Is it wise to ask about a gal's ratings?
I think you got the answer from her: no. What is wise, however, is to get VIP membership. That is short money to ensure a good game in this hobby.Appreciate comments from folks. I am non-VIP right now and was thinking about seeing a new lady in another city while traveling. The "General Details" for her reviews as well as her postings did not provide me enough info to go ahead and book, and donations in this city are higher than in Boston. So I asked her what her "performance rating" was on TER, and she promptly texted me back that the she never wished to see me ever and the reason was that asking her about ratings was rude. Honestly, this is the first time I have ever asked a provider to tell me their ratings via text, email, or phone. Given this lady's response, I will never ask directly again.
What do others think? Would you be offended if I asked you to tell me what your TER scores were before I booked a session?
Is it wise to ask about a gal's ratings?
I think you got the answer from her: no.
What is wise, however, is to get VIP membership. That is short money to ensure a good game in this hobby.
"Hello, I'm too cheap to fork over $30 for one month VIP to read your reviews. ... I was thinking of bringing some wine. Do you mind if I mix together some reds and whites 'cause I've got a lot of dregs to get rid of from my fridge. ... You'll LOVE hosting me 'cause I'm such a cheapskate."
OK. You didn't actually mention the wine dregs, but there are other ways to say you aren't VIP w/o sounding so cheap. (And you don't have to say it all unless she brings it up.)
If you follow the boards, you should know that numbers alone do not always tell the truthful tale.
Regardless of mrfisher's and her response to you, I'd have said DO NOT ASK anyway.
What do others think? Would you be offended if I asked you to tell me what your TER scores were before I booked a session?
I know you know better...than that..
I wonder how you found out about her rate ... P411? DC?
We've all made our mistakes. Yes, even me LOL ... but ratings
are a very fragile area to visit. Especially before you met her.
Fuck, if she was more $ than where you usually shop, wouldn't
it have been worth the one month TER fee to learn about her
and also check out a few other gals while you were active? $30
is short money to avoid getting shot down by someone you really wanted to see.
Penny wise, Dollar foolish
thanks again....