The subject of TOYS can up on another tread and one of the ladies suggested that TOYS could be an interesting thread.
I've been with some girls who have TOYS but don't really seem to be into them. A few months ago I was with Danica Stone TER 270201 and she mentioned that she was "addicted to her hitachi". A few days later I set up a TOY demonstration and it was obvious that she was getting herself off.
Personally I love watching a girl pleasure herself be it with fingers or toys.
Angelica Amore TER 158769 is very good in this area.
"This could be a whole thread of its own. I think most providers are pretty open minded with the subject of toys some guys are really into it and some just are not. Hum I definitely have a few good ideas that will fit toys & massage together pretty well."
I know Some ladies would be concerned about coming across as preoccupied with ourselves and our own satisfaction by getting ourselves off with our toys. Some guys feel a little insulted if they can't get the girl off themselves (which personally I think it's a big mistake because that's when you get fake orgasms). I've even seen a few negative reviews about ladies who use toys on themselves. Comments were made about them being more interested in pleasing themselves than in pleasing their man.
I Will gladly use a toy on myself during our session if you want me to. But, for reasons I've mentioned above, I probably would not pull it out otherwise.
We go to the toy shop together this way we can both be satisfied
Posted By: Freya Fantasia
I know Some ladies would be concerned about coming across as preoccupied with ourselves and our own satisfaction by getting ourselves off with our toys. Some guys feel a little insulted if they can't get the girl off themselves (which personally I think it's a big mistake because that's when you get fake orgasms). I've even seen a few negative reviews about ladies who use toys on themselves. Comments were made about them being more interested in pleasing themselves than in pleasing their man.
I Will gladly use a toy on myself during our session if you want me to. But, for reasons I've mentioned above, I probably would not pull it out otherwise.
Sounds like super hot fun, how many toys will you bring when you visit Chicago?
I keep mine at home. I'd have to trust that someone has a light enough touch to bring them out, and I never really thought about someone just wanting to watch.
If you look at webcamming sites many of the girls only do solo shows so many guys to like to watch.
I'm many porn movies the girl masturbates before moving on to the main event...BTW just using her fingers is fine too.
I LOVE playing with toys. My date preference starts with 5 minutes of small talk and a quick shower and ends with 15 minutes of "me time" (BBBJ is my fav). The 40 minutes in between is "her time" doing whatever makes her feel good (with just enough attention to Mr Happy to keep him at attention). As a believer in the Boy Scout motto I always come prepared with drinks, treats, massage oil, lubes, and a variety of toys and items just in case they appeal to my partner. One problem that I occasionally encounter is the (reasonable) concern about steriliziation. I bring a travel pack of anti- bacterial wipes and oversize condoms for my hitachi, but I get that you ladies are still nervous about the last space they occupied. It would be great if part of a providers pre- date cosmmunication included something like "Any requests? Something to drink? Outfit request? Toys?" That opens up the door to discuss those items so there are no disappointments or fears. It's like a play date where we each bring our favorite toys and play together.
For the actual act I am happy to run the equipment while you lie back and relax, but also love a woman who knows what works for her. I am glad to play cheerleader on the sideline - kissing, stroking, squeezing, whispering encouragement (or biting, spanking, choking and dirty talk if that's your thing). I would be happy just to watch the show on occasion but, given that live cams can provide that experience relatively cheaply, I kind of prefer physical contact.
Posted By: MissMarieM
I keep mine at home. I'd have to trust that someone has a light enough touch to bring them out, and I never really thought about someone just wanting to watch.
Posted By: MissMarieM
I keep mine at home. I'd have to trust that someone has a light enough touch to bring them out, and I never really thought about someone just wanting to watch.
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But when LIVE as soon as the show ends I have the girl do me so the toy show is really foreplay
Hitachis are way too loud, so I took mine apart and added soundproofing. The first time I did that, the extra pressure inside cracked the body of it, so for my second try... I finished it off with a ring of electrical tape around the handle. I don't think I'd let anyone see it, it looks ridiculous.
If I were female and a provider, that would totally be me. And if I were seeing you and you pulled out that Hitachi, I would probably fall in love with you.
That is engineering genuis!! When I finally get mine, I will have to do that.
Get foam tubing (the kind that insulates pipes) at a home improvement store. 
Takes a little carving down, but it's perfect
... if a provider's toys enhance her pleasure, I'm all for it. For the usual mix of reasons selfish and otherwise, when I'm with a woman, pro or civilian, in bed or out, I like her to have a good time.
Plus you know what's cool about women?
(one of the many things)
When they've had an orgasm, they don't want to roll over and go to sleep! Generally they get wetter and friskier and want to play some more. Including with me, if I happen to be there.
So, your classic win-win, there.
I appreciate the suggestions that we mention toys when setting up the appointment. Like so many useful ideas, that never occurred to me.
The thing about some toys, is that they work well for both people involved. Vibrators used during the deed can and do transfer vibrations, and from what i'm told it's quite the sensation!
Personally, toy shows are a lot of fun, and I have quite a collection both at home and at my incall. It is definitely nice to know ahead of time so that I can have everything out and ready, but spur-of-the-moment also serves a purpose! an impromptu show is always fun, and it can be a blast if my lover wants to help. I'm pretty good at giving instruction. 
But really, there are a lot of folks who just love to watch, which is totally understandable. The visual is hot, the noises are hot. Everything about it is a turn-on!
I say this as someone who also enjoys watching other people get off in front of me. I have a voyeuristic streak myself.
I used to be married to someone that was an owner of a large chain of toy stores =)
I have TONS of unique ones and love using them. Some don't really pan out to be useful at all and then some are insane..
My Sybian .......YUMMY!
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I've just gotten my first harness and dildo along with a bullet vibrator, and I would say it's definitely expanded my erotic imagination! I also have my trusty butterfly kiss waterproof vibrator from Good Vibrations as well.
I find toys to be great to bring to the bedroom just because they provide a different type of stimulation than just using your fingers, lips, tongue or what have you.
