Minneapolis area about two months ago and I am wondering is it the norm here for gentlemen to request appointments with multiple ladies? I have greatly appreaciated them telling me they booked with someone else, but it is still insulting. Why waste ladies time with getting you screened if your intentions are to book with who says you can come over now, with or without them verifying you. I am no magician. I can only screen as fast as reference checks come back unless you fill out my reservation form.
No lady likes feeling like she was your 2nd, 3rd,or 4th choice. I know this is a fantasy but we all like to feel like we come first and we were someone's 1st choice.
I strive to make each gentlemen feel as if they are important, so let's try to treat each lady like they are important.
Also please oh please guys stop sending emails that say "Available Now" or "Times,rates,location". Unless a lady just sits around waiting for guys to come she is not Available Now. Especially when you two have never met.
We are in the age of auto Responses and websites... Reading is important. A lady who cares about her safety is not going to tell you her location without screening you.
My little rant is over.. I want to let all the wonderful ladies here in Minneapolis know that you are special, important, and you are valued.
Your Seductive Concierge,
Andrea Davis
I have done this in the past after sending a request and not hearing anything for 48 hrs I will try other s to see if they are available. Occasionally it does happen where I find out I have the next night free and ask a couple different providers if they might be able to fit me in. Mainly this is because not everyone replies quickly or even in a day or two and it's not easy planning if that's the case.
For me it s not intentional but does happen
Posted By: AndreaDavis
So I recently relocated to Minneapolis area about two months ago and I am wondering is it the norm here for gentlemen to request appointments with multiple ladies? I have greatly appreaciated them telling me they booked with someone else, but it is still insulting. Why waste ladies time with getting you screened if your intentions are to book with who says you can come over now, with or without them verifying you. I am no magician. I can only screen as fast as reference checks come back unless you fill out my reservation form.
No lady likes feeling like she was your 2nd, 3rd,or 4th choice. I know this is a fantasy but we all like to feel like we come first and we were someone's 1st choice.
I strive to make each gentlemen feel as if they are important, so let's try to treat each lady like they are important.
Also please oh please guys stop sending emails that say "Available Now" or "Times,rates,location". Unless a lady just sits around waiting for guys to come she is not Available Now. Especially when you two have never met.
We are in the age of auto Responses and websites... Reading is important. A lady who cares about her safety is not going to tell you her location without screening you.
My little rant is over.. I want to let all the wonderful ladies here in Minneapolis know that you are special, important, and you are valued.
Your Seductive Concierge,
Andrea Davis
Not all of us are able to plan week or more in advance.. I'm sure some guys are able to. Lots of things could vary in knowing or finding our self time to visit in this world. Could be anything from hectic work schedules, families or SO not being around, or managing to find travel time to and from visits. Hell even the weather could affect some of us(as it does me, since my job is mainly outdoors)when it rains, I usually become very free to do what I want..
I usually am able to know a day in advance but sometimes the day of, I realize I can make a visit work.
I understand the this hobby has changed over time, but lets not forget, the worlds oldest profession was built on girls being readily available... I'm sure many will have different opinion on this...
However in this day and age of technology, if a gal or guy are active in the hobby, its not hard to get set up to be able to receive alerts or messages one way or another!! For these people say that they are so busy that it takes them a day or more to respond.. Sorry I think that is just Bull shit! Nobody is that busy unless they are on there death bed!
Now however if the guy and gal have never met and screening needs to happen.. that's different. Then there should be more time before setting up a visit.
After All, I'm not the kind of guy that knows that next Tuesday I will be horny and also have a day off from work all on the same day! Actually, I'm horny most days, but my wallet isn't.
Haha, Andrea, one of your very close provider friends knows all about my short notice habit!! Ive had no complaints from her 
PS I say all of this with the up most respect to what you are saying 
A provider could have a regular job and children to raise. She could very easily only check her email/texts/VMs from dedicated devices that she only checks when she is confident of not being disturbed. That could easily only be once a day; maybe even less if something unusual is going on. For most of us, our P4P activities are something we don't want freely mixed in with our civvie life.
Hunny.., No one is asking for you to book a week in advanced. Right now I will settle for 2-3 hours notice after I have you screened.
Sometimes, ladies do get busy. Many of us work, have families, we aren't 1800 we have a hole available now. I happen to be quite lucky with my job and I can come and go as I please, but that still doesn't mean I am available Now ever.
Maybe there needs to be a list of ladies who are available now all the time without notice. It would help you gentleman and relive a little stress from ladies receiving crazy emails that aren't ever available now.
My opportunities are few and far between. Having reached out to two providers in the past two weeks and having received ANY response, I am tempted to try it. I usually send out a request 1 day in advance and don't start looking elsewhere until most of the 24 hr period has expired. It used to work when i was younger but, as I age I find that, more and more, I am ignored. Temptation is rearing its ugly head.
I've never double-booked, but sometimes wish I had. Because I have limited availability, and if the girl flakes out I can get lonely.
Thought all you guys cared about was the almighty dollars. I'm pretty busy guy and on a day I feel loaded up, will contact a few, and whoever gets back to me quickest gets my business.
To me this it's pay-fuck-leave or fuck-pay-leave that's it.
Posted By: AndreaDavis
So I recently relocated to Minneapolis area about two months ago and I am wondering is it the norm here for gentlemen to request appointments with multiple ladies? I have greatly appreaciated them telling me they booked with someone else, but it is still insulting. Why waste ladies time with getting you screened if your intentions are to book with who says you can come over now, with or without them verifying you. I am no magician. I can only screen as fast as reference checks come back unless you fill out my reservation form.
No lady likes feeling like she was your 2nd, 3rd,or 4th choice. I know this is a fantasy but we all like to feel like we come first and we were someone's 1st choice.
I strive to make each gentlemen feel as if they are important, so let's try to treat each lady like they are important.
Also please oh please guys stop sending emails that say "Available Now" or "Times,rates,location". Unless a lady just sits around waiting for guys to come she is not Available Now. Especially when you two have never met.
We are in the age of auto Responses and websites... Reading is important. A lady who cares about her safety is not going to tell you her location without screening you.
My little rant is over.. I want to let all the wonderful ladies here in Minneapolis know that you are special, important, and you are valued.
Your Seductive Concierge,
Andrea Davis
Talon,
I can fully see your point. My question is while sending out your mass emails do you send one liners and wait to see who responds, or do you send all screening information? Also if a lady gets back to you but you already set something up with another lady do you respond back to the ladies email telling her you have changed your mind or do you just blow her off?
Andrea
If they reply back and I've already made other plans, I let them know. My time is very valuable to me, don't have much time to chase pussy.
Posted By: AndreaDavis
Talon,
I can fully see your point. My question is while sending out your mass emails do you send one liners and wait to see who responds, or do you send all screening information? Also if a lady gets back to you but you already set something up with another lady do you respond back to the ladies email telling her you have changed your mind or do you just blow her off?
Andrea
I see your point. It is tough for you to do the screening, exchange e-mails, and it leads to nothing.
But the flip-side of the coin is, MANY women take 3,4 days even more to respond ever.
So I see the idea of sending out several "feelers". I don't do it myself, but know plenty that do.
I know every provider has a life, career, family, school (some).. but updating your schedule/calendar on your page, or P411, that would avoid his, wouldn't it?..maybe..?
Personal note: I wouldn't dare send out a one-liner OR a same day request with someone I haven't met previously. ( Unless I bring a 12 pack of Schlitz, Eddie, and some buds for a MFM, F optional with my favorite! . ) There are a few ladies I know well that get back promptly, and honestly, which gets me going and I book anyway! Later that week!
Clam is so tasty, yet confusing!!
The Top Dogs know how to snag us, and reel us in!
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This is not a relation ship tango! In fact it's only sessions provided, up to the gentlemen how and how can get him to what he needs. We need to be professional and discreet take notes who is who
Sometimes, ladies often take a day or two days to respond. That is no problem but if I try to set something up three or four days ahead for both of our convenience and so she can screen, this means after 12 to 24 hours, I have to have two requests out. If the first two do take that long to respond, it is a real problem.
I send P411 pre-screen requests generally asking about a rough location and availability and specifying the day I am interested in booking. Maybe 50% of the time I'll get a response back within 3 days. Sometimes I get no response at all. Presumably because the provider makes the erroneous assumption I'm not serious because I sent a pre-screen instead of a booking request. But I'm not going to send a booking request until I get enough information from her to make a decision. e.g. I don't do hotels so I ask about the type of incall if its not been mentioned in a review.
Because of the generally slow and often poor percentage of responses, I will send out a number of pre-screen requests. Generally, whomever replies back first with the info I need would be the person whom I end up scheduling with. Whomever takes 3 or 4 days to reply often get's the, "I'm sorry, I already booked with someone else" reply. If I could schedule 2 weeks in advance it would be a different story. But generally I may not know until 3 or 4 days before the appointment time that I have availability. With both TER whitelists and over 10 P411 "okays" screening shouldn't take her too long.
That way when you get close to the time where you want to schedule something you have one or more ladies who have already verified you.
...I don't appreciate hearing that I'm not the first one of the day, or worse..... seeing, feeling, or smelling evidence that I am not the first of the day.
I cannot explain why someone would double book, but I have had that happen to me on numerous occasions--even with girls who use a scheduler, so this is a two-way street; I don't think this is just "Minnesota Gents."
Re: location. Are the guys asking for an address or an approximate area? I like to know roughly where in town the woman is located so I know if I want to drive that far or if my drive will be affected by rush-hour traffic, a sporting event or other activity. For example, "Uptown," "494 & 100," "MOA," "Downtown"
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I do see both sides of this debate. The key is to minimize wasting the time of others, whether provider or hobbyist. We live in an "immediate gratification" state of mind, so when it comes to satisfying our urges, we want it now. Some of us have to act on the moment, while others are able to plan and wait. Good luck figuring this one out...
If my window of opportunity, time-wise, is limited and comes up with only a day or two notice, it might be tempting to try two different ladies, especially if you're new to them, rather than risk missing a chance for fun.
Some providers are not good communicators, nor very prompt about returning messages or updating on availability or screening status. That's not a complaint, just an observation.
Well, it's not necessarily all that simple. If you are prompt and diligent in responding you should know that is absolutely not the case with everyone, and people adapt.
Some years back I grew tired of no shows, no responses after initial contact, long waits to respond to e-mails, etc. Can't say how many times I had a short period of time available, tried to set something up during that time period, did so--and had someone not show. This was in many cases after driving some hours to a location too. Eventually I learned to contact several reliable providers to increase the chances of actually seeing someone when I have time and opportunity available. In my experience, these are not often brand new or fly by night first timers but well reviewed ladies in most cases who never call back, don't show, or in some cases--do keep in touch and have an excuse that sounds feasible. But if you have nothing else lined up as potentially available and have a few hours to find someone, that can be difficult.
I do not double book mind you--understand that's not good and I won't do it. But I will often try for my first choice and also contact others mainly to ask about availability. Honesty helps smooth out any issues, as life happens to all of us. And it's best if it works both ways.
