I have nothing against the 26-35yo SBs but I always seem to actually hook up with the youngest ones. I do have a lovely wife my own age at home so I've got the mature woman thing covered and am looking for fantasy fucks when I am Sugaring. That's probably why I gravitate towards the yougner ones.
Just had to throw this out, but since having a little experience in the Sugar Bowl, I find myself looking differently at woman - I guess mostly younger woman. I used to be very much a MILF man, always checking out the hot 35-50 year old's at Starbucks or the grocery store, etc. But now not so much, they just don't seem as hot anymore and I know they all have a lot of baggage because of there age and life experiences, like we all do. A 29 year old is a bit different and mostly in good ways, at least so far. I go see my SB for sex and then we part ways - which works for me.
Quick diversion, I have had a few short affairs in my married life with MILF types (except one that was off and on for much longer with a woman I cared about) and I have always looked for and thought I was a MILF man all the way. When I was in an affair with one MILF that was married (bad marriage and said her hubby had not f..k her in 10 years - his loss my gain - pretty mid 40's blond with great natural tits and she was multi orgasmic and just great in the sack) - but I won't comment on him, because I did not live with her for 25 years in that marriage. I also think we only show our best sides in an affair, since sex is usually the main part of it which is fun and none of the other issues of life enter into it - but that's a another topic completely. We would get together a couple times a month and then she divorced him. I figured great, now I can go see her at her place and no more cost to me for hotel rooms. Figure I spend the night and make her come 5 or 6 times - what could be better. But then she ghosted on me! I thought she really cared about me, but I know she was seeing a shrink and woman are very complex?
But back to the point of the thread, sweet spot for me is now 25-35 in the SB - I think I am over my age difference aversion. And whoever said this is a great spot to talk about our mutual interests, was right on the money. Just aren't that many places to discuss this stuff. All good.
Late 20s is ideal. Usually have some job. Still have great youthful look and many times are too busy for dating but still need cock.
I have nothing against the 26-35yo SBs but I always seem to actually hook up with the youngest ones. I do have a lovely wife my own age at home so I've got the mature woman thing covered and am looking for fantasy fucks when I am Sugaring. That's probably why I gravitate towards the yougner ones.
I have only been at this now about a month. And my play area is 600 miles away from where I live, so I have to plan my dates a week in advance. Given the natural flake, fake, and ghosts that happen due to the long range date setting I have had limited successful dates. Plus I am new and a little unsure of my game. I'm getting more confident and finding that I am getting more positive responses. I was getting good response to start but am hitting on initial dates better.
Last week was my best hit ratio for actually getting a date. Not by GaGa or Princess standards, but by mine. 2 dates actually showed and I could have taken both to bed. I chose not to do the first one because all she wanted was to get drunk and screw. I know what's wrong with that, except I didn't want to waste my allowance on the first date of the week when the others had a lot of promise too and I just didn't like something about her attitude. Can't place my finger on it, but I think it was the wanting to get drunk as fast as she could. Hmm am I that ugly? lol
Second one was older and I almost called her back the next night as the third date was a f___ing disaster. I won't go into details, but midway through dinner she started into politics and that made the pecker say not gonna happen tonight.
Fourth night, I got the something happened I can't make it about an hour before our date. So I called a hooker I knew that came over and took care of the allowance I had setup for the SBs that week. Again I almost called #2 for that, but I hadn't seen that hooker for a while and I was kind of feeling nostalgic about fucking her. I figured go with something you know. Maybe I'm not cut out for SD/SB but I know how to take care of the urge. lol
Next week I have a string of promising PYTs. 3 in there 20s and one who bailed last minute from the previous trip. Not holding my breath on that one because if she bails this time. She's gone. I am really hoping the 20 somethings this next week come through. So far, one seems very promising. The other two I'm not sure about, but not getting skeptical yet. Little brain is keeping its hopes high for next week. LOL
I salute you sir. That's dedication to the cause.
Funny but what you describe is similar to how most of my past experiences with SA went. Just a bunch of flaky questionable women so that the big head was able to maintain control. It really has been like panning for gold lol. Good luck to you out there! Hope you find a good match soon!