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Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1617 reads
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If it was a "YMMV" I may cut the lady some slack and not write a review. If it was a rip-off or out and out deception I would not hesitate to tell it like it is. The honest, hard working ladies with nothing to hide will never hold this against you. The ones that have a problem with it are not the women you want to be seeing anyway.

I have just started this hobby and enjoy it a lot.  I have had a several fantastic encounters and a couple of terrible ones which I considered borderline rip-offs.  Should I tell it like it is on the reviews?  I felt that if I did that, some providers might be turned off or something like that if they read them.  I still felt like slamming them though.  Is it better to tell it like it is and maybe save someone else from that or just let it go and move on?

anon5566441867 reads

That's what reviews are for. Tell it like is it or was.

If it was a "YMMV" I may cut the lady some slack and not write a review. If it was a rip-off or out and out deception I would not hesitate to tell it like it is. The honest, hard working ladies with nothing to hide will never hold this against you. The ones that have a problem with it are not the women you want to be seeing anyway.

You may want to step back from the situation long enough to be objective, but you should definitely write a review.  A good review is advertising and helps her business.  A bad one warns the rest of us, and I believe in giving back for the benefits I receive.  Just because an experience may be bad doesn't mean you have to slam someone.  If you can explain in well chosen words what went wrong, nobody worthwhile will hold that against you.

Tell it like it is, and don't worry about whether other ladies might refuse to see you because you have a few bad reviews. Very few hobbyists rack up a handful of reviews without at least a few reviews that were less than positive. It comes with the territory and we understand that.

I certainly wouldn't pass on someone just because a few of their reviews were bad ones. So if that makes you feel better, than go ahead and write the reviews. That is what this site is all about. Helping guys spot the good ones, and avoid the bad ones :o)

that bad providers get panned.

It clear the market out and will direct more business to the good providers.

That's a win-win for the good guys and gals.

I appreciate everyones opinion.  I will try to wait a while after a bad experience before I write a review or else some emotion may come out in my words.  I have a tendancy to be upset after I feel that I get ripped off.

anon5566441595 reads

Tell it like it is, but please don't make any personal, gratutious (without reason or back-up) attacks. Knock yourself out in the review section. That is what it is for.

There is a term that many can understand which is YMMV. I’d encourage a hobbyist to be honest and state his impression and the details of what his encounter were. YMMV is always a factor and most hobbyists understand that.

You are doing the members of this site as well as the adult community a justice by posting an accurate review, that is what this site was built on.

Welcome to the hobby and I am in hopes that you will contribute as much as you have gotten in the way of knowledge from this site. The premise of giving back and contributing to the information base is what keeps this site up to date and accurate.

Happy hobbying….. kisses ~Tori

tell the truth after you have had time to reflect a bit.  I tend to find that holding off on doing a review, good, bad or indifferent helps a bit in being objective.  I now normally wait at least two weeks after a session before submitting a review.

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