I dipped into the Bowl almost exactly one year ago. Since I have gained so much from these posts (silently) I figured it was time to give back. In the coming days, and weeks, I will attempt to describe my adventures, and observations, from my experiences in the Sugar Bowl. I hope that others gain as much from my experiences, as I have from those who came before me (Zangari, Gaga, Russ BBJ and others). I initially entered the Bowl because I was a little disillusioned with the provider experience. Admittedly, I am more turned on by the chase, the psychological end of being with a woman. The Wham bam (In/out) doesn't always do it for me. Anyway, I first posted on the SB site almost exactly a year ago today. My first experience was very positive. My first SB was 27. I think I got very lucky!!! To this day we have never discussed money. My routine hasn't changed very much:
1.) A message the lady after reviewing the profile
2.) I request for a talk by phone
3.) If that goes well, then I recommended meet-up (Coffee or lunch)
I'll post more about my specific strategy in a different post. This post is about my first. Let's call her Brianna.
So, I have a call with Brianna that goes well. She's smart, witty and seductive. About 2-3 days later I meet her for lunch.
Brianna is about a 9 on the TER scale. She's 5'2" and 125 lbs.
Mind you this is my first experience in the SB, so I get some advice from this board, but other than that I'm winging it.
Lunch goes well. The next meet up I take her shopping. She says a man has never done that for her. I spend $200 in total. From then on we only have private (i.e. Hotel) meet ups. The sex is ridiculous.!!!!! I saw her about 3 times per month. I am married so she always booked the rooms. On average, I stuffed $400 in the envelope every time I saw her (this included the cost for the room). Again, we have never had a money talk. EVER!!! I tried to bring it up and she said NO!! The arrangement lasted til March ( A total of about 6 months). That is when she moved 1,000 miles away to go to Grad School. Haven't hear from her since. Yes, I miss her. But, I've got another that could make me forget Brianna