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Prince charming warbucks came into town sure it's nothin personal it's just about the $$$

What a shitty feeling. Her phone is off.  

Confirmed this appointment just yesterday.  

Booo.

I guess I'll just sit here. At least it's a nice day out.

Let me see if I have this correct. You had a NCNS by someone who has no history of it and you blast it out on the board with her name within an hour?? Have you never had an emergency come up?? If not, I want your life. Things happen to people all of the time. Have a little patience and see what you hear in the next couple of days. You know, she might have had something come up and would be willing to make up for it. But after this, ha, good luck even getting a date with her.

Have some patience.  I'd bet she has a reasonable explanation.

Posted By: smilin6969
Let me see if I have this correct. You had a NCNS by someone who has no history of it and you blast it out on the board with her name within an hour?? Have you never had an emergency come up?? If not, I want your life. Things happen to people all of the time. Have a little patience and see what you hear in the next couple of days. You know, she might have had something come up and would be willing to make up for it. But after this, ha, good luck even getting a date with her.

since the recent spat of NCNS posts.  After several all night PM sessions with TER admins, there is a strong indication they are in the process of replacing the useless Photo Only board with a newly created "Whiny NCNS" board.  You can feel free to post there and those who give a shit will check it out.   In related news, I'm now working on having a mandatory field labeled "did she NCNS you the first four times you set an appointment" on the review submit form.  I've suggested if you select YES you may be eligible for free VIP days due to your tenacity and dedication to the hobby.  Details are still being worked out.  :-P

I would make further additions to this. Just as doing some services (i.e., BBBJ, anal, kiss w/mouth, really bi) can raise her possible score, committing a NCNS or even whining about it should lower her rating, probably to a 6 or 7 tops.  

Because none of the top MN ladies ever whine about stupid shit let alone NCNS.

Posted By: Wongbater
since the recent spat of NCNS posts.  After several all night PM sessions with TER admins, there is a strong indication they are in the process of replacing the useless Photo Only board with a newly created "Whiny NCNS" board.  You can feel free to post there and those who give a shit will check it out.   In related news, I'm now working on having a mandatory field labeled "did she NCNS you the first four times you set an appointment" on the review submit form.  I've suggested if you select YES you may be eligible for free VIP days due to your tenacity and dedication to the hobby.  Details are still being worked out.  :-P

the demerits to the "strict" rating scale include lost points due to "she watched the TV while I did her doggie" and "I had to help her count the donation before she would give me an LE check".

What happens if I also like the TV show she's watching? Do I get an extra 15 minutes over? Or stay until the show is finished?

Posted By: Wongbater
the demerits to the "strict" rating scale include lost points due to "she watched the TV while I did her doggie" and "I had to help her count the donation before she would give me an LE check".

would say you could stay until whoever is kicked off whatever reality TV show is on.  But if you find that one provider who shares the same taste in TV shows...make her your ATF.  That is until she NCNS's you cause she wants to watch something else.  :-(

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Prince charming warbucks came into town sure it's nothin personal it's just about the $$$

No clue who you've seen other than your reviews but here's a couple recommendations that you might consider reviewing to get that VIP...

Jenessa Skye
Sonja

By your review history it would appear you prefer well established reputable companions. So I'm guessing NCNS's are very rare in your hobby experience. Likely one of the last things you would expect. And at those last few minutes before you walk into the door your "Dick Brain" (stole that line from Ms Gabby on twitter) has taken over. Thus my recommendation.

I would be super frustrated too...BUT I'd have to agree with Smilin6969 you can't blow her up on the boards after just an hour. Natalie has been a well respected local companion for several years. That doesn't happen with a history of NCNS's. Life happens and I would give her the benefit of the doubt.

Really though, I don't mind.  

 
I don't think I've ever been brought up like this for any sort of lateness, rescheduling, etc. let alone NCNS... but yes, my phone was broken in a blonde accident earlier today. Sorry I was unable to reach you before our date. I believe it played an out of service message, not just a straight to voicemail, so I hope this was a sign to you I wouldn't be making it (out of reach). I did try to replace the phone before our 4 pm date (you posted this at 3:21, way before I even had a chance to not show)... but it was impossible. I did reply to your email this eve when I returned home to my laptop explaining my errors and offering another chance where I would be happy to make it worth your while, even tomorrow if you have time... but have not heard a response. I will give you some more time.  

Again, sorry for your headache today and I look forward to making it up to you in the future...  

PS I will be getting a new phone at 9 am tomorrow.

But the times posts are made are very often not the time that TER shows.  It shows the time in a different time zone and I have observed posts of mine showing up with timestamps from several different time zones.

A courteous response, an admission of fault with reasonable explanation, an apology and offer to make it up to him, and even a (slightly strained) sense of humor. Seems to me there's good reason for your success in this town.  

Reasoning from the timestamp on his post about 8 pm, it would appear he waited until you were 21 whole minutes overdue before his first post. Which would be consistent with his charge that he was "being" NCNSd at the time.

I cannot think this episode has done you any harm. The reverse, in fact. I'm less confident about Joe's prospects but only he will ever know. This could be a fascinating thesis topic for an MBA if only the data were available. On a range from negative five minutes to positive 48 hours, what is the most economically efficient delay time before complaining about NCNS?

Your reply to this whole thing has moved you up my list, not down

Is everyone happy now? Sounds like it. Return to your corners.

She contacted me to apologize.  So it's cool.  Thanks everyone for commiserating.  Whether she is willing to go on a future date after all the fuss, I don't know.  But you gotta do what you gotta do.

Posted By: joematagats
What a shitty feeling. Her phone is off.  
   
 Confirmed this appointment just yesterday.    
   
 Booo.  
   
 I guess I'll just sit here. At least it's a nice day out.

I agree with minn4evr that the NCNS episode/discussion didn't do Natalie any harm.  This reminds me that the varieties of NCNS are many and so too are the appropriate/inappropriate board behaviors concerning them.  

I won't presume to speak for others but NC is the BS part of a NCNS, the part that justifies regarding it as the ultimate hobbying no-no and putting the offender on one's "don't trust/never again" list.  In my world, the only thing that can keep an NCNS-er off that list is an incapacitating harm/accident to oneself or to one's means of communication.  (I have had the latter occur when coordinating with ladies who communicate only by email -- loss of internet service before Wi-Fi-ed coffee shops and laundromats were the proverbial bitch.)  

In the present case, Ms. Chambers cited an incapacitating harm/accident to her means of communication.  Perfectly reasonable.  The OP says all is well and so, all is well.  No harm and so, no foul on the OP's part, suggestions to the contrary notwithstanding.

A brief word about time.  It's one thing for a lady to be "21 whole minutes overdue" for an appointment if she has been responsive to calls/texts/emails on the appointed day.  It's another for her to be 21 minutes overdue without a word from her all day.  A lady who is 21 minutes later than she recently texted you she would be, may be NCNS-ing you -- more time will tell that tale.  But if a lady is 21 minutes overdue and hasn't responded to calls/texts/emails all day, it's time to declare a NCNS -- only Charles Schultz's Linus would continue to believe she's going to show

File under kicking a deceased equine:

NCNS sucks, especially if you traveled any distance or had to work hard to free up that window of time. No argument there. In addition to not knowing what happened, there's that horrible compounded effect of anticipation turning to worry/frustration. You can say, "Just find another." or "Go flog the Bishop." but for many, there isn't enough time for the first (at least to do safely and with any confidence) and the second doesn't help with the shitty feeling.

That said, get the facts before posting on the boards (though I'd love someone to respond "She's with me right now!" with a link to a live stream for extra salt in the wound). Just wait a day to get the whole story. It may be a BS story that you can see right through but then you know you actually dodged a bullet.

In some (not even most) cases, the provider will make it up to you.

There's just no upside to name shaming someone so quickly other than venting - which you can do without posting the name.

tl;dr Being NCNS'd sux but give it a day before posting names

CNS happen all the time but you never call the girls out on it. I have been ncns by a girl last summer and I know it won't be the first time as I know she does it alot but she is just busy and has other things going on. If you do decide to out the girl be careful who it is as most of these ladies are friends and will share amongst themselves who you are and good luck seeing any of them ever again

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