Even though I am seeing an SB tonight I couldn't resist the urge to see this little Thai spinner this afternoon. Yes the same three hundred i spent on the Thai girl for an hour is the same amount as I pay the SB for several hours, but I don't care. It was a GREAT hour lol
I'm finding it harder to spend 300 to 500 for a pro 1 hour. My SB dates arent as off the wall hot but the other benefits seem to outweigh the negatives. Got a dryspell right now in SB land...been looking here but when I think that much for 1 hour I hesitate.
There are three pros in my area who are unfuckingbeleivably hot and all are at $500/hr. One I used to date somewhat regularly, one I dated just once and would love to repeat and one is still on my to do list. But I just haven't been able to bring myslef to spend that much on a one hour date since getting involved in Sugar Dating. I too am having a dry spell in SB land, so I'm tempted to call one of the pros. Haven't done it though.
As most of you know, I spend a LOT of time in Latin America, and ironically enough the prices in places like Costa Rica are almost exactly what you will find in the Sugar Bowl, $300-500 for an overnight date $100 hr or so for shorter dates. and even less in Colombia. I have ALWAYS had a problem paying upper end US prices, but $300 seems to be a number I can live with where it comes to hookers. I almost never book multi hour or overnight dates with American hookers for this very reason,
I really don't mind spending three hundred bucks for a good session with a pro however. I do like hookers and hookers sex, and even though I have a sugar date tonight, while i am in the city today, I may treat myself to a hooker as an appetizer. lol
If hookers were $500 hr in my area, Yeah I would have a VERY difficult time bringing myself to see them. I don't know why the extra couple of hundred bucks is so important to me, but $300 is my breaking point. Even $350 will make me take a pass. To me it's like paying $18 lb for filet mignon in the store. I can easily afford it, but I simply refuse to pay that much, even though I will go out and drop five hundred bucks on a dinner out without blinking an eye. it's funny how we are wired, isn't it?
While I'm not the playa you guys are, I've had the same feeling. The $ for sex with a pro are great BUT there is that something missing. Whether it's the pursuit, the clock issue, or just the business like attitude of some pros the SB land can feel more rewarding.
Even spending initial dates with SBs without any sex feel more fun then the provider sessions and it really is much more rewarding when the intimacy finally occurs with a SB provided it's not a provider in disguise.
Why would I pay 400-500 an hour when I can see a SB for 3+ hours? Most of the SB's I have been seeing are easily 8.5-9 on TER scale (the 10's usually ask for 1K per date which is too much for me), and I have no complaints about their bedroom skills (except the really young ones). I do still see K girls once in a while because they are bargains even compared to SB's.
The K-girls are always a good investment 
Even though I am seeing an SB tonight I couldn't resist the urge to see this little Thai spinner this afternoon. Yes the same three hundred i spent on the Thai girl for an hour is the same amount as I pay the SB for several hours, but I don't care. It was a GREAT hour lol
Can't agree more. K-girl has great money to value.
I can honestly say I haven't even thought about going to a pro since I met who might be the girl of my dreams on SA, which is saying something since I used to peruse the ad board at least once a week even if I didn't act on the impulse.
This is the first really good relationship I've found through SA (or any online dating for that matter), so I don't know how I'll react if things go south, knock on wood. I suspect I'd be up to my eyeballs in hooker therapy if it came to that haha.
I have found that pros are better at sex than SB's. And have better reliability and availability. In other words, there is a reason, one way or another, why these girls can't make it as pros
after all it's not like the Sugar Bowl is where women go after washing out of Hooker U.
What I have found is that SB sex is "different" than hooker sex, not better, not worse, just different.
Sugar sex seems to be more like civvy sex, with the girl focusing on her wants and needs, unlike a pro who is focused on your wants and needs. I have found that many SBs are a lot more genuinely responsive than women who fuck for a living, some of the SB's in their mid to late twenties haven't been fucked properly for years and some of the younger ones have NEVER been fucked properly and it shows in the way they respond to a tongue or a dick with decades of experience.
Personally, I like BOTH. I saw an SB Wednesday night a hooker yesterday afternoon, got flaked on by an SB last night and have plans with another SB in a couple of hours. I have to confess, of the four women, the hooker was the best lay of the bunch. If you are going to compare time spent vs money spent she was by far the most expensive, but she was so good I didn't mind at all getting stood up by the SB last night. lol
I guess I didn't make a real good case for my own argument, did I? lol
I have a nice 29 yr old SB, but she is wearing thin already, as many informed players on this site have already warned about. Several sessions with her (for the record I am twice her age but still in good shape and can pass for 50), but no great connection other than basic sex. Still won't really DFK - which is important to me and no BBBJ (not looking for BBFS at all)? I think this is going to be a deal breaker. I do really like making her/and watching her come a couple times a session and the real O's turn me on a lot, (I think 80% of pros fake it). But other than making her come, the sex is just ok. Also, our sessions are a bit of a rush job, and as others have stated, the no clock watching with the SB's can be one of the best parts.
Also, with the pros - finding somewhat of a "unicorn" is also a great thing. I have one for 3XX in my mid size market, and if she was in major city - would be 5XX for sure. Late 30's, perfect body, stunningly good looking, very fine woman and does all I want. I have really missed her talent in the sack, and am now looking at returning to her. As an attached person, the pros are still seeming to be the safest and easiest way to play for me. But I am sure I will try the SB game again at some point. It is very addictive, but you need to find the right one. The age difference is still an issue for me.
As a matter of fact that was what killed it for me with the first SB I met on SA. She was a very attractive Thai girl of 33, but who could easily pass for very early twenties, BUT she too would barely kiss and although I believe her O's were real, with out kissing I really stopped giving a fuck. Like you said "the sex was merely ok" so on to the next one I went.
I am in a different situation than you, being 100% single and I have to admit if I were married, I too might just stay in hooker land instead of the Sugar Bowl.
and tell her if she wants to continue, I need more out of this. I mean, just kiss me like you mean it, blow me, and screw me, what more need be said, this is really simple, I am not that demanding (seriously, I really am not). Nothing to lose since I am moving on otherwise. And your right about DFK, it's really important to me as well. I actually would probably be able to even overlook the CBJ, that's how much I like DFK'ing.
In the meantime, I have already scheduled a time with my preferred pro for later in the week. As many have said, most on here anyway, we all still like pros! Rarely a bad time to be had with one, assuming you do your homework.
I threw my very first SB I met on SA back for that very same reason. She really did act like she enjoyed fucking, but anything more than a light peck was out of the question, and like you "I put my foot down" after a couple of sessions, and then kicked her to the curb. Ironically, she reached out to me a couple of days ago after I threw her away maybe six months ago. I haven't bothered replying. There are too many girls out there who really enjoy what they are doing and kiss with passion without being "forced" to, to have to bother "forcing" some unwilling women to do something she clearly doesn't enjoy.
Have fun with your pro. I saw a pro yesterday afternoon, I enjoyed her every bit as much as I enjoyed the SB I saw the night before. Like you, I don't see this as an "either/or" choice. I like both.