You were held back a few years in school, weren't you?
Done baking that cake yet?
We all know that the great providers here in MN and everywhere are much more than the services they provide while on their knees, on their back, on all fours, etc. but does anyone think that "the keyboard makes the woman" as one newer provider seems intent on proving?
I know there are a few excellent ladies who are active here with some occasionally chiming in on hot button issues. But there also are many top ladies who I've never heard from here as they are busy putting their efforts in different areas rather than pounding their keyboards.
Thoughts
You are so right. You need to know when to jump in on a thread and when to stay out. Using the keyboard the wrong way can make you look like an idiot. But using it the right way will make guys want to see you because of your insight on something. There have been providers that I wanted to see until they said something on here. And some that are now on my list because of the same. It really is a fine line and different with everyone on where that line is. But to come on here to bash everyone is not the way to do it. I have learned from the past that I have to sit back and think before I respond to issues otherwise I will always stick my foot in my mouth if I respond to anything with my emotions first
For the record, she doesn't seem to be having very much fun here.
I think the women should have just as much fun here as the guys, and many of them seem to do just that. I guess this place is not for everybody, and anyone who isn't having fun, or at least making money here should look for greener pastures.
Is a total fallacy. That's been my experience anyway & it's obvious many other providers have come to that realization as well.
Thoughts?
And NO I am not laughing "at" Kendra. I'm laughing "with" her.
I am not nor do I intend to have VIP so I cannot see PM's. I am a provider. I get paid to play. Not visa versa. HeeHee!
I agree it may not make or break a girls business buy it will affect her business. As a provider I'm sure there are guys on here that you've put on your DNS list based only on their posts, guys do the same. Why narrow your potential clientele?
If anything ...trash talking a lady just makes her busier.
It's why that one particular repeat offender/ROB keeps getting business. Never mind name and phone number changes .
Since most of my clientele isn't even on TER I just laugh at the thought because, I've been very busy before being reviewed here and I'll continue to be very busy if I ever decided to delist
You were held back a few years in school, weren't you?
Done baking that cake yet?
...it's not uncommon for a new provider or a provider new to TER to actively post on the local board. It serves some valuable functions for her, viz;
She gets her name out in front of potential customers;
The more active she is on the board, the sooner she'll become unmoderated;
The more active she is on the board, and once she has enough reviews, the sooner she'll be approved to join the Provider Only board.
Why not just ignore her posts if it bothers you? I think she has made some entertaining posts even tho she's had a few misfires, no big deal. It's just nicer when providers are active on the board.
Unfortunately, over the past few years, responding to threads has proved costly to many a provider, due to the hostility of a sad, handful men. Too many (including a woman many consider to be the best the Twin Cities has to offer) have been victimized by the trolls. I'll go on record as saying that this board would be way more entertaining and useful if it was not that way.
Pop a beer, read a book , roll a doopie., take a nap, don't bite any one in the butt. Not too hard anyhow.
As one who has been on the receiving end of said provider's vitriol, she reaped what she sowed.
And I think we often grant too much power to those few angry men.
Exactly and that's all they'll ever be. Angry .
It takes a lot of energy to be so crabby ! But now that I think about it... I've found in real life that most of those who are in the Mr crabby pants category are the ones who like it up the ass from a strong, dominant female the most .:P