Get old!
I have been dating SBs almost exclusively for over a year. I think this board presents some interesting stuff, most of which I agree with and some of which I don't (fodder for a future post perhaps), but one thing I haven't seen mentioned (correct me if I'm wrong) is the number of these women who offer BBFS. Out of my last 10 (all from SA), 4 offered it on the first date (2 of whom offered bareback anal also), and 2 said it was on the table in the future. I am not condoning or endorsing this practice, I am simply making an observation based on my experiences. I know there are some escorts who offer this, but it seems to be much more prevalent here.
Btw, all but one offered BBBJ.
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in case someone brings it up, these girls are not old, fat, ugly or cheap. They range in age from 23 to 35, in price from 250 to 400 per meeting, and in looks from 7 to10.
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I've had it come out 1 time out of the 4 SB's I've been with. It was not like she offered right up front, she was comfortable with me, knew she was my only SB (she really was at the time), and one time we were getting hot and heavy and she said I didn't have to cover up. I politely declined that offer, and we went about our business with protection on and kept on fucking. 
She was a gem, but I eventually cut her loose because 2 of our first 3 hours was spent talking and that got real old real quick.
Saw my new SB earlier this week and will again tomorrow. First visit was great but all covered, that's a little bit of a problem for me, don't like CBJ as well. My sense is as she gets to know me better - we can work it out for BBBJ, but the thought of BBFS has also occurred to me. And to your point, this is not a 45 yo average lady - she is a very pretty 29 yo - so I probably will attempt to go their fairly soon if everything stays on track with her - but that's always the great unknown in his game form what I have read.
I am really too new in the SBowl to comment so I am interested in feedback on same. BTW - have never gone BBFS with a pro, never even seriously considered it, not sure I ever would.
but where it comes to SBs, I would say that where it comes to SB's that end up in LTR's "most" , not "some" or "a few", but MOST will be ok with BBFS
The one good thing about the hookers in the Sugar Bowl is that they always bring their own wrappers, just like any other sensible hooker.
but only after we'd been dating for 6 months and felt very trusting with each other. Even so, we both got tested first and promised we would not go BB with anyone else. The subject has been discussed with others and the answer has always been maybe later. And one of my current SBs refused to do BBBJ initially but after several visits she was ok with it, so there's some progress!
Yes - that's kind of what I assumed. I can live without the BBFS although if it continues with the current SB I am going to try, but I am not going much longer without BBBJ (and I am not requesting CIM just BB). Just my personal preference.
I d say one third have no problem. One third will balk at first and continue. The rest insist. One girl I could feel her diaphragm so I know she was fucking someone bareback. I woulnt be surprised at all to hear about a jump in stds for SBs.
Btw, all but one offered BBBJ.
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And never with someone I met through SA. But it's probably because I never stayed around that long with a SB. So I don't know what it means but I never implied or push for BBFS so...go figure.
Unless this becomes like a BF/GF relationship with some modest financial benefits all the while both parties get tested. I may still have reservations because I am still quite potent and I have never trusted women to be fully truthful with birth control!
Sorry guys, but as one who is married I can see all sorts of issues:
#1 Answer: STDs
#2 Answer: pregnancy
#3 Answer: Too quick on the trigger (at least for me). LOL
Wearing a wrapper may be a pain but its worth it for me. Plus being a quick trigger guy, it helps slow down things down and lets me enjoy the process that much more. LOL.
Lol, I agree to avoid cause I am married too! We neither want to bring STD to home and nor do we want to find out that she needs money to take care of the pregnancy cause who knows if she is actually taking a pill. And yes quick trigger can happen, some of the hot girls can bring it out way too quick especially after a BBBJ.
May be something to consider if someone has been with a SB for over a year and she does take a pill everyday and was tested for STD. But this has way too many ifs to actually work in real life!
We didn't use a condom for the longest time, but back then I could only last 10-15 min BB and she took at least 20-30 min to cum. Being the good BF I was, and not wanting her to go get satisfied elsewhere, I started wearing a condom to last longer. Eventually I learn to control myself and last pretty much as long as I want even BB, but be careful what you ask for. I now have the opposite problem and sometimes it now takes me FOREVER to cum and very few women actually like a guy who can go for hours.
GaGa you should start a thread on how to go from 10 mins to an hours without cuming, I will kill to find out the secret
Popping too quickly is a problem that can either be mental or physical. Here's a couple of suggestions for both root causes.
Many guys are SO fucking excited to finally be getting laid they are ready to pop before they are even out of their pants. The solution to this of course is to have a LOT of sex. Here is my suggestion, hop a plane to Costa Rica for a few hundred bucks, stay at the Del Rey and for a lousy thousand bucks or so you can fuck ten different chicas, do this over the course of a weekend and I guarantee you that by the fifth or sixth chica you will no longer have any trouble not getting "too" excited.
Another thing that can cause you to pop too quick is being too "sensitive" down there. There are a couple of things can reduce that sensitivity, one of course is a condom, a condom most definitely decreases sensitivity and is one of the reason a lot of "old guys" can't even cum inside a condom. They also make some desensitizing creams that can help, and then of course there is my favorite solution. BOOZE, alcohol can most definitely help you last longer, but be careful, getting shit faced drunk might prevent you from being able to perform at all, not to mention most women don't want to fuck a drunk. Try having a drink or two and experiment with how many drinks you have before sex until you find your "sweet spot" where you can last longer, but still be able to perform. I have to admit I don't take my own advice here, sometimes I do get ripped, but I am a professional drunk and unless I've got a full bottle of tequila in me, I still have no problems "getting it up" I will confess if I do get shit faced, at least half the time I can't cum at all, but that really doesn't bother me as a rarely get shit faced if my date doesn't do the same, meaning she will still be there when I wake up, so we can always have morning sex and finish what we started the night before. lol
Thanks, I was reading a tantra book that says that relaxation is key. Yes, having a lot of sex will most definitely delay the excitement but easier said then done.
Married life is hell, bro, my wife got some kinda early menopause or fucked up hormones that she doesn't feel like having sex regularly, sometimes months go by. Hobby is expensive and getting out of country or even city for a week is very hard cause gotta help with running the house and taking care of kids 
So yes, whenever I do get a chance to see a provider, a rush comes cause it does get very exciting and hence the quickie. The only saving grace has been that my ATF does take it very slowly so I can be in her for sometime without pumping back and forth cause it's the pumping that unleashes my urge to come especially going from behind which is what most girls love.
I wish I could find a good SB that would help me have ton of sex without me robbing a bank but most 21 yo have no patience and all chicks above 30s are either gold diggers or are just plain ugly
Get old!
I am in my fukin 40s, I thought that was old enough! What's your definition of old?
I have only been with 2 babys and I brought the covers for my safety. It wasn't until later that it dawned on me that BBFS would have been on the table. I would decline because of the big 3.
yeah, no damn way am I going bb w/a sb or anyone else for that matter unless we're in a relationship. Just asking for a world of problems if you go that route. And any sb who suggests it is definitely doing it with others, probably many others so again, no way.
I'll avoid a longer treatise on this subject, but this is common with the younger generation (as in the 18-20 range), which didn't grow up with the same scare of imminent, ravaging, in-discriminant death from AIDS as most of us in the older generation. It's also partly why there is a rise of the more common (thankfully treatable) STDS in this generation.
Pros and most semi-pros have a protocol they follow religiously (rightly, their life depends on it). Many non-pros who get on SA (or similar sites) are just looking for older, established men who are leaders (hint: decisive) and can help them and perhaps be that mystical benefactor they've heard about. Otherwise, they treat it as just another website as far as hookups go and leave the decision of protection up to you. So, be that man, have a plan (whatever that is), and be prepared to follow it.