dinner/lunch OTC?, Can I date you for fun?, etc.
I haven't been in this hobby for all that long and I certantly don'tknow all the answers but it seems to me that there are questions that it is unwise to ask, Some have been discussed ad infinitum. like lowering the fee and very personal info like where they live, are they married. etc. If you get to know them through multilple visits they will tell you. One that I think is a poor question unless you really know the lady is "did you cum" Chances are she wil lalways say , "of course", just to stroke your ego. If she volunteers that, she stiill may be fakeing it.But there is a better chance it will be the truth.
Are there other questions you, men and women think there are other questions best not be asked?
dinner/lunch OTC?, Can I date you for fun?, etc.
What else can't we do? Are we allowed to LOOK at the gals when they open the door to let us in?
Good grief KK, the ladies are people too and they do eat from time to time, so I've heard.
And many, many, many, many women have taken me up on my offer for a free meal and some of those allegedly had a good time!
I guess they didn't get your memo?
Some of the people over here just sound so frightened of the women. Maybe it's the gals some of you are seeing? Idk...I like to see fun, happy people who, if they don't have other plans would love to get to know someone on a little deeper level and share some p4p experiences or talk about world affairs or their travels or whatever without the trappings of a counter going off in their head calculating the bill for every minute spent with them.
Some ladies actualy think it's refreshing to do so. Thankfully many think outside the box here and don't play by your so rigid rules. It's ok to color outside the lines at times, if you have a mutually willing partner.
Many things are possible in p4p when two humans get to know each other on an intimate level and OTC is just one of many. I'd tell you the others but you might faint.
...they asked me sometimes I ask them. Sometimes they say not today but next time. Next time they followed through.
I don't ask for OTC time. I invite them (after the session) to join me for lunch or whatever. No pressure, if they say yes great, if not that's OK too.
If UR nice, if I have the time, and if I"m hungry, Y NOT?
What's the worst thing that can happen? I might say no? Oh, the horror
OTC, after a date with a provider. I was hungry, she was hungry. I asked, she accepted. We just walked across the street from the hotel. After dinner, she actually asked me back to the room to watch a movie with her. No sex. Just hanging out watching a movie, and talking. She was lonely wanted some company. On the other hand, one week prior, a provider seemed to be giving me continuous hints that she wanted me to ask her to dinner and when I did, she turned me down. Left me confused, but No harm no foul. Like you said, sometimes you are hungry and the worst that can happen is you say no. And like GaG says a lot has to do with how it's asked.
Benihana's is to Japanese food what the Olive Garden is to Italian food
Did you not know the salad and breadsticks are free
It was convenient because:
#1, they were right across the street from the hotel, and
#2, they were open at 10:30 on a Sunday night.
We actually walked to the hotel front desk together and asked for a decent restaurant close by, and that was the referral. Hey wait, wasn't that breaking all kinds of TER rules about hiding and not being seen in hotels? Lol
And no GaGa it wasn't Benihana. Lol.
I have had lots of dinners OTC with an ATF. It became a regular thing depending on the time of our meeting and other commitments.With another lady we did fun things OTC before a regular session. These activities were with providers I have seen numerous times.
These activities have been between friends. Today I had a 2 hour lunch with a provider who retired over a year ago.
Asking any of your questions in the manner you suggested is also a bit rude.
but asking "want to grab a bite?" is hardly rude. Nor is "I think I like you more than just for the sex, no pressure here, but would you like to grab a drink sometime on a strictly no sex date?"
Just because you have all the style of a wart hog, doesn't mean the rest of us can't enjoy some non BCD time with the ladies.
BTW, I think lopaw is still waiting for a much deserved apology.
Hey, come on, What have you got against Warthogs? lol They may be not too pretty, but roasted they are one of the best eating African wild animals.
but asking "want to grab a bite?" is hardly rude. Nor is "I think I like you more than just for the sex, no pressure here, but would you like to grab a drink sometime on a strictly no sex date?"
Just because you have all the style of a wart hog, doesn't mean the rest of us can't enjoy some non BCD time with the ladies.
BTW, I think lopaw is still waiting for a much deserved apology.
Unless she volunteers, questions about her non-professional life are strictly verboten....
" Are you gaining weight " is always a no-no..
but here I one I don't think is one "Is it in"
The truth of the matter is they don't really care and the honest answer isn't what they are looking for so Im forced to put on a happy smile and lie. Even if I answer what I like they still move ahead to with whatever they want which usually means they are trying to push past the massage service they have paid for. I know every provider says you give oral just as good as her side lesbian lover ; )
As far as my personal life I'm probably a bit more open. My life is kind of awesome and I love sharing and listening to some good stories.
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-you're a fabulous lover
-your penis is beautiful & it's not too big or too small
-I've never/rarely/seldom felt like this
-I wish more of my clients were like you
-your touch/kisses/stroking/tongue are AMAZING
-nobuddy, has ever done that to me quite that way!
-I'll bet you were quite the tiger back in your day (I'm not now!?!?!?!)
-I'm having so much fun with you
any others?
They usually list the answers to questions they don't want asked. I see several ladies fairly regularly around the country. A few of them will have meals with me OTC ( offered by them) ,but with some of them it's not part of the deal.
An interesting thing that I have found is that communicating respectfully usually gets respectful answers.
If the provider suggests that we do something outside the bedroom, I have asked if this is OTC. Guessing is a bad idea. So asking is important. No matter how uncomfortable it feels.
Is the next session free? What's your real name? Can I have a rain check on your special? Do you have a volume discount? How many lovers have you had in your life? Do you wish we'd met in real life? Why did you become an escort? I know it's been a year, but can I have a reference? Can we do lunch and a movie? How old do you think I look? Why don't you quit the hobby? What celebrities have you seen?
And, "are you lonely sometimes"? My ATF has already answered those, voluntarily on her own.
Being comfortable, honest, non-judgemental, and trusting of each other also makes the sex so much more intense and enjoyable
One of the best songs of my generation.
True experienced, a lady asked me once, questions came out like this...
How old are you? your race? do you use Meds? are you a magnum gold? are you circumcise? Took me a while to figure out how to responds......
How about this one...Maybe this not to bad to asked but here it goes. You're 69 years old? do you still have any teeth? do you wear dentures or dental appliances?