Regardless of the City that you are in, there are always established providers who make it common knowledge of how they operate their business and the behaviors and practices they have.

Your notation of the recent incident in ATL neglected to add the “drug” factor. I am of the impression when drugs are mixed with any situation (*especially one requiring planning and discretion*) that the outcome could be less than desirable.

RS2K, date-check and preferred411 are all great sites that many providers use as a secondary screening. My bottom line is...… If you are uncomfortable exposing your personal information to a provider would you be comfortable in the vulnerability you are putting in your career, family and lifestyle by spending time with this woman????

I am a true believer that TER evolved as a tool for gentlemen who participate in the hobby to use to become aware of the behavior and mannerisms of the providers in the area. I’ve stated on numerous occasions how surprised I am that some men are more concerned with where they park their car than where they park their dick.

As a provider, I would no more agree to meet with a stranger who I know little about than I would be to walk the Downtown Streets after midnight alone...… some risks just do not need to be taken. Exposing your lifestyle, your family and your career to a provider that you do not have confidence in should be unthinkable with todays level of technology.

I’ll stand by my recommendation of doing research on TER and knowing the reputation of the provider you are planning a meeting with.

Your adult community should give you some indication as to the behaviors of the woman you are planning on meeting.    Kisses ~Tori