Totally agree. His irritating habit of these link replies gave me pause, but I did it anyway.
Remember when there were a few gals on here that ran some oral only specials? I sure miss them!
Centuries ago... (LOL) and worked on bp, I offered French Specials for 100$. But, that was before I learned this trade. No one ever tells you how to do things in this business, you kind have to figure out for yourself- and looking back now I am so embarrassed that I offered that!!
Which is the number one reason that I like to mentor / assist new ladies. Because I had zero help when I was new.
The kind I meant was from FS providers who offer oral-only sessions at a rate lower than their FS sessions. More than $100 
but a nice discount off their FS rate.
Also FWIW many of Minnesota's top providers advertise on bp. It's not the channel; it's the person and how they deliver their services that counts, in my book.
I don't know why anyone would run oral only specials. Time is money... Escorts charge for their time. Charging for specific sexual services is illegal (obvioisly), which makes it much harder to hide under the veil of charging for "time only", especially when you're dealing with back page ads which are so frequented by le.
In addition to that, so many clients understand and respect that a lady's time is what is valuable. Many, many men are more than happy to pay to spend time with a lady... Go out to dinner, just hang out etc without any sexual services at all. True companionship goes a lot deeper than just sex, in my opinion and the opinion of many clients I've spoken with. So why would I give a discount for "oral only" when many of my regular clients pay my full rate and don't expect any type of sex?
It's just like the men who want a 15 minute session because "they can't last longer than that". When in reality, a true gentleman pays a lady for their time... Not for the time in their pussy.
... but an unexpected one, since it appears you charge extra for specific service(s). I'm having trouble understanding how your charging more for certain service(s) is materially different than a FS provider offering a lower rate if a session is not FS, i.e. is oral-only.
But of course, you and every provider should offer their time, and services, for what they think is fair compensation and works for them. Just because some providers offer a discounted rate for oral-only doesn't mean that's right for you.
I do completely agree with you that true companionship goes a lot deeper than sex.
In addition to that, so many clients understand and respect that a lady's time is what is valuable. Many, many men are more than happy to pay to spend time with a lady... Go out to dinner, just hang out etc without any sexual services at all. True companionship goes a lot deeper than just sex, in my opinion and the opinion of many clients I've spoken with. So why would I give a discount for "oral only" when many of my regular clients pay my full rate and don't expect any type of sex?
It's just like the men who want a 15 minute session because "they can't last longer than that". When in reality, a true gentleman pays a lady for their time... Not for the time in their pussy.
When you buy a car they offer a base model and then they offer upgrades from there. They don't, however, offer a lower than base model for cheaper than the base model. Buy the car if you want it, grab some upgrades if they strike your fancy, but don't try to ask for a 4 door with no backseat for cheaper
Sidenote: I never advertise Greek if I post on backpage 
and services here on TER are available to be seen by only vip members. The ads I post here also avoid mentioning Greek.
I'll put my disclaimer since apparently stating opinions on discussion boards is no longer acceptable.
***all posts that I post are my opinion only, not fact (unless otherwise specifically stated) and not meant to be offensive. They are meant to add to an interesting topic that I think my opinion is relevant to.
... "full service", not "base service". Kinda like a top-trim car. For people who don't want all the features, like leather and moonroofs etc., there's less expensive trims. Still very nice cars, just not with all the features that are available. And even on the top trims there's dealer add-ons available that some people like.
The thing about discussions is that sometimes everyone will agree with each other's opinions... but often they won't. I think discussions would be pretty boring if everyone always agreed.
I agree. Opposing views is what makes discussion. Otherwise it would just be "yes! +1" etc. Boring... Anyhow I see I am very unwelcome, so best wishes to each his or her own and be safe and prosperous!! Peace and love
Just thought I would have some fun with the analogy...
If a provider were to be say...unable to be available for a FS session due to a cycle...and she is looking to continue to book appointments for say a week or so...why not advertise such a special especially if she rocks the cock in that way. The OP was referring to certain providers that previously offered those specials frequently (perhaps monthly) and if I recall they were very popular and very well reviewed. So...you do your business your way and perhaps let others discuss a different way of doing business without judging.
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I didn't realize sharing my opinion on a discussion board topic was judging. I thought this was an open forum where all opinions were welcome, my mistake. Any lady can choose to conduct her business in any way she likes. As long as she is happy, then I am happy for her. I was simply stating my opinion. I guess I should have out that disclaimer on my post.
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I read and reread it and it frankly does come across as judgmental to me.
Don't play the defensive victim. Your "sigh" post was loaded and you know it. Forgive me for upsetting you by providing MY opinion. Let me guess...I'm the misogynist in the situation even when you were slamming other providers?
Nope, I don't and didn't have a problem with your post, was just stating my response. Post whatever you'd like. I forgot, providers aren't welcome to post unless they agree with everything all you gentlemen are posting. I'll go back to not participating, I forgot that in mn we can't have opposing views without insulting or being judgemental. I started out my post with "I don't understand..." meaning my personal understanding, or lack thereof, was what I was speaking on. Anyhow, didn't mean to start any type of argument. To each, his or her own. Peace and love
Besides the alias who responded to your posts (and who cares what an alias says anyway) nobody that has responded to your posts has been in the least bit insulting or disrespectful, myself included. We pointed out OUR OPINION of your "sigh" post and your subsequent responses. From there you quickly claimed the party line excuse of "TER isn't provider friendly." I don't agree with that in the least bit. I was exchanging opinions with you as were other reviewers. If you don't like the response that's fine. You have a voice here as do I and the next person. When you play the "I'll shut up now because the MN TER discussion board isn't provider friendly" card it's no different than a 5 year old on the playground who suddenly announces "I'm taking my ball and going home."
"So...you do your business your way and perhaps let others discuss a different way of doing business without judging"
That is copy and pasted from your post in response to me. The minute I post any type of opinion I'm immediately told in less words to shut up and stop judging, pretty sure that's telling me my opinion is unwelcome. But anytime a guy on here posts that he doesn't understand high rates or tells someone they have "golden pussy syndrome" that's not judging and is completely welcome... And then another provider posted "go to East Lake street" and no one attacked her or called her judgemental. It is what it is, like I said I didn't mean to start anything. And honestly, even if it is an alias, the insults are unnecessary.
Opinions are opinions and not facts because not everyone can agree on them. We can't argue and say that the grass doesn't turn green in the summer because that's a fact. If stating an opinion is considered judging, then I guess I'm very judgemental...shoot me. I can't make myself agree with the majority if I just don't.
Maybe it is like the kid on the playground, but I've worked too hard on my self confidence and self esteem to get ripped apart and called names everytime I post something, call it what it is, I'm not ashamed... Its just a waste of my time to type a thought provoking response when no one cares anyways.
. Like I said earlier, no hard feelings against you or the OP or any other the other participants to be honest. Hope you all enjoy your summer
When you post something, others may reply to you and they may disagree with what you had to say. And sometimes those disagreements may be significant. But just because someone disagrees with you strongly doesn't mean they are disrespecting you.
Anyone who reads this latest response can understand your angle and what you are really pissed about. You bring up discussion about "high rates" and "golden pussy syndrome" when that was never a part of this thread so far. Just so you know...that provider that posted "go to East Lake street" wasn't talking about you. Work on your reading comprehension and maybe you will understand why "no one attacked her or called her judgemental." (I can quote you too) If we all gave up when we felt like "Its just a waste of my time to type a thought provoking response when no one cares anyways" there wouldn't be any aliases right? What fun would that be?
Dude. I didn't say that she was talking about me. She clearly directly responded to the OP which you can see by looking at the thread, just as I responded to the OP with my first response. She was saying you could go to East Lake to look for oral only specials. I have fine reading comprehension, thank you... Maybe you should work on yours.
Seriously, this is just getting ridiculous. You don't like me or my responses, I get it, cool, like I said, to each his own.
I hope no one leaves this board. Especially because of a topic i started. I know not everyone is always going to agree but that's what makes the world go around. I think we are very blessed as a whole with the boards, providers and hobbyists we have in minnesota! I know this board has helped me imensley.
This reminded me of Last Week Tonight episode, specifically the bullying of women online.
https://youtu.be/PuNIwYsz7PI
Some should take heed of this disturbing reality.
Totally agree. His irritating habit of these link replies gave me pause, but I did it anyway.
A true lady, which you seem to think you are, would not be discussing her pussy. You don't seem very qualified to discuss a true gentleman either.
In addition to that, so many clients understand and respect that a lady's time is what is valuable. Many, many men are more than happy to pay to spend time with a lady... Go out to dinner, just hang out etc without any sexual services at all. True companionship goes a lot deeper than just sex, in my opinion and the opinion of many clients I've spoken with. So why would I give a discount for "oral only" when many of my regular clients pay my full rate and don't expect any type of sex?
It's just like the men who want a 15 minute session because "they can't last longer than that". When in reality, a true gentleman pays a lady for their time... Not for the time in their pussy.
It's hilarious to me that posting my opinion immediately brings about personal insults... None of which I threw at anyone, by the way. Whatever, I see that it's a crime to disagree and all I encounter are insults when I was just trying to strike up an interesting discussion. Best of wishes to all and I do believe we can all consider ourselves ladies and gentlemen if we do so please, which I do
There are still some of us that can only last 15min have all the companionship they need at home and are just looking for the "time in the pussy"
But when the tables are turned then the ladies want more for their time!
Meaning there are guys that want-need-prefer to spend time talking, playing, teasing through time and the ladies enjoy it.
But what if the guy wants to spend the entire time having sex, doing certain acts then the ladies have higher prices for that time!
An hour talking and no sex 300 an hour all spent fucking+ greek vacation + bbbjnsnqcim +. Hardly seems fair right!
Their are ladies that have 1 price for their time no matter what happens, then there are the rest.
The hobby has many business models that cover many aspects of the hobby in different ways, no way is perfect and no way is best. They seem to work differently for everyone.
I say everyone should play with whom they want for the right price for them and not worry about what others are doing or paying for!
Have a happy "fucking" "teasing" "talking" whatever makes you happy day everyone!
I should have went into a little more detail. As I do appreciate when someone offers a special on there services thats really not what I was trying to say. I was talking about a couple providers that are not available anymore that oral was there specialty. And I really do miss them. I have seen a lot of wonderfull ladies here in Minnesota and have not had a bad experience yet. I really try to respect them all and think I have? Actually my idea of a perfect date is 2 hours. Yes Kia I am one of those guys that are only good for 15 min but truly enjoy cuddling and getting to know who I'm with in between our 4 15 minute sessions during our 2 hour date.
Ps. Vi I hope to get in your area again some time! Miss you in redwing. Kia I hope to see you sometime too. You have been on my favorite list as your pictures have always intrigued me!
Likewise Joe...anywhore, I always make an east lake suggestion because it's easy .
Mr. Joemac1234,
Thank you for clarifying your OP. I understood your OP as you were referencing some now retired/otherwise unavailable providers who were well reviewed and adored for the "oral only specials." I think some other posters on this thread somehow didn't understand your OP so I'm glad you clarified that you were talking about those providers giving a "specialty" offer that was...should we agree...well received. And to answer your original question, I do miss those providers and the offer they had. I think there is a niche for that kinda thing that another provider could swiftly take over if that works for her business. If someone offered a "special" for going out to dinner, hanging out watching movies, and not having any intimate time I would be all for that too. Call me crazy but I would be the first to book that offer but it would have to be a provider I really wanted to meet to have a platonic session like that...otherwise I can think of a few civie women friends I can ask out instead. Just saying Kia...
Dude!
The way i read your post. " 4-15min. Sessions within a 2hr date" Must mean 4 pops in 2 hrs. With cuddling in between! Or your math is bad.
I could only dream if 4 pops in 2 hrs.
Bravo!
Like I said. The perfect senario! But yes I have experienced that several times with these wonderful minnesota providers!