As a new provider, I am grateful for having gentleman friends who cherish our time together and want my flowers to bloom, so to speak. And I, of course, want my lovers to revel in sensual pleasures that they are unable to reach in their everyday arrangements.
How I see it is, it's not the journey to the cake shop that matters, but the friends you meet along the way. And same goes for the quest for the woman's Big O, the things I discover about myself are more exciting than the cake I get to eat at the very end of my quest.My guess is that only 25-35%% of providers actually enjoy and orgasm with clients.
If this really mattered to clients? I've been blessed with the gift of multiples .. but I'm a fairly hypersexed provider lol
It's a point of pride with me always to take my provider through at least three screaming orgasms and leave her lying sweat-drenched, quivering, and unable to move, and the ladies always try to schedule me last in the day so they can just go to sleep afterward, since they know that's all they will be capable of anyway.
(Reality: *slap* *slap* HEY!! Wake up!)
--Huh? Oh. Reality. You again. ... OK, so realistically I know there's a good chance that the lady won't really have an orgasm, but as long as it seems like at least a pleasant encounter for her, I can enjoy myself. But yes, I'd rather my partner get off for real. Part of clicking with someone is that they seem to respond sexually to me.
While this article is a bit old it's always such an interesting read and leaves me questioning a few things. Like Chanel said, are clients, male or female, concerned with our ultimate attainment of pleasure? Personally, I've been lucky in that area.
Also, sometimes I wonder if it matters. I think for most of us, our ultimate care and concern is for our paramour and should we also attain an earth shattering moment, well that's just the icing the cake.
When I first started in this hobby, it was always my goal to try and make my provider have an orgasm. I guess it still is, but 7 years on I'm much more realistic in this pursuit and just try to enjoy our time together. If I had to make an unscientific estimate I would guess maybe 20% tops would actually have an orgasm. Although, I'm thinking that number would be much higher with "regulars" with whom there is a greater connection (I know that is true in my case).
Have a good holiday weekend everyone!
As a new provider, I am grateful for having gentleman friends who cherish our time together and want my flowers to bloom, so to speak. And I, of course, want my lovers to revel in sensual pleasures that they are unable to reach in their everyday arrangements.
How I see it is, it's not the journey to the cake shop that matters, but the friends you meet along the way. And same goes for the quest for the woman's Big O, the things I discover about myself are more exciting than the cake I get to eat at the very end of my quest.
To be honest, I tend to see providers that DO orgasm when with me, at least most of the time. But I tend to see those that really enjoy themselves, and with those I see regularly, I have learned (through their teachings) what they need to orgasm. As Josie said, the journey can be its own reward, but the fireworks at the end of the journey make it that much sweeter!
I once took antidepressant that kept me from having an orgasm. Boy did that have the opposite effect! After about a month I was a cranky edgy bitch and never interested in sex. I dropped it right away! I can't imagine if I'd been working at the time.
Google "Sex is sex but money is money."
That's a good read. And not nearly as snarky as the way Daily Mail is summarizing it.