Hang in there man! Can't say from personal experience yet (ha!) but I'm sure it gets better in time. I long for the days that these days are but a "happy" memory.
Not quite two years ago I was stuck in an unbelievable rut in the dating scene. Recounting my story to a co-worker he said, "dude, you need to go to BP and get yourself a prostitute. Get a blue pill and go have some fun. You need it."
That's not who I wanted to be. So I discounted his suggestion. About a month passed and I got curious but was still unwilling to take THAT plunge. As I saw "body to body massage" I got a little more intrigued so I clicked. By this time, it had been nearly seven years since I'd had even just a date let alone a single gf. Like I said, unbelievable and I don't care if you believe me or not. I'd be inclined to disbelieve this story myself if I haven't lived it. But seriously, how does one suffer rejection well over a dozen a times in a row these days (even if I'm fairly introverted - though not lacking confidence in who I am)? I asked out gals I knew, gals I worked with, struck up conversations with strangers, online dating, etc. I digress.
Anyway, the whole point of this post is to say THANK YOU to the women I've met in this hobby (as I still pursue the dating scene with a little more luck these days!). I'm finding that the women in the dating scene (generally speaking) aren't as open, engaging, caring and nice/sweet as the providers I've met.
I had my own biased opinions and perceptions going into this hobby but I'm finding that I was wrong. For that, I sincerely apologize. The power of human contact and the touch of a woman is a simple life pleasure. I value, on a personal level, beyond the sensuality, the connections I've made with these women. Society at large may frown on us. But this isn't much different than "normal" dating relationship exercises. I think we're probably more honest as a whole.
It's a new perception. Again. Thank you.
That's not who I wanted to be. So I discounted his suggestion. About a month passed and I got curious but was still unwilling to take THAT plunge. As I saw "body to body massage" I got a little more intrigued so I clicked. By this time, it had been nearly seven years since I'd had even just a date let alone a single gf. Like I said, unbelievable and I don't care if you believe me or not. I'd be inclined to disbelieve this story myself if I haven't lived it. But seriously, how does one suffer rejection well over a dozen a times in a row these days (even if I'm fairly introverted - though not lacking confidence in who I am)? I asked out gals I knew, gals I worked with, struck up conversations with strangers, online dating, etc. I digress.
Anyway, the whole point of this post is to say THANK YOU to the women I've met in this hobby (as I still pursue the dating scene with a little more luck these days!). I'm finding that the women in the dating scene (generally speaking) aren't as open, engaging, caring and nice/sweet as the providers I've met.
I had my own biased opinions and perceptions going into this hobby but I'm finding that I was wrong. For that, I sincerely apologize. The power of human contact and the touch of a woman is a simple life pleasure. I value, on a personal level, beyond the sensuality, the connections I've made with these women. Society at large may frown on us. But this isn't much different than "normal" dating relationship exercises. I think we're probably more honest as a whole.
It's a new perception. Again. Thank you.
Love It!
Well said and believe me your not alone my friend!
I could'nt agree more with rb25.
That's exactly how I feel. Nice post.
I just went through the toughest year of my life!!! It (emotionally) kicked my @ss- my provider friends were totally here for me and cared about what I was going thru. I am so grateful that I have that connection.
Hang in there man! Can't say from personal experience yet (ha!) but I'm sure it gets better in time. I long for the days that these days are but a "happy" memory.
Nice words, well put.
Both sides need to appreciate and respect the other for the 'relationship' to benefit.
Thanks rb25.
Right on man. Respect and appreciation (and a good sense of humor) go a long way.
Both sides need to appreciate and respect the other for the 'relationship' to benefit.
Thanks rb25.
exactly. Didn't want a gf and the bs of even pickups and dating sites and not wanting to play with just myself these girls are great
I went through a tough break up a few years ago. Saw my favorite (at the time) provider. I started crying on the table. She wrapped her arms around me and let me cry with my face mashed into her pretty tits. It was wonderful. For that minute or two, she was part provider and part friend.
She's no longer in the biz, but I think of it often and would like to thank her.
Provider. Comforter. The best are welcoming with open arms. Glad someone was able to be there for you.
She's no longer in the biz, but I think of it often and would like to thank her.