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Is this a joke?
MrRate 601 reads
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So he has no references and you can vouch for him? He's "very very careful?" As if the ladies shouldn't be? This is totally SPOTY worthy.

He's in a very visible situation and is not a TER member.. but I can vouch for him.. He asked me to send him some contacts for an incall in the Hartford area.. I encouraged him to just join.. no one would know.. but he is very very careful..

MrRate602 reads

So he has no references and you can vouch for him? He's "very very careful?" As if the ladies shouldn't be? This is totally SPOTY worthy.

No, not a joke and yes the ladies should be careful.. what's your issue? It's up to them and I have credibility here.. so better than a blind phone call.. on both sides.. get over yourself..

MrRate448 reads

Issue is no normal lady will see a guy based solely on his buddies say so. Toolbag.

Your wrong.. almost every provider has done that.. I know he's not a freak.. and he's not LE.. and he will treat a woman well.. so  it's my reputation too.. He just won't join TER (for some wierd reason) and he is talking about BP.. and I am trying to save him from that.. at the end of the day, it's still up to the girl and she can ask him for whatever she wants and he can agree or not..I'm just helping him put his toe in the water so to speak.. chill.. mr judge of all things.. and why using an alias.. what is your concern? all names are an alias here anyway.. what a wierdo U are..

MrRate394 reads

You'll always get someone desperate for biz, a newbie who might bite without knowing any better. You clearly have the ladies lined up here to service your mystery buddy here. Just because say he's "ok" with your 8 reviews and 2 whitelists. Impressive.

 This post IS SPOTY worthy.

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I think you wrote me this spring about him. But then something came up about it being awkward or something since he's your friend. That's cool. But I wanted to say that i really encourage you to let him handle this. I know you're trying to help your buddy out, but he seems a bit finicky and unwilling to do his own effort of finding a companion. Part of the experience of being with a lady is the effort put into finding her. There's the thrill of the hunt, so to speak. The journey to get there, seek the treasure out. And after making effort, you appreciate your treasure once you find it. You're doing the treasure hunt for him. The end result could be that he doesn't appreciate it. I don't see it ending well for your friendship going this route. And you know I care about you. You're kind hearted and I don't like feeling he is taking advantage of your kindness. Please just give him a few websites to look at (ter doesn't allow me to write the other websites here, but I can email them). And then step away and let him make effort in this. You shouldn't have to play piggy in the middle. That doesn't feel like he's being a good friend to you, by expecting you to go through this year long effort to find him a companion. Hope that makes sense. Use your energy and time on being fabulously you. You're a good friend to give him those websites for him to research. But it's in his best interest if he takes it from there on his own. Ladies will feel safer also if he contacts them directly. Having a go-between can be a little strange, and they often never end up booking even after all the energy others put into organizing it. My advice... Step away. Let him make his own effort if this is what he wants

Of course Cameo .. I told him to call you.. but he feels odd as I know you so well...I have a few replies and I sent him web sites as you suggest.. He'll have to contact himself.. He is a friend.. but I also do asubstantial amount ofbusiness with him and he takes full advantage of that.
As usual.. you do know best and are always able to preserve the positive and avoid the negative..

But you can't make them drink.

The hobby has a working system to try to protect and accommodate all.
Everyone has to go through it a least once.
It's not so hard........
Politicians,cops,firemen,executives of fortune 500 company's, and guys who save for months to play,
Lot of different guys hobby for lots of reasons and all have to be pre-screened at one time or another.
It gets easier from there. IMH

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