The event I was referring to resulted in me paying her more than I wanted to pay, so no blue balls were involved. By the time she told me her requirement$$ I had already invested too much time and money to walk away from the date, so I went for it. Had a great time too, but since I spent about twice what I like to spend on a date, I never called her again and I decided not to put myself in that situation. I do think it's fine to take the risk, if you are willing to stick to your guns and walk away at the last minute if the tariff is unsuitable. Props to you for being willing to take that particular risk. It's just not one I'm comfortable with.
was going to be in South Florida and wanted to do something different than looking for local professionals. Since I had joined A SB site I decided to post for local SB's. I was going to be in South Florida for 4 days, on business, so I thought I had a decent chance of seeing some promising young cutie. I started the search about two weeks prior to my travel. As you all know this is a big numbers game. I ended up with 2-3 viable candidates. I had a very promising conversation with an attractive looking (by her stock photos) early 30's prospect. I get to town. We set a time to meet near my hotel. She messages me throughout the day. We finally meet up around 8'ish at a local restaurant (3-4 stars) which is next door to my hotel. (Thank God for Uber. I had no rental car so she came to me!!). Dinner goes well and lasts 2-3 hours. Yes 2-3 hours!!! She is a 9-9 1/2 on the TER scale, seriously. 5'5" 135 lbs, curly hair and those lips!!!! At dinner money or an actual arrangement never really comes up. Originally, I told her that I was scouting locations for a second office and was thinking of buying a second home in South Florida. But, on the date those details never re-emerged. After dinner and drinks ($135 bill) I ask her up to my room. Now, It's about 11:00p. She says "Yes!". You can guess the rest. The sex was very, very memorable. We had sex and then we both fell asleep. She left at 2a. No, envelope, no money discussion nothing!! So, the next day she texts me and asks about my plans for that night. So, after work day #2 she meets me at the same bar/restaurant next door to my hotel. This time she says "I can't stay out that late again, I had to take nap yesterday" We dine and drink again. This time we leave the restaurant about 10:00'ish, walk next door to my hotel, again. I gave her a massage, to start, this time. But same result in the end. Incredible sex!!! I can still see that incredible ass!! She leaves about midnight. I walk her to her car. No discussion of money, or an arrangement. This time I snuck an envelope in her purse with ($200 in it) while she was in the bathroom. I texted her the next day telling her that I appreciated her company and that I had hidden an envelope in her purse as I wanted to treat her to a mani/pedi. She was tinkled pink that I was that thoughtful. Now here' s what I found bewildering. She said that she was divorced, 38 with 2 kids (Not exactly a SB, although her profile said 31). I have not heard a peep from her since I left south Florida. I sent her a "Thank you, Good bye" message once I got back home. I was hoping to stay in contact with her as I get to South Florida 2-3 times per year. Ahhhh..... The memories!!!
I've tried several times to arrange a hook up on SA when I knew I was going to be in a different city. One time I did date a pair of SBs who work as a team and another time I met a SB who really was more like a by the hour pro. But never had as successful an encounter as you describe when traveling away from home. Props!
if you had that nice long dinner, invited her to your room, and only then as you were beginning to get truly turned on she had said, by the way I need $1000 to continue? I've had that happen to me once and decided then and there I would NEVER let things go that far without an agreement about money. I think you got lucky and dodged a bullet.
The more risk you avoid, the more rewards you miss along with bad things that could happen. He took a chance and was very well rewarded for it. If you do not play at all in the Sugar World, you never waste your time or money, never put yourself at risk in all the ways we are at risk, but you also never get those wonderful days and evening with a pretty, sexy woman.
We each have to decide what risks we want to take, what is comfortable for us. Taking a pretty woman to my hotel room after a nice dinner, knowing I could get laid for free, pay to get laid, or have nothing more than a little foreplay happen either because she is not interested in sex, or wants more money than I care to pay is a risk I am perfectly happy to take. Seems more like an annoyance when I don't get laid than a bad outcome. But if that is a hard line for you, I get it. Blue balls aren't fun.
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The event I was referring to resulted in me paying her more than I wanted to pay, so no blue balls were involved. By the time she told me her requirement$$ I had already invested too much time and money to walk away from the date, so I went for it. Had a great time too, but since I spent about twice what I like to spend on a date, I never called her again and I decided not to put myself in that situation. I do think it's fine to take the risk, if you are willing to stick to your guns and walk away at the last minute if the tariff is unsuitable. Props to you for being willing to take that particular risk. It's just not one I'm comfortable with.
I travel a lot for work, too....I get too sketched out that I'm going to bring a SB back to my room that turns out to be a scam and then threatens to make a scene (and again, hotel is booked through work travel) which could impact my job.
I've only had 2 meetups while travelling, and one was at her place and the other was at a Panera Bread of all things. Not sure if I can bring myself to using my room, though I'd love to save the hotel fee (since work has already paid for the hotel) of renting an add'l room.
I travel as well and get my travel paid for, but am always very careful. I have seen pros in my room, but all were very well reviewed ladies - only ladies I ever see anyway. My guess is, you would get a good feel for her, assuming you took her to dinner or whatever. and hopefully not do anything nutty? Her just saying "I will meet you at your hotel" and not knowing her at all, different game and I would always do that at the no-tel motel - if at all.
When I was younger, often drank too much and chased the ladies constantly on the road. Did some nutty stuff with women I sometimes drug out of bars but no more. Wisdom only comes with age and thank God - I now finally have plenty of both. Wish I could download my hard drive to my two sons.
First night no "gift"? Regardless if it was mentioned or not, be a man, you should have done the right thing. Next night, she probably wanted to give you a second chance, to maybe see if you'll make it up to her, but you only leave her only $200! Wow...
See you're "that dude" the ladies try to avoid. On your next meet.Do this and see how it plays, Mention to them that there isn't an allowance for tonight's date but I plan on having "Fun", and then tell her "But if you come over tomorrow night I'll spoil you with $200..see what that gets you...Probably not a whole lot.
This is the what makes it bad for some of us that really understand what this is all about.
If she does call you, then she isn't a 9-9.5 on the TER scale because why would hot chick waste her time with you, she'd have to be desperate....$200, gee whiz man ol man.
The price depends a lot on where in the country you are located. An escort in Minnesota runs $250 - $400 an hour. So $200 for FS with a SB isn't out of line around here. Its a bit low compared to an escort but on the other hand you can go to an AMP and get FS for $150.
I found a SB who wants a relationship and the money is just for her to go out and buy some extra things now and then. We haven't discussed a fee yet but I don't think she is looking for all that much.
See you're "that dude" the ladies try to avoid. On your next meet.Do this and see how it plays, Mention to them that there isn't an allowance for tonight's date but I plan on having "Fun", and then tell her "But if you come over tomorrow night I'll spoil you with $200..see what that gets you...Probably not a whole lot.
This is the what makes it bad for some of us that really understand what this is all about.
If she does call you, then she isn't a 9-9.5 on the TER scale because why would hot chick waste her time with you, she'd have to be desperate....$200, gee whiz man ol man.