To me the biggest turn-on is honesty. In a transaction based largely on fantasy this a rare commodity, but it can be found. I like a girl who enjoys herself, but not fake moans and flattery.
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I love when a woman or a man, has a Clean Fresh Smell to them (just out the shower smell)
with a light touch of cologne or perfume
that totally turns me on
Both Men and women
since I love both
XOXO
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BAD ATTITUDE
BAD BREAT
Turn ons:
GFE
Toned or tight physique
Eye color
Instant rapport
Not a clock watcher
Acknowledgement that it's been awhile and they missed me.
Turn offs:
PSE
Unfit, gooey or fat physique. (no experience is good enough to overcome that)
Heavy perfume
Heavy make up
Smokers
Someone my age that's still in the business
Positives:
1.) The reviews reflect the experience offered by the provider.
2.) If I visit a provider more than once, then an ability to not offer a stale (that is, rehearsed) experience is mandatory.
3,) The provider makes a genuine effort to deliver full service in a session.
4.) A reminder that you are with a grown woman (that is, some evidence of pubic hair).
5,) The provider is able to kiss with some degree of passion.
6.) A provider that likes to receive gifts.
7.) A skilled lover able to make the experience memorable.
8.) Exotic women from all over the world.
Negatives:
1.) Gallery images composed by Aldo Antonio.
2.) A television set running during the session.
3.) A request to write a review.
4.) A wooden or mechanical performance.
5.) A lack of investment (that is, old images and Internet site) in her presentation.
6.) A provider just in this endeavor for the money.
7.) Inquiries regarding my occupation.
8.) If part of the session is social, then less than discreet clothing (that is, too much cleavage) is a concern.
To me the biggest turn-on is honesty. In a transaction based largely on fantasy this a rare commodity, but it can be found. I like a girl who enjoys herself, but not fake moans and flattery.
Turn ons:
Suicide Girls look and/or tanned/brown skin
Fishnet stockings, wet T-shirts, shredded denim shorts, and other "slutty" attire
Intelligence and general knowledge
Turn offs:
Gold digging
"I'm worth waiting for" snobbery
Excessive clinginess, or "You're MINE," or I own you!!!"
Turn-Ons:
Passion
Intelligence
Openness/Honesty
Good conversation
Turn-Offs:
Poor attitude
Bad service
Lack of attention or focus on our time together
Poor hygiene
Dishonest
-When we get in each other's space right at the door, and hug and kiss for a while. If we sit and talk for a while first, it always seems more awkward to then later transition into being in each other's space.
-The relaxed, easy atmosphere that only comes from being with a provider for whom being a provider is not just a job but is also an authentic expression of their own sexuality; and they're comfortable in their own skin.
-Kissing.
-Real compassion. There are some providers that are just true healers, caretakers, nurturers...
-Responsiveness. I love it when a provider gets that what has worked with 5 others may not work for me, and is very open and sensitive to cues about what is and isn't working for me.
-Attentiveness. It's very easy to tell when a partner is thinking about that errand they have to run later, vs. they're really focused on you and you can just feel the warm spotlight of their attention shining on you.
-Proximity. There have been a few really memorable times where we made out behind the just-closed door, we undressed each other before or after making our way to the bed, played for an hour or more, got dressed, and went back to the door to leave--ALL without once ever being a foot from each other, not even for a moment