How do you guys feel about having a massage by a beautiful woman in lingerie and diy H/E? I'm considering providing this type of service but wondering if I'd get clients or not .
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Uh, no thanks.
Might consider if it's $50-60/hr like some AMPs. The ones I don't go to I mean.
It's pointless. There were all those DIY girls in uptown and they all eventually went more than DIY. You likely will too.
That's for sure
I don't know what these other guys are talking about. I fucking *LOVE* DIY. I've got over a TB of porn on the hard drive, a bottle of slick lube, a roll of TP at the ready, and a freshly packed bowl. I hand-fuck myself so well I nearly weep.
Wait, what am I paying you for again?
This discussion board should be called the bullying board
Chanel, if you are even still checking for responses, honey. Email me. [email protected] I have been in the adult industry for years and I can point you in the direction of some work that you would feel comfortable with. And, I'm not trying to make money off you either, at all, I will simply point you in the right direction and explain what it is and you can take it or leave it. It may not be exactly what you described in your original post, but it is a way to make a living without having to offer full service.
Strong opinions are what you should expect whenever you post on a F board discussion. I personally don't believe in the concept of "bully" because you give up your power to someone else and assume the victim. It's a matter of negotiating the choices of ignoring, responding, or fighting back. Pick your battles but also understand you may get some great advice that you may not have wanted to hear when you post a question like the one you did. Good luck in your future endeavors.
...... if you can somehow filter out the cruelty in the replies you got to your question, there's useful feedback in them, i.e. that a non-nude DIY service may not find a very large market here, at least not at a price point that you'd find worth your while. And it's worth noting that Minnesota has, even now, more DIY providers than most states. But those tend to be nude or at least topless, often with B2B.
On a Web board like this one you're likely to see some bullies and trolls. Try to let the water flow over your back, and focus on what good you find there.
(Re-posted due to the thread the original was in being removed for some reason.
Knots his running mate.
They both have good advice and solutions to your problems.
It's clear that you don't like the answers given, but I don't see any bullying here. Certainly, there are bound to be mongers who have strong opinions on the matter, but you should remember that there is no search criteria for 'jerk off yourself', AKA, DIY. As such, it is understandable that hobbyists may not pile the sugar on in their replies.
I'll leave you with this: So long as you're upfront about your offerings, and make it clear that you won't be tickling the tool at all in your sessions, I wish you well, and hope you do well.
I don't have a problem with the honest answers that we're giving . I was just asking a question . The bullying has been deleted. Have a wonderful day!
Come on and understand the pun before you request this post be deleted...ok folks?
That being said...this poster re-iterates my opinion in so many words. I don't think he/she means any harm. There is some great info and some resources that have been given to you already. Believe me...if you were being bullied it would be a lot worse already.
First of all I'm not trying to tell you how to run your business but just give you some of my thoughts on the matter.
Your photos and rates will no doubt be the main factors on how many clients you attract which will then determine your income. You also didn't mention if it would be a part time or full time gig.
Not too long ago 140-150 was a pretty typical donation for both a DIY session and a standard HE session. Today, if a typical session is around 160-180 with a HE and your rate is approaching that I doubt you will get many clients unless they don't know any better. Once a review for you shows up on TER and confirms that you are DIY I would think most members will pass but of course there will still be some guys that want to test the waters and push your boundaries and see if you are really DIY. Another consideration is the session itself; are you going to be topless, nude, give some B2B and also the atmosphere of your studio?
There is already a legit sexy massage studio where the rates for an hour are 80 with a 20 upgrade for lingerie. So you might also want to take that in to account when determining your rate.
Best wishes in your venture.
I am not sure about your massage skills or if you are a CMT. But those will also play into the mix.
Lets put it this way..... If you are not a CMT, not giving a HE, and charging the same price point as HE or B2B places..... Why should people choose you? You better bring something else to the table or set yourself apart.
Now that wasn't a knock just something to think about. I mean you might find something you can do different than the other places to set yourself apart.... That is if you are not a HE, B2B, Nude, etc