Have you ever wanted to see a lady and when the moment come.. Nothing. No slam against her but it was not what you was looking for. Beautiful lady and wanted to please but something was missing.
I suspect because of two great session this week with a certain traveling lady from Chicago.. I expected the same thing from her..Have this ever happen to you??
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Yes it has, bigdaddy. BIG TIME. About 4 weeks ago. A gal who is almost universally highly rated (including by several of our locals). She TOTALLY did not click with me. I was expecting so much neat stuff, too. Frankly, I think her mind was elsewhere (like on someone else).
I guess it happens sometime. It was not her problem but mine.. I just didn't feel it.
I never have Great Expectations going into a session. I go in with a open mind (expecting Good and Bad), Of Course I hope for the best but I've learned not to put your hopes on cloud 9. Usually when I do, It doesn't work out. So I go in low but always come out High 
Although, I've never had THREE sessions in one week, I like to stick to the norm of one...So maybe the problem lies there.
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I need to find me a regular lady on this side of the bridge..
and so are you soon Nettie, i will know my evil plans this week to be licking you soon. i miss ya and Kiss the felon for me.
Who was it?? And Don't hold out!
PM if you want
Yeah, I learned this lesson the hard way myself. Just because a lady is universaly loved and praised to the high heavens on this board doesn't mean she is going rock my world. It was a real downer. From now on, I will never go into a session with a new lady with any expectations -- other than that I hope and expect that we will both have a good time. I'll just let things happen and see where it leads. Live and learn....
This happened to me sort of, and as a provider I felt so bad. The worst part was when I e-mailed the gentleman afterwards to say wish things could have gone better and how can I approve, but he did not respond. I know not everyone clicks, but it feels weird that he did not respond back at all. Especially since the conversation and such was good. I thought I at least deserved a reply e-mail. But maybe it's just me being sensitive.
I’ve learned that having NO expectations lets you never be disappointed or wonderfully surprised. On the other hand I really like to plan ahead because ‘expectations’ are part of the game for me, alas so are disappointments.
Vancia,
It wasn’t me. But here’s an email (in part) from a provider that I had some problems connecting with. The “ “ are changes.
[Sorry to hear that. But perhaps you did not hear from “him” for numerous reasons.... “Maybe he has” been very busy and unable to keep up with “his” e-mail... “Maybe he” move around allot and when moving “his” laptop sometimes need to change ‘his’ outlook settings. If they are wrong, “his” mail gets lost.
“Maybe he didn’t” intend no disrespect or anything of that sort. “You” could try to contact “him” again, but that is up to you. If you do not want to see “him”, then there is no reason.
“He’s” probably sorry about the mix up. “And in the future honesty ‘first’ is always the best policy.”]
Every lady I've met in this hobby has been a gem, even those I didn't review. I love them all.
kisses and more kisses,
lala
...though closer inspection is sometimes required. 
Ready for inspection, sir.
Yup. I "no clicked" with one of the higher rated, more popular ladies in the area. Not sure if it was just coincidence or whether I just expected miracles because of all of the previous hoopla about her...
I have found 2 or 3 members here whose reviews of girls I have seen I TOTALLY agree with, then i tend to gauge the attitude I have going into the session by their reviews. Although I have not seen many girls, and don't really write reviews of them unless asked to by the girls, this method has not let me down yet.
I feel that reviews are taken in like reading the bible. Reviews are not what will happen, but what CAN happen between two people. What most don't realize is that chemistry is what makes the session. Either you have chemistry with that other lady, or don't. If you two aren't clicking, that is neither fault, but the work of the gods for that day. You can meet meet a provider who has outstanding reviews, but it doesn't mean that you two are going to "hit it off"/have that connection. But, as long as she provides for you, during the session, then why complain?
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