... IMO is to have a "meeting of the minds" before the date. Be sure you are in agreement on how you're going to spend your time together. This is essential because everyone is different and has different expectations for an overnight date.
Some key points to discuss beyond the obvious logistics are: - how much play time will there be, and when? And discuss how you'll spend the rest of your time together, when not playing or sleeping.- how much sleep do each of you need? The biggest of the two numbers is what you need to go by.
- what are the sleeping arrangements? Some people love cuddling close together all night, while others need some space. Do either of you snore a lot? That can be a problem if the other person is a light sleeper.
- does she have any special needs to consider, e.g. allergies?
Looking for others experiences with overnights?
I am looking forward to one in the near future and hope to avoid common mistakes and to be sure to include everything hot.
... IMO is to have a "meeting of the minds" before the date. Be sure you are in agreement on how you're going to spend your time together. This is essential because everyone is different and has different expectations for an overnight date.
Some key points to discuss beyond the obvious logistics are:
- how much play time will there be, and when? And discuss how you'll spend the rest of your time together, when not playing or sleeping.
- how much sleep do each of you need? The biggest of the two numbers is what you need to go by.
- what are the sleeping arrangements? Some people love cuddling close together all night, while others need some space. Do either of you snore a lot? That can be a problem if the other person is a light sleeper.
- does she have any special needs to consider, e.g. allergies?
To put it delicately, watch what you eat (maybe for several days). A lady I had an overnight with told me about a guy that had intestinal distress in the middle of the night and her only bathroom was off her bedroom. A real mood breaker. bigdel
that makes things interesting! Haha
Tough for me to fork over extra to watch someone sleep. been there. Extended vists will be a much better ROI and you won't have to throw away money for the extras outing costs either. Best of luck.
Not just when you are having sex. Having an awkward silence that drags on for an hour or more would put a damper on things.
going into a overnight with a brand new person you know nothing about
can be a little tricky...
Ive done it a few times, it went ok
but it would have been nice to know each other a tad more
also, just agreeing to what a good plan for the night is,
Dinner? Movie? Going out? playtime? hours of sleep?
and play in morning?,
I think its good to get out and do something
so you are not just under each other for 24 hours!!!!!!
Have a blast, I love overnights
XOXO
Karley
Long appointments can be either really fun, or really suck. If you two have different ideas of how it should go is when you have problems. Some of my favorite overnights have been with guys I have not seen before. The ones I have disliked are usually with gentleman that I have seen before.
My only big reccomend action is please don't do the "rub and poke" There are not a lot of ladies that like to be woken up by you rubbing her back and humping her butt. That is the quickest way to make a great night turn sour.
Just remember to have fun!
Andrea
You're kidding. I thought women loved to be woken up with a guy shoving his morning wood in from behind. That's my best move.
I suppose next you're going to say women don't like being surprised by cumming in their mouth without warning.....
remember that it more often than not has its beginnings in the spoon and wiggle.
And then we're supposed to back off... I say NO wiggling without poking.
On further thought, wiggle as much as you like. We love it.
Which episode of Seinfeld addressed this? I know it's not, but it has the look and feel and spoon and wiggle of an episode of Seinfeld.
And then we're supposed to back off... I say NO wiggling without poking.
On further thought, wiggle as much as you like. We love it.
Not just sexual acts, but human interaction. If you want someone to hold, cuddle and connect with, then you'll need someone that is willing to be genuine and share personal information in conversation. If you are looking for arm candy fawning all over you (GFE), then be clear about that because that's more of a show and easier to part from in the am.
Thinking about what you want out of it and choose your provider accordingly.
An overnight with someone you've never met is hit or miss. Usually a miss unless you find a gal that is willing to engage in consistent daily communications via texts, emails, phone conversations (whatever your & her preference) over an extended period of time; building a comradery.
I've done countless overnight dates & the best experiences were with those awesome gents I had spent time with before. We had a mutual adornment for one another beforehand so the floe was amazing, sensual, sexy, & heavenly from beginning to end. NO awkward moments whatsoever as we already knew each other's likes & dislikes & our time together was equivalent to a couple who had been in love or infatuated for decades.
A couple gents BTW knew when I'm sleeping & you're horny in the middle of the night "Go for it baby!" Fuck my brains out while I'm deep in my slumber! Just don't wake me up to reciprocate! Lol!
I can totally understand when a guy wants to go hump in the night. However, be just a *little* sympathetic to the fact that I'm probably dreaming about unicorns, marshmallows, and other things completely unrelated to your appendage, so you should be prepared to be the master of your own devious destiny. I'll get into the swing of things eventually 
Same goes for some mornings... if I hit the pillow hard the night before, I may not be up right when you are. However, I enthusiastically encourage you to go down while I down my coffee... and then I'm back in business for the day.
~Mme X~
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