I don't work often, but when I do I have new potential clients that I would love to see. Only thing is is that when I ask for simple screening I can never get it. Either they shy away from the thought or are completely appalled by the idea of a escort asking for it. I don't ask for much just mainly real name, number used for the hobby, and references from previous ladies (no more than 3 no older then a year). It's gotta so bad I pretty much refuse to work where I live in Lexington Kentucky. I've been cursed out and berated just to say the least. I have based myself solely in Chicago for the past year and now it's happening here with the exception of not dealing with being disrespected. Here they just go crickets on me when I ask. I'm very warm and friendly, but I just don't know what I can do to turn this "train" around before I just get off for good! I've never had a bad review or anything. So if any of you have a suggestion please help a girl out lol.😘
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I have the exact same problem. And with me being new, I have to screen everyone. These men contact me, I tell them could you fill out my screening form on my website and then call me back. (I even have this typed out on my eros ad) But when they say alright and hangup, I never hear back from them.
If they cannot be screened then they are time wasters, plain and simple. Only thing I can recommend is having a form for them to fill out that you attach to your site or send to them through an email so you don't have to go through explaining what's needed. At this point screening is standard across the board for this hobby and if they refuse they're either new or looking to ask a million qs and never book.
I can only speculate from my perspective, maybe it's just the overall supply and demand isn't really favorable right now? Your screening doesn't seem intense at all, so I would guess that unfortunately you've only been getting messages from guys who aren't willing to be screened. And you're right, your reviews are very good - so I wouldn't blame it on anything other than the market in its current season.
Yes if you stick to your principles eventually you'll get someone willing to go through the screening. The screening protects you - some of these request may be from LE, so don't let your guard down and don't compromise.
I believe it goes both ways...I understand that the ladies want to be safe and know who's knocking before they knock, however I believe the guys also want to feel safe. If you want to know everything about the client then I believe you should be prepared to release the same information back to the guys.
Ok I understand your prospective, but considering I'm well reviewed and I'm not asking for an address or id sent to me it shouldn't be an issue. Think about this I'm 5'2 115lb soaking wet. How am I a threat to a grown man who's at least twice my strength. If I allow anyone to come into my safety zone, I'm the one at a greater risk. Yes I'm concerned they may be Leo, but I'm more concerned with my physical security. I have no intention on keeping any info outside of their name and phone. That's only for a reference for when they call again. Anyone who's ever seen me has always come back. I have no interest in causing drama, because at the end of the day I want return business, so it would be utterly stupid to do anything that would compromise that. Doing something towards a client is doing something to myself.
you get the chance to verify us by using this site which is invaluable for you in determining our legitimacy. The reviews and ability to ask other hobbiests if they know a certain lady should she not be reviewed is paramount in your determining if you will or will not see a provider.
You can see what activities we allow or don't, the type of personality and environment she provides. You can and do figure out alot with your "screening" to determine that we are in fact what you are looking for.
We ask for what we need to feel comfortable seeing you, and are super direct about it as well. We ask for the same reason you check to make sure we offer what you like, to make sure that the other person is someone we want to be behind closed doors with.
If you don't want to provide what that lady asks for, then move it along, don't insult her by saying that she asks to much info or you don't want to provide one thing or another. There is a sea of providers out there, move it along to someone who will accept what you are willing to give. Sure makes for a better 1st encounter over her maybe giving in and thinking you are a douche the whole time!