So I've lived in the metro area a little over 10 years, but never been out and about that much until recently, due to my impending divorce.  I go to bars, go to meetups, and browse the internet, but so far I'm not having much luck finding anyone who's open to a FWB or polyamorous/open relationship.  The internet is filled with crap "dating sites" (AFF and CL strictly platonic come to mind), bars are hit-and-miss, swinging groups cost money, and it seems like all the singles groups from meetup.com are looking for traditional monogamous relationships.  And I get sick and tired of waiting two or three months before I can afford a date with a provider.  So I'm wondering if anyone on this board knows of any groups that I can join, dating sites that work, or local Minneapolis bars where I can find the types of women who will be on the same page as me.  BTW, my VIP status is about to run out, so pm's might not work...