She got ready for you, waited for you and probably didn't book other clients so she could see you and you come all the way to the hotel and just leave ? Not fair, I'm not saying you had to meet with her when you felt uncomfortable but at least pay her cancelation fee. Send it to her via paypal or amazon egift card. She won't be able to see your card name or number incase you were still worried that she was law enforcement, but just standing her up like that deserve a blacklist in my opinion so other girls know.
Well it happened to me guys. I've been blacklisted. Providers will not see me. I found out a provider gave me a bad review and speard it like a California wildfire. Story is, I went to see a provider and I got the feeling she was the law. I left the hotel parking lot and went about my day. I explained that to her but she obviously didn't understand. Any advice on what I can do to loose this reputation?
I'm totes amazed by the lack of critical thinking here.
Or, maybe I'm not, since you thought it would be okie dokie to literally cancel an appointment while you're IN the parking lot. What the fuck, man?
I can barely chew, let alone swallow the fact that you got LE heebie-jeebies just moments before your scheduled session. I mean at least you texted, right?
Nah, man. You owe her money. That's why she blacklisted you; you cost her money. You wasted your own time by, i dont know, not researching this girl well enough? There's literally almost no reason to do what you did, unless you actually saw her talking to a cop and then bolted.
So, how do you attempt to rectify this situation? You pay her, of course. Is this rocket science? I mean it really shouldn't be.
Send her an amazon gift card. send her a paypal payment. get her what you owe her, and then maybe she'll fix the blacklisting. or maybe she won't, because what you did was actually bullshit, and if she has to meet you for a cash drop, she runs the risk of wasting her time yet again.
Also, hookers of the world, when will y'all stop telling people they are blacklisted? Knock that shit off.
I don't plan on rectifying this situation. I'll tell you something, she can go f**k herself. I'm done with this industry. I should be thanking her for saving me money.
Or, maybe I'm not, since you thought it would be okie dokie to literally cancel an appointment while you're IN the parking lot. What the fuck, man?
I can barely chew, let alone swallow the fact that you got LE heebie-jeebies just moments before your scheduled session. I mean at least you texted, right?
Nah, man. You owe her money. That's why she blacklisted you; you cost her money. You wasted your own time by, i dont know, not researching this girl well enough? There's literally almost no reason to do what you did, unless you actually saw her talking to a cop and then bolted.
So, how do you attempt to rectify this situation? You pay her, of course. Is this rocket science? I mean it really shouldn't be.
Send her an amazon gift card. send her a paypal payment. get her what you owe her, and then maybe she'll fix the blacklisting. or maybe she won't, because what you did was actually bullshit, and if she has to meet you for a cash drop, she runs the risk of wasting her time yet again.
Also, hookers of the world, when will y'all stop telling people they are blacklisted? Knock that shit off.
Then why come crying here asking what you can do to recover your reputation? The answer is so apparent that your above post just adds further insult to the injury your first post already caused you.
Money talks, bullshit walks. It's not hard to figure out.
I mean, really though! With your attitude, why on earth are you paying for pussy in the first place? I mean shit. I'm sure ladies are just lining up to get at that trouser snake.
Good luck to you in civilian land!
Your posts are a reflection of your intelligence. You are doing us a favor by retiring.
You need to understand that she most likely spent a bit getting ready to meet you-hair, nails, peels etc and she may have had to rent the room. But she may have turned down other business to meet you. You made an appointment for time, she booked the time, was there for that time and you owe her for that time. Simple
Just go see another provider. You really think there's a provider network of client info that every provider can log into to find info on a client? Besides what exactly is a Blacklist? You piss off one provider, so what. There are more than enough providers that will be more than willing to see you.
Actually there is and its quite comprehensive.
Thanks, now that song from Chicago is stuck in my head. Lol
There aren't reviews exactly, just warnings. Usually for violence or shortchanging a lady, but a no show can get you listed as well. This isn't a hobby for us, we don't gossip about details or anything like that.
Now, she can go fuck herself......in second post.
Whew.....and you men call us emotional and flip floppy.
Pay attention ladies....and stop blabbing...telling clients they are blacklisted...because this is the results, and absolutely NOTHING was accomplished.
Provider lost money
Hobbyist lost his cool on PUBLIC forum...
She got ready for you, waited for you and probably didn't book other clients so she could see you and you come all the way to the hotel and just leave ? Not fair, I'm not saying you had to meet with her when you felt uncomfortable but at least pay her cancelation fee. Send it to her via paypal or amazon egift card. She won't be able to see your card name or number incase you were still worried that she was law enforcement, but just standing her up like that deserve a blacklist in my opinion so other girls know.
I'm of two minds on this - what's to prevent a girl from lying or blacklisting a guy who she simply didn't like, but who in fact did nothing inappropriate? Maybe they got into an argument (nothing physical) and the provider decides to screw with him. At least when a hobbyist posts a negative review, there may be other reviews to compare it to to see if he's a habitual bad reviewer, or the provider can post some sort of reply on this forum. A pissed off provider pretty much screws up a hobbyist's ability to see other providers. Not that all other providers won't see him just because he's blacklisted, but that is a huge hill to overcome. I am not commenting specifically on this hobbyist and this provider. In my mind, if the provider blacklisted this guy over this fact scenario, I think she overreacted. Just my opinion. She should write a comment here and give her side of the story, but to run right to a blacklist board and go nuclear on the guy, a bit much. This is a tricky game hobbyists and providers play. Courtesy for each others' time and honest disputes can be handled a bit better by all. 'Nuf said!
IMO - We don't bite the hand that feeds us because of a disagreement. That's bad business and silly all the way around on the girls part and I don't see someone throwing away potentially making X amount of money over that unless it has to do with the BIG issues. If you disturb those then you deserve a blacklist or a dark mark on your record.
We are concerned with safety, cleanliness and reliability and your ability to count cash correctly. As long as that is in play, the rest of the stuff is taken with a grain of salt. Most of us have thick skin or we wouldn't be able to do this. We blacklist to PROTECT other girls and to gain that from other girls blacklists. Not to piss you off.
My two cents...
RHR
Great if she could come here and tell the story from her side.
The ability of doing your research, if you would of researched her thoroughly you wouldn't of thought she was LE, this goes for both clients and hookers. So you basically wasted your time and hers.
See girls that don't look at the blacklists!
There's always two sides to every story.