Are via that site. Many don't even advertise elsewhere. Makes it easier for me to arrange time with them. I know they are legit and they can easily verify me.
I know I have your profile saved. I'm planning on meeting you soon.
Any other providers notice an increase in guys requesting appointments lately who say they have no references because they've "never done this before"? Most of which also decline to provide the necessary information to screen them in other ways.
I'm suspecting this is fallout from the whole backpage thing.
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Between that and all the news stories about what happened to BP, I am sure there are lots of new guys looking at TER and Eros.
With no idea how this really works, and since I am guessing most of the ladies on the old BP did not ask for references, they see no need to give them out.
I have also noticed there are a lot of unreviewed ladies, posting on Eros and on TER.
The shit show is starting, hopeful over time it will calm down.
Still sorry to hear you have to deal with all the BS.
never done this before---with you. Sorry, could not resist being a smart ass
Well I'm glad I took came of my street cred well before the BP fallout! LOL
I am new to TER and have been working UTR... however, I am on Eros and Datecheck and I find that in the past week or so there have been loads of "newbies" and they have been refusing to provide any screening info... I don't know what to think but I don't want to risk it so I have been turning them down...I also caught a couple in lies, they didn't remember contacting me a first time and the stories didn't match up... maybe possibly LE?
Not related to this current trend, but I've had one guy that's been contacting me every couple of months for the 18 months or so. Every time he tries requesting same day appointments, often with only 2 or 3 hours notice. Never provides more than a first name and phone number, and never responds when asked for screening information. I stopped replying to him at all after the third time, but he keeps trying.
If you're branching out ..... you need to be very careful .
We were just talking about that fact. Hadn't put two and two together. Thank you for the insight!
All the newbie requests do make you appreciated the experienced hobbiests who have they stuff together and make the verification process a breeze!
Tori & Nick
I have quite a few of those... I try to remember and keep track of the weirdos and people who seem "off" as much as possible... I've also had to change my number several times due to harrassment and also my ads being stolen and put up on sites that I don't want them on (including those phony LE busts ones) I'm considering just not advertising my number and keeping contact just through email😑
Email only is definitely better.
Right up there with erotic poetry like cut the shit already...they think they are the hobbies Walt Whitman
I'm suspecting this is fallout from the whole backpage thing.
This is not something unique to this area. Ever since this occurred, every other site has seen a great number of ladies transitioning there. Same with the guys. I expect even this site to see an increase in traffic.
Figuring out whose legit and who isn't on both sides of the equation just became increasingly difficult and frustrating. Thank goodness for verification sites. Saves a lot of time and cuts down on wasted time.
About 70% of my bookings come through P411, definitely makes my life so much easier.
Are via that site. Many don't even advertise elsewhere. Makes it easier for me to arrange time with them. I know they are legit and they can easily verify me.
I know I have your profile saved. I'm planning on meeting you soon.
I'm trying to get to that point myself... it's not fun at all trying to weed through clients to see who's real and safe...
to weed through all the contacts and spending that time doing so only to find out the person doesn't want to give you the data you need. It's going to be a rough several months before all this settles down.
It's not just here, it's a problem everywhere.