Progress towards completion is stalled and she's clearly becoming uncomfortable. Best to change things up somehow or even take a break. Sometimes you have to admit it's not going to happen in the time available.
I'm not one to complain and even this isn't really a complaint... More of an FYI. The provider is a complete doll and I love her company but awhile back during our session, when it was clear that it was coming to an end (not under a time crunch) she started a very nice bbj. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then - the mood killer. She told me that I needed to hurry up cause her jaw was starting to hurt. OMG! Now I may be a bit girthy or maybe she just had a long day, but us guys cannot 'hurry up'. In fact that statement just made it take longer. I told her I was sorry and suggested some things that didn't require her to open up so wide (and I helped things along too) but that is one thing you just don't wanna say. I can't imagine ever saying that while I'm DATY when my tongue is starting to get sore. Ever!!
Anyone else experience any mood killers? Ladies, feel free to chime in here!
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I don't have any personal firsthand experience of sucking a cock so can't say how that is but I can't imagine one's jaw/mouth/tongue would be hurting any more than if you were to DATY.
Was rolling on the floor about your comment if you were to whine about your tongue being tired. Surest way to get a swift kick in the jaw or to your gonads IMO.
In the case of your provider or any professional, it may have to do with the numbers and they could be sucking all day whereas you're doing it cuz you want to, not for money. People are always complaining about their hourly wage jobs lol.
Anyone else experience any mood killers? Ladies, feel free to chime in here!
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...of performing oral or the coitus isn't getting me any closer so she suggests a switch to a HJ to completion. But she starts a rapid HJ thinking that the faster she jerks, the faster I'll cum but, it doesn't work that way with me and I'm sure with most other guys. A slow to moderate milking with ball play will more likely do the trick but it's sometimes hard to convince a frustrated lady to slow and ease up on the grip. So, a few times I've just had to say it's just not going to happen cuz my dick has become desensitized from all the action and let the session end without the finish or without the second pop. That's OK sometimes, tho...it's the journey not the destination. I don't regret for a moment a good time spent with a beautiful, naked woman.
I've had other mood killers where it was clear that one or both of us really wasn't into the other, so I just went for an early oral finish and let the session end early. It happens.
I've been in the exact situation you describe, and we simply changed course. While there may be examples of assembly line sex in the hobby, it certainly isn't why I'm here. Every experience with a provider is a one-off, of two people responding to each other. If my partner is getting a sore jaw, I'd hope she stops making it worse, and I'd hope she mentions it so I know to give her something to respond to in a different direction. Between the two of us, I have confidence that we can figure out something mutually satisfying, and then something else, and so on...
Progress towards completion is stalled and she's clearly becoming uncomfortable. Best to change things up somehow or even take a break. Sometimes you have to admit it's not going to happen in the time available.