I always have the donation properly counted & secured with a paper clip to keep it together. I never use envelopes anymore.
Unless she directs otherwise, my routine is to empty my pockets when undressing so things don't fall out & get lost. Typically I put them on the corner of her dresser, next to my clothes. (It's nice if she has a chair there to receive your clothes.)
The donation goes on the dresser with the rest of my pocket clutter over it. If someone were to burst in... we'd be like any other couple...
After the action, I redress, replace my things in my pockets... except the donation which is silently left behind. I try not to pay attention to it after that... it's no longer mine, it's hers. Sometimes in the back & forth of dressing & bathrooms... it might be gone... or it might not... before I leave.
Does electronic payment via something like green dot/moneypak possibly avoid criminal issues with the money transfer at the point of the actual date with a provider? This is an anonymous purchase of basically a PIN number that can be given to someone and then they have access to load the money on a prepaid card of theirs. I apologize if this has been addressed but my search did not find anything relevant in the last 6 months.
then yes, it takes away a major piece of evidence, but there could be others.
But consider: 99% of LE stings work by having a client show up and discuss money for sex. Many times, the money is never even tendered. Once it is discussed, you are toast.
Also, consider that LE isn't going to accept Green Dot in the first place, so it's not like you'll have an option in this case.
Finally, if you do use Green Dot, and you are not familiar with the gal, there is a decent chance you'll get burned so I would caution to only use Green Dot with someone you are already very comfortable with, who is someone, it goes without saying, that you don't have to worry about being LE.
That said, Green Dot is a good way to transfer money anonymously for things like deposits, etc.
(Still not one of those guys with the brief cases and all that.)
Sometimes I get to know the personal information of a lady. In some of those instances, we keep the money away from the date. We figure, if we are ever busted (hotel gets suspicious and calls the police), we can claim we are having an affair.
I have zero worries about ever getting busted while "doing the deed" the only was you can get busted for having sex with a lady is if you are stupid enough to confess. Unless they have hidden cameras in the room, highly illegal unless one of the parties is either LE or working with LE, you never had anything to worry about in the first place.
Lets just suppose the police bust down your door while you are balls deep inside a hooker, How the fuck are they going to prove you paid her? Simply having money at the scene is hardly proof. I suppose if you are one of those morons who leaves an envelope labeled "donation" you might have some small worry, but even that would be a reach unless one of you were stupid enough to start running your mouth.
I always have the donation properly counted & secured with a paper clip to keep it together. I never use envelopes anymore.
Unless she directs otherwise, my routine is to empty my pockets when undressing so things don't fall out & get lost. Typically I put them on the corner of her dresser, next to my clothes. (It's nice if she has a chair there to receive your clothes.)
The donation goes on the dresser with the rest of my pocket clutter over it. If someone were to burst in... we'd be like any other couple...
After the action, I redress, replace my things in my pockets... except the donation which is silently left behind. I try not to pay attention to it after that... it's no longer mine, it's hers. Sometimes in the back & forth of dressing & bathrooms... it might be gone... or it might not... before I leave.
Unless it's a huge sum for an extended date... I can not think of any reason to make a simple thing complicated.
LE is not going to ask for a donation on a card they want cash it is easy to prove hands on $ for etc. When I started requiring a deposit to book years ago it made me feel more comfortable to know that they were not LE. Depending on the city your in LE has a budget, so theur cash flow is limited it is highly unlikely they have 1K almost always they will limit their funds to $300-$400 on busting 1 provider one at a time.