Thanks, GaGa. I will try to move on and use the Z approach.
I wonder why would a SB avoid married men. This POT SB who had a bad divorce so probably pissed with cheating men says that she will only see single men, separated or divorced but has no desire to be with a married man. I was honest about telling my status and was trying to convince her that NSA is guaranteed with the married men.
Any pointers from the wise men here, I like her but perhaps I am picking the wrong chicks on SA 
So, for her to see a married guy is too close for comfort.
Sorry, you'll have to find another or divorce your spouse first
Some want married men. Some don't. Most don't care as long as the sugar flows. Wow. They sound almost like pros but maybe slightly more selective.
Any woman with sense knows NOTHING real is going to come from seeing a married man. Especially a woman who's life "was ruined by a homewrecker"
Hookers never delude themselves about having anything real, most prefer married men as the potential for drama is so much less.
I actually make it a point to let POT SB's know that I have no wife and no kids. It lets them know that if we "click" I can put all my attentions towards them, well them and the other 3-4 SBs that I am seeing at any particular point in time. lol
You're lucky on so many levels, GaGa!
I wondered if she really does not want to date me cause she doesn't want to wreck a home cause then I could explain how SBs and escorts save marriages everyday. And if she really wants something more than an arrangement then I could emphasize that she will get all my attention. Now it's hard to tell which one it is and how to play it.
Or once again, it's time to move on...
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The good news is, a LOT of SB's like married men for the very same reasons MOST hookers actually preferred married men, and not to revive the dead, but I believe that is where the Z approach is most likely the most effective.
I am not chasing the SB who has a "real" BF and is just seeing me as a meal ticket, but for a married man that is the ideal SB, unless of course you REALLY want to complicate your life and end up with both a wife and a REAL relationship with an SB complete with emotional baggage and all.
If you truly want a completely NSA relationship with an SB that's "all business" fun business of course, but business all the same then I would recommend you do the exact opposite as me and set clear boundaries along with clear expectations both for you and from you. Once again, I am referring to the Z MO of sugar dating which does work for him and many other SD's
Thanks, GaGa. I will try to move on and use the Z approach.
Did it not occur to you that some, perhaps many of the SB's actually like, daresay love their parents? In my experience, it is common for the non-pros among them to be repulsed by married men, especially the younger ones. They imagine another SB doing the same to their father. The pros don't care, and many prefer it as it cements the common need for discretion.
Nonetheless, there are so many women on the site that you can find what you want, if you are persistent and adapt your approach to your interests and circumstances. If you don't match with a particular target for whatever reason, just move on to the next without further thought
do so because they despise cheating and do not want to feel like they are enabling a cheater. In my own case, my wife is cool with my hobbying and sugar dating. I've told this to several SBs and they still won't date me because I am married! That's when you know it's time to move on. And just to balance things out, I've seen several SB profiles on SA that specifically say they prefer to date married men. Pick the ones who want your attention and let the others go.
True and totally agree. It's just that sometimes the fukin heart gets beating and that's where the trouble comes. One would think that a man in his 40s will get mature but I guess we still have a fukin heart!