Ive had 3 that thought I was da bomb just because I know shit.
OTOH....many of them set the bar very low....lol....nice when you find one that actually has some idea about the world.One aspect of Sugar Dating that we haven't discussed except in passing is the Mentor/Protege part of some arrangements, which I enjoy very much. I know some SDs are in it strictly for the sex and could care less about other things. And that's cool. But I really enjoy having a smart but naive young thing look up to me in awe of my vast knowledge and great advice. (from her perspective!) Just last night I had a date with one of my SBs. We went to our favorite eatery for some food, then retired BCD for some extremely fine sex, then I gave her an "Intro to Retirement Planning 101" lesson, complete with numbers and calculators showing how much she would have over 40 years of investing at different rates of return. This is the kind of guidance I enjoy giving and is something completely missing from typical encounters with pro providers.
Ive had 3 that thought I was da bomb just because I know shit.
OTOH....many of them set the bar very low....lol....nice when you find one that actually has some idea about the world.
Be careful to NOT emphasize much on mentoring in your own profile as this will turn off some women because it will give them the impression that you are just all talk and no action, i.e, tight fisted and not very "generous". Let your mentoring side show up organically when you meet someone so that they would benefit from your wisdom and life experiences. Women love an experienced and worldly benefactor but to some if the SD harps on mentoring in their profile, this could be a red flag.
The only thing I make clear is that I'm DTF! L9L
I agree and I don't mention anything about mentoring on my profile. Some SBs mention their desire for a mentor in their profiles, in which case I will tell them in my messages that I too enjoy that kind of arrangement. Otherwise, I just let it develop organically. And if she has zero interest in my accumulated knowledge I will stfu and just fuck her brains out!
I am with you, I'd rather STFU and fuck her brains out too.
"Some SBs mention their desire for a mentor in their profiles,..."
SB's say a lot of things: their last SD gave them $5k/mo, they model part time, they can't see you this weekend cause they're going to visit their cousin, etc. Which is why one of my general rules is, never believe what a SB says. Because you don't have to and it isn't really important anyway.
Admittedly I don't have a huge sample set to work from, but I've been out with more than a couple SB's that had stuff in their profile about mentorship and the like, but it never comes up and that's fine with me. When they write their profile, they're just aping what they think they're supposed to say. That's not to say I don't prefer the intelligent ones (I very much do), but what really matters to me is that they show up and know how to have fun.
Amen. And profiles written way too late at night with fuzzy heads.
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