... and bring it for a provider's use? (If she's willing of course.) Or do they have to be, um, fitted or something? Sorry, I've spent a lifetime disproving the teacher's maxim that there are no stupid questions ... but I've never seen one of those things up close and personal and don't know how they work. But I'm having similar problems in recent years and would love to be able to enjoy PIV sex again.
I was with an enchanting and delightful pretty new provider this week..
We started up and it was obvious to me that I was not going to get off unless I did myself. She rode me CG and she got off.. it felt great, no question.. She needed a break.. I gave her a massage.. I suggested that she go down on me and it was clear to me it was not going to happen.. Finally it did, but with my help all over her face & boobs.. it's always such an awful feeling.. I feel like kind of let her down.. after all, she new & very sweet.. I thought I was over that.. age.... grrr.. recently there was a thread here ( I think) about how long between girls.. I figured I was an every 3 day guy or so.. Now I better wait a week.. damn !
It's been many a year since I was able to cum wearing a condom, and since we ALWAYS use them when hobbying, right?, I don't even expect to get off while screwing. No biggie. And I've never been able to cum from a blow job. What can I say, it's just the way my body works and I'm totally fine with it. So I finish by hand while my companion licks my balls and taint and ass and fondles me and it's delightful. I've never had a provider express any disappointment about this. I make it clear what I want and how I like them to help me finish. they are always happy to oblige. So don't worry about it Dude! Embrace the entire variety of your sexual behaviors.
remember when I would get off 4 times in a few hours.. The experience is wasted on the youth..
Have you tried a Female Condom? That has been the only way I could cum other than by BBBJ
... and bring it for a provider's use? (If she's willing of course.) Or do they have to be, um, fitted or something? Sorry, I've spent a lifetime disproving the teacher's maxim that there are no stupid questions ... but I've never seen one of those things up close and personal and don't know how they work. But I'm having similar problems in recent years and would love to be able to enjoy PIV sex again.
Had a date yesterday and doc has told me not to take any Viagra for 2 weeks because I had an allergic reaction to something a few weeks ago. Now I've been with this girl many times and she knew I couldn't take the blue pill. We're very comfortable with each other but I just couldn't rise to the occasion this time. She finished me with a HJ but I felt just like you. Like I let her down. She's great about it and always figures out a way though. Still sucks for us guys.
Have a tentative date planned with a new girl for tomorrow but I'm going to reschedule for next weekend when I can take the V again.
There is another option you can use or two? The VED (Vaccum Erection Device) or this:
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/penis-rings/sp-adjustable-silicone-penis-tie-98931.aspx.
I had a client that used these devices, since he has a heart condition and he can't take any pills for his erection. He does get the erection though. He is in his late 60s. You might be happy with that so you won't feel like you let her down or yourself down over it.
I hope this helps!
Missy
Ter Id 4054.