Us escorts get stood up on a regular, it's a mean thing to do to someone especially if they toke a long time getting ready doing their makeup, fixing their hair and then you don't show up. I'd blacklist your number for that.
I normal don't rant about such things, I simply call it a day and move on. But since this is now the third time after going through the whole process, I will cause it's gotten old real quick. From my perspective, I would rather have a lady decline my request and be upfront than to get notice at the 11th hour that she's canceling for what I seriously consider a very highly questionable reason (one that is like the standard excuse for a kid not turning in his homework), whether it's true or not I'll never know.
This AM is a prime example. Moments after I let them know I'm on my way, I get the dreaded notice. Wondering what would have happened if I hadn't informed them and merely showed up at the correct time. The only saving grace is that I didn't spend all that time driving there and then hearing it when I arrived.
if that's all the facts. I don't think I've had 3 cancels in 10+ years. Maybe one last minute. Keep the faith.
ps ... is there anything you presume you did correctly that may have elicited the cancels. if not, stay out of casinos for the foreseeable future.
I keep my communications to the minimum and usually by the second contact everything is good. I use a verification site to do all this as well. Makes it easier for her to verify me. I've never been declined a second meeting with any of the ladies I've seen.
Just dislike having my time wasted like this. There were a couple of other ladies I.could have scheduled time with. Now that opportunity is gone. I have limited availability, so last minute changes aren't easily accommodated.
Last no show I had was a result of the entire operation being shut down and the 'boss' being thrown in jail. Count your blessings, don't return to that provider/service and move on...#firstworldproblems
In 10+ years i had one cancel and one no show. Both were medical emergencies and when they were recovered they were more than gracious.
Fool you once, shame on them.
Fool you twice, shame on you.
The third time? You could have your man-card confiscated.
Each appointment was with a different lady. Two of the cancellations appears to have been a legit reason based on what I've seen. This last one, like I said, was highly questionable considering the timing and also what I consider one of the most over used reasons I've heard.
To borrow a phrase used by a very prolific poster on the GD board, you should know this phrase since he's used it often, "I may beg for pussy, I may even pay for pussy, but I will NEVER beg to pay for pussy".
As for my man card, that one comes with the phase "Molon labe".
I've no intention to come and take it.
However, you do need to get your karma realigned, seriously.
I lucked out and had a chance to meet just an amazing lady. Life is good.
We all have to deal with no shows and last minute cancellations. Luckily you're just out of an hour of play time. Not to mention you just saved yourself $300 or so. Besides, I'm sure you can find someone to see instead. Lots of girls take last minute requests for reasons exactly like this... because someone has cancelled at the last minute or not shown up.
Girls get now shows and last minute cancellations all the time. We are out the cost of the room, the hour it takes to shower, shave, blah blah blah. It's just the nature of the business. It's also part of the reason I rarely see new guys anymore. Established clients rarely, if ever, no show or cancel at the last minute. I cut someone off two weeks ago for having constant last minute 'rescheduling'.
So maybe just find yourself a nice reputable girl who is in the same boat you're in who will be grateful to see you so she isn't eating the cost of her room because she got the shaft too.
Hope your luck changes though.
xx
Whit
I'm aware that you ladies have to deal with a lot more cancellations, NCNS, etc than I ever will. I don't reach out to a lady unless I'm 1000% certain that nothing will preclude me from arriving when I said I would. I recently had the privilege of meeting a spectacular lady and being new to this area, I allocated what I thought was sufficient time to drive to the location. Traffic was horrible that day and I kept her informed. I was late, but that was on me. Since she allocated that time, that wasn't her fault. I still left what I was supposed to. I don't think she expected me to, but I knew it was the right thing to do.
Us escorts get stood up on a regular, it's a mean thing to do to someone especially if they toke a long time getting ready doing their makeup, fixing their hair and then you don't show up. I'd blacklist your number for that.
Yes, she did send a response seconds after I told her I was on my way thankfully. I actually had one lady who I had seen before pull a complete disappearing act on me in the span of less than a minute. I drove 40 minutes to see her. When I arrived she her word, got final destination and then...........crickets when I outside the door. I mean nothing. She had completely ghosted me. I sent her two messages and never got a response.
I do have a small list of ladies that I will never contact again for doing this.