Of course an uncaring disrespectful moron like talon that has never reviewed a providers performance above a 7 would not know an emotional connection if it was presented to him, you may have many reviews but you don't seem to have a very good time at the hobby.

Re: You have to be - ok I'll reply -ah -dot,dot,dot,dot,dddddot.....;) ;)

So if I look at the entire time I've been in hobby world I would say 60-70% of the men I've met seem to want a connection. Sometimes this has come easy, some very easy & sometimes not at all.

      For the most part this isn't a bother and as much as I want to name specific situations where it can get tricky, I just can't bring myself to & also don't want this too long.  

It's all about balance & as long as those seeking connection respect each provider the way she does things then every type can get what they want..

In other words don't expect every connection to be big outside of play time some of us are not trying to be greedy we are just trying to stay balanced and sane & keep up on our obligations in life...

Sometimes humans that share themselves w/ each other need to know how NOT to get jealous, needy, demanding, ect.
I don't need or want to fall in love & I know just how to keep myself from it!

So for those that made the connection -please realize it's not one size fits all- the way one gal can casually call, text or spend OTC time is not universal to all of us, as a gal that had a hard time keeping my own identity in my previous relationships...
 I truly value who I am as a single gal without influence and dependence on another.  

To sum up hell yes it can be annoying IF the guy looking for connection is on the needy side, thank goodness that's NOT usually the case, IMO (& from my experience) Mr.H is very balanced & simply seems to mean chemistry, respect & friendly type visits rather than "wam, bam bye mam"

I've not really had any problems w/the couple now & again who seem to see the friendship as more, it can lead to tiny little annoyances & usually that just has us parting ways, no big -live & learn right.  

 
Thanks for inviting providers opinions Wong I really like that.  

Posted By: Wongbater

shitting me...just like meeting any new person you may not connect even socially let alone "emotionally".  It may be awkward.  You may not be people that could ever sit and bullshit in any situation.  But...this is the hobby and there is a mutual respect for the arrangement and it should go down as expected and negotiated.  Would you consider that one of those "just to get themselves OFF" scenarios?  Providers...please chime in and answer this...do you want every client to come in all doe eyed full of loving feelings wanting an "emotional connection" or would that shit turn you off and drive you crazy?  Sounds like DNS list material mind game stuff to me.  mrhuck I venture a guess I'm already off your list of people who's advice you follow but here's my point -----> value judgements are lame.  As long as there is mutual respect I'd say it's a successful booking.  
   
   
 PS...board admins always pull my posts for having ALL CAPS HEADLINES but I guess your post is more important than rules.  
   
 Happy Friday All...go out and get some and support your fav local ladies