OK call me a dumd ass. Yes I sent money before I went to hotel. I talked to her several times , she knew what was right beside hotel, and even gave me a referral e-mail. Needless to say once I got up the balls to go through with it and went to the hotel, there was not even that number. OK yes call me dumbass remember. So what the best way for a virgin hobbyist to get a girl that is legit and not going to get busted??? Thanks for any help in pointing me in the right direction.
If you are a VIP you will be able to read detailed reviews and send PMs to other VIPs. Very valuable tools and many more.
Don't hand over any more money until your ass is firmly planted inside the room.
I doubt this was a well reviewed provider. If it was, and in any case, name names on your local TER Board.
Stay with the well reviewed until you have enough gravitas to think about TOFTT.
that your not out on bail right now.
That's the biggest scare out there right now.
If you are new to the hobby read the numerous resources for newbies and read the archives until you think you know it all and then read some more. Only go with well-established, well-reviewed providers for a while. There are plenty in most areas, if not drive a little to the areas that do have them before you take the more adventurous route.
You are here, so that is a good start. Now start reading reviews of ladies of your choice in the areas that you plan to hobby in, or can get to. Get a VIP membeship, it allows you to view more information on a lady. You made the classic hobbyist #1 mistake, you allowed your little head to take over thinking.