I have found the ones that I would consider fucking to have an extremely high opinion of themselves. And the others are too old and heavy.
I was wondering, are there any older sugar babies out there? I would be interested in women 50 to 60 years old. I'm 64 myself. I would love to hear thoughts/advice from anyone with experience in this regard. Thanks.
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I have found the ones that I would consider fucking to have an extremely high opinion of themselves. And the others are too old and heavy.
Women are no different than men. The older we get the more opinionated we get. I think your odds of finding one you like and want to have sex with will diminish in that age range. But you never know, you may find an old unicorn.
I wouldn't go so far as to say there are a LOT of them, but yes I am sure you can find what you are looking for.
I will say I have been contacted by several "over 45" women, but none of them were anything even close to anyone I would be interested in, but every one has different tastes. I would suggest simply plugging in the search parameters of what you are interested and see what pops up in your area.
That most of them think very highly (too much in some cases) of themselves and of what they "bring" to the table! This type almost always has a strong "bitch shield" forcefield around herself and is generally hard to get along with because when you scratch the veneer off that facade, she comes with oodles of heavy baggage. In fact they are not all delusional losers per se as some have been and have had a taste of the good life in their past (married on IRL relation to a happening and successful man) but are too set in their ways to adjust to their current reality.
The there are those who are the older "sweethearts" who are generally more giving and submissive but the bad news is that you will generally find them to be on the over weight side! If you don't mind them a bit heavier and chubbier, there is a good chance that you may in fact end up with a quasi GF who may not want much from you if you have some positives which you also bring to the table.
In closing, your chances of landing a 25 YO Unicorn are about the same, or even greater, than landing a 45 YO Unicorn when it comes to SA and that paradigm! Good luck.
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If I were to engage in an arrangement with someone in their 40's:
I would pay them to establish that this is purely an arrangement so the compensation $um is a contract of sorts that I can breach that agreement at any time (and supposedly vice versa). Think of it as Charlie Sheen's famous quote when it comes to P4P. Also let's not kid ourselves guys, there are some really, really HAUTE 40 something women around but they're rarely on SA. In my mongering days, I was duped into even fcuking a hooker who was past 50 (I wasn't even in my 50's then) who had misrepresented herself as a 40 YO!
One of the hottest hookers I had banged was this 47 YO G'Ma from TX (she truly was both HOT and a GILF!) with a body to die for, equipped with a great set of bolt ons and a six pack set of abs! The ass had lost the edge a bit due to gravity but everything else was so Yum-Yum! She had fallen on hard times as a realtor in Dallas in 2008 so someone had told her about hooking. She disappeared very fast though as she told me that a couple of her clients had suggested that she became a SB 
I am not opposed to entering into arrangement with a hot 40 something YO but my level of given allowance will be inversely proportional to her age! Nevertheless, I will pick up the tab when out and about, wining and dining and / or on trips. I will also be much less tolerant of playing the "game" with an older gal as I am with a young and fresh 20 something!
I recognized her as she used a couple of her hooker pictures on her SA profile.
She has reviews on TER and advertises her age, both in hooker land and the sugar bowl as mid thirties, but her booker told me her real age before she went Indy. Everyone seems to believe her age as she gets high scores, but I don't know if I could ever bring myself to not only have sex with a 54 year old, but pay her to boot.
Speaking strictly for myself, I don't need the clear lines that money seems to give you. If I want to dump a hooker, an SB or a Civvie girl, I just do it. I don't do long dramatic breakups, I just quit seeing them, if they blow up my phone, I either ignore them or block them. I don't need "clear lines" personally.
When I was on SA back in 2011-2012 when I had started, I was more into "earning" their affection rather than paying for their affection (hookerland rules) as I was both miffed and turned off by this whole hooker scene (I may sound like I'm ragging on hookers, but I admit that it just wasn't for me so every misplaced detail and misrepresentation just accentuated the bad experience for me personally!). So I found out quickly that the lure of $$$ makes some of these girls to forego the often "disadvantage" of age differential for the sake of "implied" or "imagined" spur-of-the-moment fun and perhaps some better future possibilities!
I am not criticizing what I was engaged in myself, but as someone more experienced by being on and off SA perhaps longer than most, I have learned that what works the best for me is to have clear and unburied lines. Also, I think that GaGa is an outlier with regards to having mastered the art of saying, "no" (it's a great things to have in one's repertoire and it took me longer than most to become less benevolent). My recommendation to married daddies would be to NOT play Casanova but to pay as you go.
Lastly and completely OT: whatever happened to the guy whose SB was hooked on vodka and banging men in the kids' bedroom?!!!
They know they can't compete wth 20-something hot coeds on looks so they try very hard to please their men in the sack. Almost all the SBs I met who would offer rimming, anal, CIM and swallow were older ones (over 30 but not older than early forties), and the most I have ever paid was 400. Young hotties, on the other hand, think they can coast on their looks so they tend to be lackadaisical in bed. They also ask for far more; 500 is normal and 1k for the real hot ones is not uncommon.
I was with only one SB that was much over thirty at 38 and while she was still VERY attractive and could easily pass for 25 she was no better in bed than the 18 year olds I've been with lately. As a matter of fact I have been seeing an 18 year old who will shame most older women in regards to skills. She has already given me a couple of BJs of close to a half an hour. PLUS she never asks me for money, nor have we ever discussed money in the most general of terms. Don't get me wrong, she is not, nor do I have the slightest delusion she ever would be fucking me for free, it's just that she is happy with whatever I decide to give her. The most I have given her was $300 and that was for a date that lasted about 18 hours.
I still think the best I have been with are the ones in their mid-late twenties who have just gotten out of bad, virtually sexless relationships. There is nothing like letting a still young woman take out on you the sexual frustrations that have been festering for years. I don't think I have ever felt so "studly" lol
She has great bedroom skills, and now she works for an escort agency so I stopped seeing her. Her ex-roommate who was also 18 at the time also works for an agency now and has great reviews. They are not even 20 now. But most of the young ones I have met just weren't very experienced at all. You are right about mid-to-late twenties being the sweet spot. The problem is the hot ones in that age range usually are expensive in the DC area. I would think Dallas and Atlanta probably offer the best value just like the escort industry.
but specifically about the rates in Atlanta and Dallas. I have lived in both cities and they have spoiled me to the point where when dealing with hookers, I just can't bring myself to pay more than $300 hr in hooker land and I won't go more than $500 for an overnight date in the Sugar Bowl.
I didn't get into the Sugar World in order to save money, but it's saving me literally thousands of dollars each and every month. I have a pretty healthy appetite for an "old man" where it comes to sex and I really do like to get laid if not EVERY day, at least MOST days. At even $300 hr, you can do the math and it does add up, but in the Sugar World I can get laid every single day at less than half of what I was spending in hooker land. lol
I took mine to PCB and had a good time. I think they are more reliable.
I'm 50 and the ages above are the best SB dates I have had.
I tried some 20 somethings and they just didn't click. I still do some very hot pros, but the SB dates are longer and more fun.
Also, a woman in her 40's knows the value of $300. They also know how to fuck and how they like to be fucked. They aren't shy about getting their orgasm, which means that are very happy to give me one, or two.