That was rather rude to just hang up on you like that. It is just her preference, however in reading many ladies websites it is not uncommon to find they prefer to see only hobbyists over 30 or 35yrs. old. Again, it is just their preference and you just move on to the next.

This has not been my experience so far, except one time.  Most providers I saw were actually *glad* to see someone in his early 20's (my age), and in all cases, I was younger than the provider.  They were very friendly, and really seemed into delivering the service.  I'm guessing it's the stereotype about young men having more stamina, or just a chance of pace from seeing mostly middle-aged men.  In fact, some older providers (read: 30's and up) might even get a kick out of being with someone 10 years younger.  Only one time a provider was cold and distant with me, and I think it was because of my age.  But with only one time, who cares.  I reviewed her accordingly and moved on.

It is probably just a personal preference - we all have em.  Her attitude stunk though, and she may be cutting off future business in responding to potential clients like that - her loss.
It is quite common - on both ends of the age spectrum.

Many providers feel that men under thirty will try to be wiseasses and/or end up falling in love with them (I know, I know, you don't have to point out the obvious.)

The trick is to convince them that you are not one of those kinds of guys.

Talk about how you respect the person and look forward to a lovely experience, etc.  You just might convince someone.

One more hint:  Read the providers website cover to cover and refer to it in your email.  They spend a lot of time and put a lot of thought into their sites and when someone reflects that in their communication, it really makes an impression.

Thank you!

Thank you for all the advice you gave me =) They were a lot of help and I feel much better now. Very much appreciated!