WHAT IS AN "INCALL GIRL"?
I'm hoping to get responses from the guys and gals here...I had an appointment this week with a visiting girl (first visit with this gal). The appointment was at 10:00. Texted as instructed 5 mins prior and got a response that the maid was in the room so she stepped out to grab breakfast so she'd be 10-15 delayed. No problem. She texted back in about 10 saying she was on her way back up to change, etc and to give her a few more minutes. Finally got to the room out 20 past. I figured the appointment would go 90 mins from that point or 11:50. Had a good time; we both did. Her twice and me, begrudgingly, once but not for a lack of effort on her part. It was maybe 11 at that point. Thought we'd relax for a few and give it another go. As I said things were going well or so I thought.
She then out of the blue asked if I wanted to shower before I headed out...? I was a little shocked so I said something like not just yet and I thought we'd relax for a bit. She said no problem and got up and got dressed. Now I'm in no mans land so I shower, thank her and head out. On 93 by 11:15. I got the impression SHE was done and after she gave my second pop the old college try she wasn't willing to go any further.
I've been lucky over the years to meet some great ladies and it's one of the few times I felt like I got taken advantage of in the end. It could have been a bad day for herbor maybe a long trip so she wasn't that into it, but like I said we had a really good time and I know she enjoyed herself as did I. I once had someone tell me in a similar situation that's it's not the amount of time you spend but how you spend it; true but it left a bad taste in my mouth. Should I have said something? Seems that that would've been awkward? Thoughts?
on account of being delayed by an earlier appointment . (That maid line was a bunch of hooey.)
So, she figured you'd be a nice guy and run out early to make life easier for her.
Show her she thought wrong. Mention this in the review and maybe she'll amend her ways.
Such is the life of a client who choose to deal with incall girls and incall locations.
WHAT IS AN "INCALL GIRL"?
Incall Gals, won't you come out tonight,
Come out tonight, come out tonight.
Incall Gals, won't you come out tonight
And dance by the light of the moon
This made me smile! Thank You!
... they agree to a 15 minute or 30 minute delay? ... he needs a few minutes to calm down from the intrusion? And they get a late start.
It's an outcall. Does she agree to do 90 minutes from 10:45 until 12:15? Does she insist on leaving by 12:00 but still collect the whole fare?
I don't think it's an incall - outcall thing. I think it's a thing that often happens for various reasons (housekeeping, he (in) or she (out) couldn't find parking; too many nosy people, so he or she waited for another elevator; people (guests) in the corridor so he/she walked around a couple of times until the coast was clear; etc.). Is it anybody's fault and who absorbs or at least shares the loss?
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Based on what you're saying here, it's an uncomfortable situation to be in.
It's still not too late to say something after the fact. I'd send her a nice note thanking her for a good time, then mention you were surprised the 90 minute appointment didn't go as planned.
Here are some things I would've done differently before the date started as well as during. Offer to push the start time to 10:30, ask her if she can still do the 90 even with the late start or some kind of acknowledgement of start time and date length. If it was during the date, even though more uncomfortable, I would've nicely asked something like, are we still doing the 90?
I'm assuming you both confirmed and knew it was a 90 minute date right?
Thanks for the thoughtful response. I did end up sending her a nice note mentioning the time issue. She was very nice and apologetic. I'm guessing it was a combination of a lot of the stuff people have responded about. She did say she's be sure to "more than make up" for it if we got together again on her next trip. We will see. I've not had a great record when I've had a disappointing first visit and went back to that well again. Has always ended up even more disappointing. I should learn to just stick with the few awesome girls I've met and never book on the spur of the moment....
It's still not too late to say something after the fact. I'd send her a nice note thanking her for a good time, then mention you were surprised the 90 minute appointment didn't go as planned.
Here are some things I would've done differently before the date started as well as during. Offer to push the start time to 10:30, ask her if she can still do the 90 even with the late start or some kind of acknowledgement of start time and date length. If it was during the date, even though more uncomfortable, I would've nicely asked something like, are we still doing the 90?
I'm assuming you both confirmed and knew it was a 90 minute date right?
Doesn't make it right and that's not what I'm implying. You did say that you both had a good time. So, why not give her the benefit of the doubt? She may surprise you 💋
It's still not too late to say something after the fact. I'd send her a nice note thanking her for a good time, then mention you were surprised the 90 minute appointment didn't go as planned.
Here are some things I would've done differently before the date started as well as during. Offer to push the start time to 10:30, ask her if she can still do the 90 even with the late start or some kind of acknowledgement of start time and date length. If it was during the date, even though more uncomfortable, I would've nicely asked something like, are we still doing the 90?
I'm assuming you both confirmed and knew it was a 90 minute date right?
Agree on the new start time and be willing to reschedule if necessary. Things happen beyond a girls control so I can always forgive a late start.
Don't forget the other side of the coin. Try to always be on time or communicate if you cannot. Many times I've called enroute saying I can be 15 minutes early. About half the time the girl says no problem, come on in.