If you are a newbie, it is best for you to stick to well reviewed (usually defined as at least 3-4 reviews from guys with at least the same number of reviews). As a 5-yr. veteran, I don't see non-reviewed ladies. I work too hard for my $$.
Is it appropriate to ask a provider for reveiws if you have been uanable to find any on your own.
Also it is a red flag to see a gorgeous lady advertising on eros without any reviews.
If you cant find any reviews on TER or other boards, then assume the provider does not have any reviews...its not like a provider keeps a desk full of reviews at home and can fax you one upon request. So I would say dont ask her about reviews if you cant find any.
To answer your second question, it is not necessarily a red flag if you see a "gorgeous" (although I would use this argument with any provider no matter how she looked) provider on Eros without any reviews. However, you should proceed with caution. My personal belief is to only see well reviewed independent ladies. I feel this is the best way (although nothing is fool proof) to avoid any potential LE problems. It has served me well over the past four years. If a lady doesnt have any reviews, whether you found her on EROS, Craigs List or some other place, there is simply more of a risk than by seeing a well reviewed provider. Proceed with caution and have fun!
Because if the service is great, you can always close your eyes and picture Rosie O'Donnell, Roseanne, or Sally Struthers...or whoever YOUR fantasy girl is. LOL
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I do not think it is inappropiate at all to ask, you might find out you were just looking in the wrong place for a number of reasons, such as a slight name change, different city reviews are listed in, etc. Or maybe on a different review board you were unaware of.
Just because she has no reviews does not necessarily raise a red flag, everyone had to start with their first one, but I would be a little more cautious.
If you are a newbie, it is best for you to stick to well reviewed (usually defined as at least 3-4 reviews from guys with at least the same number of reviews). As a 5-yr. veteran, I don't see non-reviewed ladies. I work too hard for my $$.
Newbies need to develop instincts, and learn to trust them. One of my all time favorite ladies has no reviews. She is UTR and she wants it that way. She runs ads on Eros and maintains her own website. While I understand the reluctance to see ladies with no reviews I just wanted to present an alternate view. Some of the best ladies out there prefer to keep a very low profile. LE and rip-of girls don't spend the time and money involved in building their own web sites. BTW, I am a twenty plus year veteran and I haven't had an issue with LE since I stopped cruising the track in Boston's old Combat Zone.
Some ladies have a "Do not review" policy.
Other times ladies have reviews in places other than TER. Do not that this site as gospel. I know a dozen established ladies who have no reviews here, but often in other places.
I myself have reviews in 4 other places.
I also have reviews on other boards, and I like to stay UTR as well, but hey, thats just my choice.