For a client with half a brain (yes they are rare these days) what is said in the narrative and what is not said speaks volumes. I have repeatedly said the numerical ratings are nonsense and have been for years. TER's own rules are rarely enforced and reviewers get the public flogging for giving out 6's when 5's are really due....reviews are important. Only a fool believes 90% of the reviews they see on the board today but even the BS is a learning experience when you connect the dots.
Spanks & kisses back at ya! WBJust wondering.....has anyone had a provider decline to see them because a review score?
I just tried to prebook for an upcoming trip, with someone I had seen twice before, and had an incredible time on both occasions. She told me that I ruined her reputation and her business dropped off because I gave her an 8/8 score.
She informed me she could not see me again because she could risk me giving her a poor score again?
Any thoughts?
maybe we should just go to a thumbs up or thumbs down rating system. But then that would cause crabby panties and black lists over "why didn't you give me two thumbs up". Nevermind
It probably is when it is followed by pages of 10/10 scores
Think a couple of those were intimidated??
As for ruining a reputation- it looks like she was just starting to receive reviews .
I am more surprised that you received anything besides crickets
Backlash has happened to me before and I can honestly tell you that I am what you would call an easy grader. Not everyone is a 10. Seven and above is not exactly a slap in the face. It was like a non provoked text war. I expect you'll get tons of feedback on this subject. For some, there is an obsession with their ratings that does not match the level of the experience.
Consistency, for example, longevity...we are so much more than a number. Some clients really enjoy the art of conversation and humor. I have playmates that are seeking understanding, compassion, passion, release, escape...you can't possibly just give it a number. My last review was written in November, and I prefer it that way. It doesn't keep me at the top of the new review list, but I'd rather have quality, not quantity.
Kisses & Spanks!
-KR
For a client with half a brain (yes they are rare these days) what is said in the narrative and what is not said speaks volumes. I have repeatedly said the numerical ratings are nonsense and have been for years. TER's own rules are rarely enforced and reviewers get the public flogging for giving out 6's when 5's are really due....reviews are important. Only a fool believes 90% of the reviews they see on the board today but even the BS is a learning experience when you connect the dots.
Spanks & kisses back at ya!
WB
If you write honest reviews and someone doesn't want to see you again because of your review, be glad she told you rather than taking your money again and giving you a lackluster performance.
IMHO an 8/8 is far from a damagingly bad review and just reflects the variations in people's taste and preferences.
This post could very well hurt her business and reputation far more than the 8/8 review you wrote about her.
First off I agree with DJ1985's comment that this post might hurt her business and reputation more than your 8/8 score.
As far as that score goes, I found 3 ladies you've reviewed with those scores. They all seem to be around the same price, $350-$400/hr.
In my opinion, there are many MANY other ladies, both locally and who visit here, who can give you a great, even exceptional time at the same price and you'd likely rate those ladies at 8/8 or even higher.
Unless this lady is amazing, I'd say you were lucky she said this to you, be happy you saw her twice already, and even happier you can try other ladies.
Ones that will appreciate your 8/8 score and work hard to EARN that score and be glad to have your business.
All I know is that I'll never give my business or my recommendation to someone like this. Move on.
IMHO an 8/8 is far from a damagingly bad review and just reflects the variations in people's taste and preferences.
This post could very well hurt her business and reputation far more than the 8/8 review you wrote about her.
Some things to think about.
For one, she appears young and relatively new. She may not know that 8/8 scores are just fine and would not affect whether most are interested in seeing her at all. Did you try to tell her that? Some view scores in terms of services provided as well--a slightly lower score might have nothing to do with how well the provider treated you or how much you enjoyed it, just that they didn't provide a service or two necessary to earn a higher score. If that was all explained and she still balked- I'd probably move on
Someone who gets their note bent out of joint by an 8/8 is someone with the real potential to turn out to be BSC at some point. For me, that reaction is a big red flag that tells me to find someone else.
...and if you do, the new review needs to add something not previously noted in the first review so her worries that you might submit a review with lower scores are unlikely. From your description in your review, it would seem you gave her an appropriate score for the action you described. You didn't mention anything about kissing but you did mention that the service she gave you was that of a true GFE. By definition, GFE includes kissing with tongue and if she did that she should be awarded another point bringing her performance score to a 9. You were enthusiastic about her performance and you gave no hint that she might have been less than enthusiastic about her attitude toward you. Maybe you under rated her on performance? It's too late now, tho, the damage is done so it's probably best that you just move on and learn from your experience. These ladies have to kiss a lot of frogs and deserve every point they earn. Thanks for bringing her to our attention, tho and I will add her to my Tampa Wish List. I'll suggest to you to see Talia Amour and/or Ava Turner on your next Tampa visit.
Further, it's far from true that you've ruined her business. She may have taken a hit but it looks like she's recovered very well and thrived since your review.
You paid her to treat you well and feel desired, not to reject you after the event. Sorry this happened to you. It must hurt and feel unfair.