No surprises for either of you that way!

to accompany you for a specific length of time for a specific price  takes care of the monetary issue.  The question then becomes whether or not her "extras" deserve additional compensation.  My view is that the issue has already been addressed by the agreed upon date.  Do you really think that "extras" are for free?

Go out.  Have a good time.  If you feel like that was worth more than your agreement, tip her.  If not, don't.  Providers are not like waitresses, they determine who their customers are and at what price.  I always tip restaurant waitresses between 15 and 20%, because they don't determine their own worth or who their customers are.

Hope that helps.

All the best to you.


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If not, you'd best find out.  She might be expecting her full rate for however many hours this ends up lasting.

...when you say you are paying the "date" expenses?

I think all the other posters assumed you were paying her rates for time but I interpreted it as saying you would be buying the tickets, food, drink, concert shirts, etc.

If I am correct then for keeripes sakes man don't tip her at all!  Showing her a wonderful time and treating her like a human being whom you value and enjoy spending time with is the greatest tip of all.  Showing her that her enjoyment, and her meaning to you, is more than just sex and money is priceless.  Don't tawdry it up by bringing business into it.

And no, I am not spewing the "falling in love with a provider" angle some of you are thinking of.  I have taken some of the wonderful women I have met out for breakfast, lunch, dinner, sporting events, etc.. and it meant nothing more than some people who enjoy each others company enjoying some time spent together.

If I am wrong and you are paying her for her time then you should always remember that the best tip of all is seeing her again.

I also need a few more details...

So I take it you are going to a concert (4-5 hours long)... then do you plan to have quality time after concert?  Or just parting ways after concert?

Because if you are both planning on quality time.... then the "tip" is included with the original pricing.   If you are parting ways after concert again no tip needed.   Because you again are paying for what you both expected to happen in the original fee.    

Plus like others mentioned.... show her a good time.   Treat her like you would treat a civie.... that is the greatest tip some people want... to just have a good time and relax.   Enjoy your time and go from there...

Now if you both were not expecting "extra" time and it happens..... don't bring up money unless she does.   Now this isn't me being a cheap ass or anything like that.   Because she might just be showing you appreciation for having a great time at the concert.   And if you bring up money it will taint the whole experience for both of you.   But if she brings it up... then you will should still be under the impression it was a business transaction from the get go.

Tipping on a concert date would be tacky, would you tip anyone else you took to a concert?  The initial agreement settles it is a P4D and after that it is simply lets go have fun!

Since your OP states "concert date" I am taking into account that is it for the date concert and part ways.  Now IF you have original plans include P4P then tipping is at your discretion.