Alright, so here is where I am currently at:
Premium membership set to expire in the next couple of days and I am going to resist the temptation so that I do not get suckered in again (I know that I had said the same thing the last time around!). I currently have the Unicorn (henceforth termed as such because they do not really exist) whom I can count reasonably count on for about (maybe) twice a month or perhaps maybe once a month as we go forward till 2017. I am pretty sure that she has a couple of SDs on her active roster and although I have no direct evidence of this, I do have pretty good intuition. As the saying goes, AIFILAW so I'm alright with this as I do not need to make further emotional investment into this as long as we fcuk and suck like there is no more tomorrows, whence together! Her profile has been way too active on SA in the recent couple of weeks for me to make any further fantastical investments in my head as if the two of us are actually an item! The time together is really great so I intend to enjoy them as long as they last and since the allowance is not bad, I do not expect to be dropped cold turkey unless she rides on a real and true SA whale (she's quite savvy and easily spots the BS'ers!) The very pretty and gorgeous 23 YO Latina on my roster, I will no longer be pursuing. Every time when we met, my attraction level actually decreased dramatically. Her body type just is not my type as dazzling as she is in the visage! We have not texted back and forth for a couple of days and I was sort of short and cold with her when she texted last before this weekend. There was no $$$ exchanged and no intimacy. Just a couple of dates which still cost me 250 or so on dinners. Ah well, was worth it getting the death stare looks at those restaurants from old farts and their women! A couple of P4P quasi hookers whom I have been giving the run around but they will still see me because $$$ is the main motivating factor. I will only see them if I hit a dry spell. Other than all this, I have exchanged some messages and if I can someone else to replace the Latina stated above, I will pursue that possibility in a lukewarm fashion as the sudden sinking feeling when every SB abandons one is not a great feeling either! Therefore, I will just go dormant till Jan 2017 and perhaps check back into SA then. I am hoping that the 32-3 months of absence will replenish the pond as of now, I basically remember and recall everyone's lead photo!
I've got one very sweet college SB, 19yo, about an hour drive from me, who I will mos def keep seeing. I've got another 19 yo hippie chick I enjoy but she lives 2 hours away so I will see her, but not very often. I've got a 23yo I've dated a few times but I'm losing interest so will probably let that arrangement expire. BUT: a few days ago I had my first intimate date with a new young SB who lives right in my own home town, no travel required. She is so insanely beautiful I can barely believe she exists, let alone wants to fuck a dirty old man like me. I have high hopes for creating a ltr with her, but time will tell. And I will keep my SA membership and keep actively trolling because you just never know what will turn up!
I've gotten down a system to get cell/text numbers and I continue to interview girls. But I went a little crazy with the numbers of fucking I can do a week with SA bargains. Overall, a very positive experience, and now I see you need to ask for informal casual photos and different angles. E.g. "your hot, but I'd love to see your belly button". Or "you have amazing eyes, can I see a profile pic. These girls are experts at choosing flattering shots, and old photos.
Remember, if they say 18-21, probably is true. 25+ add 5 years. If claim 30, maybe add 7 years.
Some girls still think their pussy is golden, but pretty easy to get them down to $300 for an initial over to my place to check the chemistry. Even young ones are after 15 minutes of small talk, "wanna go to the bedroom now".
Sounds like a good start. I agree with the idea of joining for 1 month and then taking a break. You should have some SBs you may want to repeat with plus email address or phone numbers for potentials to keep you busy for at least a few weeks.
I'm still waiting to see what happens with my dream girl SB at our next meeting, but I've been in a funk at the feeling that's ending. I've already started looking at my local ad board and am even looking on SA again. My membership doesn't expire for a while (somehow managed to snag this girl almost right out of the gate when I resubscribed) so I can check in whenever, but I'm kind of dreading the thought of panning for gold again.
If this relationship goes south, I'll likely go through a LOT of hooker therapy for a period of time. Not sure I can go back to sugar dating for quite a while, might be something I'm just not cut out for.
The fact that she's still willing to see you might suggest that it's not as big of a deal to her than you're making it out to be. Be careful not to self-sabotage.
Thanks man. Yeah, I agree, trying not to self-sabotage as you put it. Just a bad feeling but am hoping you're right and she just needs some time to process this. I know dating can be hard, so I'm sure on some level she's got to be weighing the great chemistry we have versus what must be an ethical question for herself.
is something I've thought about a lot. I assume she is thinking maybe it's a bad thing to accept money for sex. I've had success telling a few SBs that this should not be a merely transactional arrangement.there are hookers and escorts for that, but Sugar Dating is different, right? e are here because we both want to be here and we enjoy each others company so much that we might do it even if money was not involved. when the chemistry is that good, the gifts are just icing on an already sweet cake. Men have been giving women gifts in order to win their favor since the dawn of our species, it's a time honored tradition and no one should feel uncomfortable with it.