This is just my provider perspective. You state she was significantly heavier than her pictures. do you have a strong preference in body types? So are you a lover of Spinners, do curvy ladies get your wood going, should they be under 30 with flowing brown hair or does a short blonde bob make you hot and bothered? As for airbrushing on photos I use it. I am curvy and have some cellulite. But certainly don't want my imperfect thighs showing up on my pictures when they are photographed. Many providers including myself will post candid photos on social media. I do it as a way for gents to see a realistic depiction of what I look like before a photographer spruces me up. Also I use two different photographers with very different editing style in addition to posting candida on Twitter.
My advice to you and all of the gents. If you have a strong preference first turn to twitter. See if a lady has any non professional photos. Second ask the question. When were your photos taken? Then when you meet if she isn't up to your standards I think it's okay to simply not proceed with the call. Out of courtesy perhaps offer say a portion of her donation for not being able to proceed. Or say you just got an emergency call and excuse yourself politely. Also this is where communication comes into play. If it was me you saw I would want your feedback. Politely of course but a heads up. Hey your photos in my opinion they don't accurately represent your looks. I would rather someone give me feedback than to have several gents feel like there was a bait and switch... Saying you "took one for the team". Why would you do that? On the contrary taking one for the team might result in an amazing encounter and completely change your taste in ladies. You never really know.Wanted to know what other gentleman do if a provider miss represents themselves on looks. Recently, I saw a provider in Boston that clearly was 35 lbs heavier and seemed as if her pic was airbrushed big time. Even though on TER she was highly rated in Boston it was clearly not the case and her pics on her website in my opinion were not her. Unfortunately, I took one for the team.
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We hire a lot of providers and even though we have multiple levels of checks and balances, sometimes it just so happens that the pictures or promised services are misrepresented. Whenever this happens, or even if a client has a bad experience, we do our best to make it up to him with discounts on future sessions. It makes more business sense to keep a client happy because you'd lose a small amount of money but ensure a return visitor.
If this provider is using old pictures, it's on her to use new ones. You should, at the very least, write a review reflecting your experience. And she should, either upon seeing that review or receiving feedback from you, find a way to compensate you.
You should have walked out, plain and simple.
The issue then becomes then blacklisting you. So your dammed if you do and dammed if you don't...
If they threaten you in any way, send any damning emails, etc. to TER and they will ban their ass.
This is just my provider perspective. You state she was significantly heavier than her pictures. do you have a strong preference in body types? So are you a lover of Spinners, do curvy ladies get your wood going, should they be under 30 with flowing brown hair or does a short blonde bob make you hot and bothered? As for airbrushing on photos I use it. I am curvy and have some cellulite. But certainly don't want my imperfect thighs showing up on my pictures when they are photographed. Many providers including myself will post candid photos on social media. I do it as a way for gents to see a realistic depiction of what I look like before a photographer spruces me up. Also I use two different photographers with very different editing style in addition to posting candida on Twitter.
My advice to you and all of the gents. If you have a strong preference first turn to twitter. See if a lady has any non professional photos. Second ask the question. When were your photos taken? Then when you meet if she isn't up to your standards I think it's okay to simply not proceed with the call. Out of courtesy perhaps offer say a portion of her donation for not being able to proceed. Or say you just got an emergency call and excuse yourself politely.
Also this is where communication comes into play. If it was me you saw I would want your feedback. Politely of course but a heads up. Hey your photos in my opinion they don't accurately represent your looks. I would rather someone give me feedback than to have several gents feel like there was a bait and switch... Saying you "took one for the team". Why would you do that? On the contrary taking one for the team might result in an amazing encounter and completely change your taste in ladies. You never really know.