In the GD board there is a long and boring discussion on FIV which many providers don't like, mostly because of sharp or dirty fingernails ---big surprise, huh? I don't think there was even a mention of G-spot caressing. I asked one lady about the G-spot and she directed me to hers. She liked it caressed gently. I prefer to direct my attention to DATY and concentrating on the clit and labial lips.
I'm interested to know what your experience (male or female) with the G spot, pro or con, has been.
...different folks.
One of my favorites loves fast stimulation of her G spot and has a soft orgasm from that stimulation with either finger or cock. but her major O happens from clit stimulation.
Another likes slow but strong rubbing, with the come here finger movement.
All so very different.
I like to feel them out (sorry). I try to remember to ask if it's ok if I place fingers inside after all it's about us both having a good time.
and DATY last night.
The results were fantastic.
I could feel the G spot. It has a palpable feel to the tip of the finger. The best move is to use the index finger in a "come hither" motion, not too fast or hard.
I did this while licking her clitoris and in about ten minutes she had a pretty physical orgasm with lots of fluids coming out, loud groans, and full body spasms.
It's a skill I've been honing for many years and well worth the effort.
She reciprocated with a very long and wonderful BBBJTCNQNS afterwards. Not many gals have the stamina for that as it lasted about 15 or twenty minutes and she deliberately edged me so I would not come right away.
And yes, finger nails cut to the bare minimum and washing of hands just prior to activity are a must
Your procedure is dead on. Some women will give you directions. I listened to one and she squirted for the first time. Got her off 3 times in a 2 hour secession. You have to be careful. I had one woman cum so hard, that her pussy muscles almost broke my fingers. And she was in her late 50's or early 60's!
One recent playmate was so into her Gspot that she pushed my legs down, just so, to the position which gave her the most stimulation during intercourse. She O'd that way. Others don't really respond to searching for or stimulating the gspot.
You wouldn't expect the controls of a Ferrari to be like the ones on a Jaguar, would you?
(Not that I know squat about the controls on either. 8o
Like them both but the combo sets fireworks/waterworks! Agreed that long nails and dirty hands are never ok...either is really roughly playing with my soft and pretty. When it is too rough, I no longer feel anything. So if the desire of the man is to really please me, then he misses his point. In the need to provide genuinely, I gently attempt to guide a fellow who is on the wrong track. We are not machines/ computers. It is not only about hitting the button...it is how you hit it too. Have fun exploring the playground of the body, folks!