i agree with you sage. as long as we are talking about keeping it professional, it is not professional for the OP to tell the board to PM her for this guy's info. what he did was wrong, but blasting out his info can be dangerous if she gives it out to some BSC provider who begins harassing him. he should pay a fee or she can block his emails/phone calls so he never contacts her again. it's not like he robbed her or physically hurt anyone. he stiffed her on the hotel cost and other potential appts and she should ask for a cancellation fee.
this is why we are so reluctant to give you girls so much info about us... if u get pissed then you share it w/ everyone. who knows what she is giving out now, work info? linked in profile with pic? i am now scared to ever give that person my infoWe all know, things happen, emergency comes up
But cancellation 15 min before the scheduled time with a provider, when in fact you should be close to the hotel sucks...
It's ignorant
Will be reported
You will be asked to pay the cancellation fee
I don't mean to brag but get real
We PAY for the hotel
I was always understanding, I know things happen, but I have a limit too
Ladies, pm me if you would like to know who stiffed us this morning
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Totally without class or good manners!
I PM'd you.
when I got there the lady cancelled.
First time the lady said she wasn't in town though her ad said she had been here for days.
She offered a discount for the next time. That's never gonna happen.
The other one was spooked by an hotel worker hanging near her room so I offered to get my own room and we met at the place across the street where she was staying
If you have a job with great responsibilities there are times when work will always win out.
The old, "You will be on this call in 30 minutes." You do some quick math and realize other appointments, non hobby as well, are going to be missed.
I have been on the receiving end of a NCNS as well.
not even a little. I get that things happen, bt if you have a job like that you should be aware and be fully willing to pay a cancellation fee if you get a job call, or a call that your kid fell down the basement stairs, or daycare calls to say your child was on the receiving end of a hockey stick to the forehead and needs to goto the ER.
It is agreed that these things happen, however if you do not allow enough time for the lady to potentially refill that slot especially since things are not even 1/5th as busy as it used to be, be prepared for the majority of ladies to ask you for a cancellation fee.
Shoot, I have had guests cancel AFTER the session either because they emailed(no smartphone here) to cancel or ended up delayed and now the time will not work for them. To me that is a NCNS.... But I digress...
It sucks that it has happened to you as well, but just because something has also happened to you doesn't make it the norm or OK. Shoot I once had a guest give that excuse, he had been NCNS by another lady so he thought it was no big deal to do to me. That is not the case and should never be the norm. There really does need to be more respect for each other in this industry. Treat it professionally each way
i agree with you sage. as long as we are talking about keeping it professional, it is not professional for the OP to tell the board to PM her for this guy's info. what he did was wrong, but blasting out his info can be dangerous if she gives it out to some BSC provider who begins harassing him. he should pay a fee or she can block his emails/phone calls so he never contacts her again. it's not like he robbed her or physically hurt anyone. he stiffed her on the hotel cost and other potential appts and she should ask for a cancellation fee.
this is why we are so reluctant to give you girls so much info about us... if u get pissed then you share it w/ everyone. who knows what she is giving out now, work info? linked in profile with pic? i am now scared to ever give that person my info
In difference from you hiding behind alias I have a good reputation for over a decade
And if I get mad, it has a reason
I do engage only with a Real Reputable ladies. Period.
Do not diminish what I say here.
I posted on this board maybe 3 or 4 times in over 10 years
I earned respect
Cancellation 15 minutes to the appt is an Ignorance
Now - I am not trying to spew a hate or drama
On behalf of the girls I represent I am asking to consider the fact
that we PAY for the hotel, please respect that.
Also - she could've had a different appointment at the same time frame which I rejected, since
the person who canceled made a reservation first
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you totally misunderstand me. i am actually agreeing with all the complaints you said. i would be just as angry as you. guys like him gives other guys a bad name. but where we disagree is giving out this guy's info. if he was a violent person that hurt people, then i understand... but a last min cancellation? this causes too much drama.
a provider totally ditched me once about a year ago. i emailed her the day before and we were all set for the next afternoon. i emailed her a couple hours before the appt to get the address. no reply. later i called and left a voicemail. no answer. she totally blew me off. i had set aside the afternoon for her, i could've done something else but instead i got ditched. later that evening i emailed one last time saying she should've just told me that she couldn't or wouldn't see me so i could have made other plans. i didn't go blasting her name on these discussion boards... and i still won't so don't ask me who she was. don't think she's around anymore anyways.
last min cancellations happen in all sorts of businesses like chiropractors, hair stylists, personal trainers, massage therapist. if somebody cxl last minute then they don't get paid or their employer doesn't pay them. you don't see a personal trainer posting blogs on the internet offering up a person's personal info because they got burned on some cash.
anyways, i'm not going to get into a back an forth argument on an internet discussion board. i actually do feel your pain and you have every right to be annoyed. ask him to pay a cancellation fee or put him on your DNS list.
i'm done.
THE END
I hope they pay the cancellation fee because that is incredibly disrespectful.
For guys to have some giant emergency or gut feeling 5 minutes before he gets there.
2016 was THE worst year in all my 15 years combined for this type of behavior.
I will PM you.
guys if you aren't 100% you can make it then you need to be 100% prepared to pay a fee.
XOXO
RHR
My cancellation policy is strict and boy do I enforce it. However, if it so happens that I need to cancel, or have an emergency, or such - I offer a very generous discount for re-scheduling.