Hi ladies,
Yes, I'm a woman, too! I'm bisexual and new to the hobby. I'm not a provider, but hope to be a client, and I have some questions that I hope you can answer before I move forward.
Do you only have male clients, or do you have a preference one way or the other? Is it important to you? Does it feel awkward to have a woman respond to your ad? Would you say straight out that you are not willing/able to have a female client?
I'm feminine and very pretty, and while I do have FWBs, I have always been curious about this hobby - but I'll admit I am a bit nervous to start. TER is obviously oriented towards men and their wants and needs, so I feel kind of funny being here.
Are there certain things I can ask for and if so, should I talk about them at the start? How do you tend to set boundaries with your clients?
I didn't write this to be titillating (pun intended!). I'm serious and want to be both informed and respectful.
Thanks for any responses. xo
Do you have VIP?
Many of the ladies here have in their profile "two girl action: Yes - Really Bi". This can range from they only have fun with friends they already know to "What the hell! Let's rock!" If you can, focus on those.
As to your question about certain things you could ask for, their VIP list of options tells you a lot of what is available (male orientated of course) but for hobbying in general you should always ask ahead of time to avoid any confusion and allow them the opportunity to politely decline something they are not comfortable with.
You'll probably receive answers via personal message (if you can) so don't feel bad if there are not a lot of responses on this thread.
I know for a fact there are some incredible women here who will take you up on your offer. I am just sad I won't be there...
use an alias she has VIP
Yes, I joined for a month (for now!)
If you decide that guys are just as much fun...say the word!
Thanks for the response! Very helpful!
Checks their ads (both here and on other advertising sites) and their websites.
Thanks, will do!
There are a number of ladies here that entertain both. You will probably get responses on this thread as well as pm's. You can do a search of reviews and also find what you are looking for. You are not the only female that plays in the arena.
Good luck!
you managed put lay across both tracks! I see a train wreck a coming!
BTW enjoy the hobby!
...and use the search function and search for posts made by lopaw, a woman hobbyist. She has 500 posts over there and even though she is based in Cali, she has a reputation of helping other women navigate the "hobby". The link is to one of her posts on the subject you are asking about.
And when you are ready for suggestions of providers to see, come back and ask. There are several you would want to put high on your list.
And when you are ready for suggestions of providers to see, come back and ask. There are several you would want to put high on your list.
Great advice - thank you!
A respectful email asking about seeing another women is probably all you need!
Best to you,
Red (the Sassy one)
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And I've seen a few as a provider. So, to answer your question, no, I would NOT feel at all uncomfortable with a woman responding to an add. I'm probably right in the middle of the Kinsey scale, so I truly enjoy both sexes!
Hope that helps, and welcome!