It's prophylactic discretion.
Ashley Madison was hacked. It's easy to imagine SA as another target. If you have any semblance of a distinctive name, it seems to me like common sense. So, any good methods?In the past, I've used a pre-paid credit card. But that option doesn't seem to be working now. What are you guys using?
I do feel sorry for you married guys sometimes, but then I remember I WAS one of you married guys once upon a time and I chose to buy my freedom. That's when I stop feeling sorry for you. Sorry.
as I keep mentioning, but nobody gives a fuck about that particular weirdo opinion of mine I guess. My wife must be the last true living Unicorn since she lets me fuck around to my heart's content.
It's prophylactic discretion.
Ashley Madison was hacked. It's easy to imagine SA as another target. If you have any semblance of a distinctive name, it seems to me like common sense.
So, any good methods?
Just like me being FULLY out, or lopaw being a female monger, or Scoed being married to a hooker, I guess we are the "exceptions that prove the rule" lol
Let me put it this way, Marriage and freedom are very RARE, you are one of the lucky ones. The rest of us either had/have to buy our freedom, or go slinking around hiding what we do from EVERYBODY. I honestly can not imagine living my life as a lie, lying 24/7 to everyone I knew, not just my wife. I simply don't understand how some/most guys here do it.
I mean life sucks and then you die... but no reason for attached men not to enjoy some of this fun. I like to think, no I know, I am very careful in this arena and also in P4P - and traveling for my job helps a lot. I only play with one SB at a time, and that works for me. I just don't want to give up half of my net worth so I can be "out in the open" - it's just not an option for some of us.
but each to their own. I try not to be judgmental in this regard. I don't always succeed, but I do try. lol
I only play with one SB at a time too, but I do have a "first date" with a POT SB who is bringing a cute friend, so maybe I will have my first SB double tonight?
I guess that's NOT what you meant when you said "only one SB at a time" was it. lol
For the record, I got married at a rather late age and divorced at a rather early age, so I knew that despite giving up at least half my shit, I was only in my thirties and I had plenty of time to earn "more shit" If I ever were to marry again, there would be no divorce, an "accident" perhaps, but no more divorces for this guy.
I think I know what you mean by that - but I won"t ask anything more. I have kids, so that affects my decisions. No kids - I am probably be long gone.
Anyway, yes I was speaking of only one SB at a time, but your comment made me think about the other option and it sounds interesting. The SB I have is a fit right now and there is something to be said for that given my attachment. She always seems available when I need her, she's sane, attractive and she wants this to be very under the radar like I do. She can host - so as stated many times here, to each his own. But with work and patience, I think I could find another one fairly easily. I do envy those of you in S CA - sounds like a SB paradise. I am in Mid Tier MW city - but still ok.
I'm not married either, so I don't have to sneak around, but on the other hand as the other poster said, I'm worried about these sites getting hacked (like Yahoo, most recently) and want to preserve my anonymity for personal and professional reasons. SA doesn't provide any such options, as far as I've read. So, I'll ask again, has anyone figured out how to pay for VIP on SA anonymously?
Use Paypal and link it to the prepaid card. That's how I did mine last month. It's time re-up so we'll see if it still works when I get home tomorrow.
I'm buying one more pre-paid and will try to go through paypal. I think the type of prepaid might matter? Visa was turned down, which was a first for me.
Not sure how or why this worked the first time, but am not having the same success this month. So I had to change tactics. Setup a separate Paypal account from one you may be using for things like e-bay. Use the regular account to transfer funds from your regular CC to your play account. Then use the Paypal option and use your play account to pay the bill. Still leaves a trail but you can probably come up with an explanation that makes sense if you get challenged by the wife.
I use a prepaid visa. It doesn't work on their standard form, but if you email the info (card #, eep date, three digit code) oo customer service they will figure out a way to make it work. Not sure how. Anyway this is how I've been doing it for a few months.
After the AM leak, I am not taking any chances.