Brothers, of course we want it all but would you rather see a 9 or 10/7 or a 7/9 or 10?
Personally, I'd take the higher performance every time for obvious reasons.
... light switches can take care of the looks, and if the switches fail, I have eyelids. I have found some of my better experiences with "girl next door" types or women who are considered "6s or 7s." If I connect with them and the performance is there... the whole experience can be a 10 for me. 
Give me the 7/9. Frankly, someone who really shows a guy a good time also looks better in my book.
I don't care how fabulous the show, if the performer doesn't do it for me, then a "10" becomes a "6".
Performance over looks every time.
For me, personality is always first for me - I always remember the conversations and mutual attractions far longer than performance. If personalities match, the performance will be there.
And I totally agree with you.
Although I sometimes remember certain sexual acts a long time, too.
As long as the conversations...this girl also loves chocolate chip pancakes, that one's dreams are to...
Please may I have a 10 10.
That's true but I was just trying to see whether guys in general prefer looks or performance first.
The numbers themselves don't matter. I've had great times with girls that some would rate a 4, if that. I've also had way less than that with some "10s".
For me, the effort and attitude and willingness to please as well as other factors far outweigh the looks for me.
I'm trying to spread some LOVE around here... like fucking FAIRIE dust... hmp
after a depressing week of the usual board politics please shower me with your FAIRIE dust...I hear a little dab (or squirt) will do ya.
There are some guys who wanna stick it anywhere, so the look and morphology of the their pin cushion is not so important. The same applies to those that just want to talk with someone. There are those wanting a model or cannon of beauty and not so much into the debauchery of anything anywhere. I'm in the last group. The more perfect the human form, the better.
A girl may be pretty, but if she treats me like something she needs to scrape off her shoe, then yeah, that's not my ticket (though I guess there are some guys that eat that up.)
I'll have a good time with any girl that is willing to have a good time with me.