Hi all. Just wondering. Is is usually the provider or the hobbyists responsibility to have covers. I recently had an appointment with a higher end provider and was told that I should have brought it. Needless to say, i had the most expensive Hj/bj. Ive ever had! No offers of discounted service or anything.
Seems to me that when i go somewhere to pay a lot for a service, im never expected to bring my own supplies.
Dude you got played. I hope if what you said is real you post a review. My thoughts on covers is as such...if she comes to me I have covers galore at my place. In fact they are kind of like wallpaper at my joint. If you go to her incall then she needs to have them available. Fuck ups happen but that's the exception and you should have felt that "oh shit" on her part when she said she didn't have any. Otherwise at that point you need to re-assess the appointment accordingly. Covers are the holy grail LEO wants to find on you so if you walk into a first appointment with anyone you don't know then packing protection is a fools bet. If she plays the "I don't have protection" or "I just got my period" then walk away with a small cancel fee. Please share further if appropriate.
I agree. But going to an incall? There was no oops! moment until over half way through the session.
I guess I just have never had an issue before. It was like, "oh well" on her part. I knew I wasn't getting any of the donation back so i finished it out. And yes, a review will be written soon.
...if it's a high-end provider (not BP), covers usually provided by her. If I were you, I'd insist on splitting the donation 50-50 and part ways. I'd never do HJ at that rate. Just my two cents
I wouldn't put the BP spin on it. The unspoken cover issue holds true regardless. And I seem to recall at least one "high-end provider" posting on BP this weekend. That is is you call established TER reviewed provider "high-end."
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Unfuckingbelievable! I might mention to her that if her name was to be revealed for this behavior it could have an impact on future business. It's happened to me before but never with a high end provider. To be expected to provide your own protection is ridiculous. And for her to not make it right is really unprofessional. Sorry you had to experience that. Happy Father's Day
Well, if you had met with her prior to this occasion, I would think she could have let you known you needed to bring them. If this was your first time with the provider, it's always good to be prepared for anything....
Yes to the first thought (for the most part) and yes if you mean in a general sense it's best to be prepared for anything on a first meeting regardless of who she is....if you mean it's always good to be prepared by packing protection on a first meeting I would have to say no bueno.
The problem, of course, is if the clothes are long gone and you've worked your way through DATY and BBBJ before you ask for the cover, you can't really storm out in a huff and it's pretty late to be negotiating a discount. I was pissed but didn't have the balls to try. The explanation I got was that all the celebrity high rollers in Vegas insist on supplying their own cover to avoid paternity suits. I didn't find it convincing, but like you I walked away with a high priced bj and was new and unsure enough I didn't write a review.
In Minnesota, and every other state I have visited, it is absolutely the standard that providers provide the cover. Most insist on it for their own protection. A cover that's been in a wallet for a couple months is weak protection, and there's the risk of a malicious client who pokes a hole in the cover. If the provider you saw was visiting, or you were not in Minnesota, it's barely possible she was sincere. I doubt a Minnesota provider who has any experience could believe the story you were told. Either way, I agree you should post a review so maybe the next guy is forewarned.
Definitely the provider responsibility. I never expect a client to bring his own, if he does and has a preference or allergy... Then great, but I always have non-latex with as to accommodate most everyone I can.
I remember one time I had a very embarrassing situation where I drove to an outcall and realized I forgot one when I arrived. I didn't want to be late, so I ran up to the room, explained quickly and ran across to the gas station to buy some and provided an extra 15 minutes for free for my mess up. Lucky for me the guy was cool and we even laughed about it later and he told me I recovered very well from it. Since then, I make sure to keep a few in every purse I own, just in case 
Failing that she should have at least offered a significant discount. Her behavior was unprofessional.
I would've insisted on BBFS and paid the extra donation if necessary. If a provider doesn't want you to fuck uncovered, she should bring condoms to the session.
God knows that there are many of them.
well, now I remember why I stopped participating on these boards. only a fool would insist on bbfs with a provider. risky enough but a provider who might go bare with any new client. ur either already HIV+ or love playing russion roulette. Any provider should now have you on their personal blacklist.
coming from a guy with 150+ perverted reviews, I'm surprised you're not a BBFS hobbyist.
Also, she could of just downgraded the session for you ( although you're paying for time and not for specific services.
Meaning, you aren't going to always get FS.)
It's just the nicer thing to do, that way there's room to make it up next time you visit .
Seems to me that when i go somewhere to pay a lot for a service, im never expected to bring my own supplies.
Those are nice thoughts msdynamite. Trust me, I truly enjoy and appreciate the ladies' " time " I am getting. But Your post, "your not always going to get" might mean you and I wouldn't be compatible. If I want just a hj. I would go see one of my favorite massage ladies. Or for that matter, I could pull one off myself. Although I appreciate a providers time, I may or may not speak for most but my 1 to 2 hrs of time needs to include a least a 15 min roll in the hay. Lets face it.
You're not always going to get fs as in the contract is unenforceable...there is no contract, I'll never understand why some don't get that .
See now why legalization would be a great help to the hobby for both parties ?
...for the lady to not have any with her and then attempting to downwardly adjust the rate would just be a buzzkill for me and I'm sure the mood would be lost. All the ladies is see are highly rated, well reviewed and/or high end so I have practically zero paranoia about carrying a condom or two on me. It's happened to me a few times where reputable Provider thought her hobby bag had some in it but didn't or where a lady may have been a substitue for someone else who couldn't make it and she just came from work or the gym and wasn't prepared.
I always bring my own condoms to a session with a provider, it would seem foolish to ruin a perfictly good time together for an oversite like that. (it's never happened to me)
The only thing you should have to worry about is enjoying yourself!
Thanks for all the great feedback. The consensus is, that the provider should provide the tools necessary. Especially when charging upwards of $500 for a service. Also you providers that chimed in understand the business end of things. This situation will cost the person future visits at least from me.