but yeah, pussies who call me out as a liar and then run and hide are a special kind of cunt in my book. lol
I wonder if he will EVER gain the stones to come crawling back here? I will confess, he was a good "counterbalance" to us single guys before he got too full of himself and tried to convince everyone, including himself I am sure, that the way we play the game was impossible. That is until the evidence was overwhelming and that's when he took his ball and went home.I noticed based on my experience that there are a lot of sb that develop feelings toward you after some time. The real sb that are looking for financial assistance with a guy they like is not that uncommon to see that. I like to hear what is your experience. I just had a weekend getaway with my sb and she did not charged me anything and told me that she love to date me. Now, I am double her age, she is 23 years old. That will never happen.
Anything is possible but if one party develops stronger feelings that the other, will be prone to getting hurt and sometimes by quite a bit. Initially a younger and less experienced SB may "fall" for a dashing and debonair SD and I don't consider mid 40s as too old for her (Princess is NOT a hardcore feminist 
). However a word to the wise: if you are single, unattached, unmarried; you better watch out if you fall for her charms and cooing because as she grows older, she will be craving her own playtime with the younger boys while you're sitting at home going crazy trying to check up on her social media account to discover as to whom with she's cheating on you!
That is why I ALWAYS, ALWAYS fcuking pay, because that is an insurance policy that I decide to cancel when I no longer need it. Underwrite your own policy!
I'm making payments on a car for a steady and if she drops me I drop the car. We do like each other.
You sound like an honorable guy, and we both know the honorable thing to do if you are dead set against a 'real" relationship with this girl is to nip it in the bud before her feelings get serious, but you already know that I am sure.
As for me, I recently had a SD/SB relationship that also had nothing to do with sugar and she two was half my age, her 28 me 57, but in my world I am completely open to IRL dating with a woman half my age or even a bit younger, I am also okay dating both SB's and hookers, How we met is not really that important to me and I don't look down on women or think the least bit less of them just because they take or have taken money in trade for sex. Hey we all have to get through life as best we can, right?
I admire the women I meet who are unabashedly involved in sex work, in any form. Good for them, for using the resources they've got to achieve their goals. And if they truly enjoy it, as most seem to, then it's a win/win. As for an emotional attachment, I'm the one who has to be careful. I "fall in love" way too easily! Never had a SB become too emotionally attached. I can see how that would be a problem.
I will have to say for balance, I have been seeing hookers since 1974, I joined SA in 2016. lol
But yes I have had a few hookers genuinely fall in love with me, not many, but a few. So far the strongest feelings that I have elicited from anyone I have met on SA was one girl almost exactly half my age, which meant she was starting to push 30 who never charged me a penny, dated me "for real" and at one point had a discussion with me about what to tell her father if and when we met about my age, she suggested I lie about my age and tell him I was 45 and not 57. This is the closest to "real feelings" I have gotten in the Sugar Bowl so far, but I can see if I stick with (not likely) the "older" SB's in their late 20's early 30's where feelings could develop, but my latest "rotation" of SBs are ALL in their teens with the oldest about to turn 20 in a week or so. It's VERY unlikely any of these teenagers are going to fall in love with this old man.
but yeah, pussies who call me out as a liar and then run and hide are a special kind of cunt in my book. lol
I wonder if he will EVER gain the stones to come crawling back here?
I will confess, he was a good "counterbalance" to us single guys before he got too full of himself and tried to convince everyone, including himself I am sure, that the way we play the game was impossible. That is until the evidence was overwhelming and that's when he took his ball and went home.
Z definitely spearheaded the S-Bowl movement on here. I do not proclaim him as the pioneer of that subject here on TER as I do not exactly recall as to how this started a few years back on here, but he was definitely one of the trailblazers on the subject when he used to come in here (and the GD) to described very lavishly about his S-Bowl adventures and his dates. The guy had a very fertile imagination and loved using $1000 words and expressions. Well, good for him.
However, the MoFo was a loner and would not integrate very well into anything and just loved to dissect every post that did not fall within his approved method to summarily dismiss those as fakes, frauds and lies. I can proclaim here and now with utmost certainty that those who post on here as SDs who have been seriously engaged in the S-Bowl (not the look-loo types) for 3-4 weeks, have gotten laid at the very least once! I mean for fark's sake, this is a major income stream for some of these SBs whose affection can be fast tracked with $$$ and those who are on the site like 24/7 (you know who they are if you pay attention). So subtracting the attention seekers and the catfish from that cabal, there are those who will fcuk you ASAP for $$$ just like hookers will do once you pass the screening process.
The new era of the TEH started with this post IMO.
I will concede it was a joint effort by Z and me on the S&P board that got Admin to get rid of that damn Pinned thread that killed this board for over a year and gave us room to turn this into the de facto "Sugar board" a few months ago.
I don't know if I would call Z a "loner" or at least not an intentional one, he just had to be "right" at all costs and that kind of mentality leads to not making many friends. I mean I am wrong all the time, but I just blame in on being PUI and I move on. Z didn't seem to be capable of that.
Care to share more?
zig
Maybe it wasn't as clear as I intended, but what I said was "stick with OLDER SB's, in their late 20's to early 30's" but went on to say the my latest "rotation" is full of nothing but under 21's
The subject was "real feelings" developing in the Sugar Bowl and I have maintained from the beginning I find it highly unlikely that any real feelings are going to develop with the under 21 SBs, but real feelings are a LOT more likely with the older SB's
I might have a VERY healthy ego and I firmly believe I can get a woman half my age to fall in love with me, I don't have any delusions about getting a girl only one third my age to do so though. I am cocky, not stupid.lol
But yes I have had a few hookers genuinely fall in love with me, not many, but a few. So far the strongest feelings that I have elicited from anyone I have met on SA was one girl almost exactly half my age, which meant she was starting to push 30 who never charged me a penny
Patronizing hookers since 1974...perhaps the Nobel Committee may take notice of this achievement.
Onward...
I've been meaning to post about my own feelings about being a SD. I will soon, I guess. Short version: sometimes, it's a bummer.