If you are planning a p4p situation, it will be easy to set up so that everyone is on board with your expectations. If you are doing this in the "civie" world, it can be more complicated, depending on how into it your S.O. is
Planning this for a first time. I guess it's a bucket list thing. Any thoughts, comments.
The other couple advertised their availability for dates here on TER. After we met them and chatted for a while in a cafe, we went to their apartment for some fun. The woman was a young model, smoking hot. Awesome butt, slim, blonde, a cutie. The guy was quite fit, but he only wanted to have contact with his GF, not with my wife or me. That was ok with us. The woman had had a boob job which had not held up well and she needed it redone. My wife's boobs are awesome, and the hot model really loved them! She thought they were perfect and wished hers were that good. Anyway, I got to play with both women and get sucked and fucked. The 2 girls had fun fondling each other. We got to watch the other couple screw. But when the other guy came, they both got up and out of bed, game over. Neither my wife or myself had reached an O. That was very odd and left us both feeling unsatisfied.
Since then I've decided that a group scene is best if all the players really are into each other. If that's not possible I would certainly suggest setting up the ground rules more carefully than we did so you all agree on the game plan. It was a bucket list thing for me as well and I'm certainly glad I did it, but have no desire to repeat. I'm more inclined to do a FMF 3way with two of my ATFs who already know and love each other, or a MFM 3 way with my SB who fantasizes about doing 2 guys at once.
Dude, I hope your foursome works out fantastically well and you come back here and give us a full report!
I've been to some swing parties, mostly an observer. I known quite a few swingers, have close friends that swing, they seem to play within the same circle.
From listening to friends, communication is very important to make sure everyone is on the same page.
and a low drama friend.
If you are planning a p4p situation, it will be easy to set up so that everyone is on board with your expectations. If you are doing this in the "civie" world, it can be more complicated, depending on how into it your S.O. is
I love group sex!! One time a gf and I had 3 gents join us and OMG. ...I had me some DP and pussy all at once. She was sucking the other guys cock so we were ALL going at it! 
Big fun!
Hope you have a fantastic time
Let us know how it went 
Xoxo,
TL
For me it went really but then I am bionic. I am pretty sure the ladies enjoyed it as well. We were able to explore the wheel of pleasure that was a joint effort from all in putting together.
This can be the most erotic, mind altering experience. However, when everyone is new to it the combination of newness, nerves and the unknown can ruin it.
I have a male partner I double with and we have a female provider that joins us when clients wish to have this amazing experience. You can see our reviews. There are a couple on TER. Bentley Marie and Dylan. We have experience in group situations that seem to put people at e a se.
Have fun!