Neg may stand for negative, negotiation, negation or whatever which suits your purpose!
Looks like my college coed Unicorn may be coming both through & true. Again, she balks at the point to discussing an allowance so I "feel" that it's one of those cases where it will turn into some (unexpected but appreciated) financial assistance from me plus yours truly playing the PT BF game ala once or twice a week (this will be a stretch) of quasi dating with an attractive young lady 25 years my junior. The second one (we have not met yet) is a AZN-white POT SB who is quite the looker but new to the realm and is enjoying her time on SA as she's evidently getting lots of platitude by the other old fcuk offs! With this one, I'm not tripping all over myself and I'm even less certain that this scheduled Fri date is going to happen but I will not 86 her number. I will keep this one in the "still alive with some pulse" file to revisit later but once or twice I will send a follow up to let her know that I'm still active without coming across as desperate. There are two other ones who are mid high 30's, so not my fave as these types are more pushy and more of a PITA type. In addition there are 2 others who are quasi hookers with purely P4P arrangement requirements. I could add 2 more to the latter but when I lock down my Uni, I don't see a need for dropping more $$$ on quasi hooker-SBs. All in all, I'm going to stick to my 1K per month budget plus perks and if I see her 3 x per month (or 4) then it will be 500 every couple of weeks, some shopping excursions together (extra$) plus the "dating" expenses. I am also prepared based on how it shall go, to drop another 500 even couple of month as a pleasant surprise. Unlike some of you, I'm not currently in a position to drop 3+K a month on a multitude of them and I actually need to concentrate my time on own work (freelance) and not chasing Poon when I ought to be chasing $. Theoretically a Pro would be more beneficial in my case to get my release and then to concentrate on what is essential to me, but gawd darn it I've been there, tried that and just don't like the mask and the musk that comes with a real Pro and if I get to know them and scratch that thin veneer to find out as to how truly Eff'd up they've become with this job, the farther I tend to run away from them!Not quite ready for the next set of status updates, though I am definitely in the home stretch. Premium on SA ends in 2 days, down to 7 active candidates (plus a few more who do not seem to be going anywhere, but are still around) and I think I can see how it will end. But then a week ago I said the same thing, and it will not end the way I expected then. By the end of next week, I expect to have two regular SBs and the search will be over. Probably. Or I may have a couple of favorites, but I need to fuck them, and maybe a couple of others, one more time to be sure... Tough work.
From what I have been reading, it seems like there should be a second chance to negotiate price once I am ready to commit. Is that realistic? Anyone care to share stories about how they did that, what worked, and what went wrong?
I do have one interesting pricing situation - a pretty Russian woman in her 30s, sexy, but definitely not a tight young body. Good curves, knows how to present herself, intelligent and with an edge I like. She refused to talk money at all, said her previous SD just put what he wanted into her purse at the end of a date, and once in a while if she needed something she would ask and he helped. She mentioned 1k for something selfless, but then quickly added that is very unusual. Her stories seemed real enough, she did not drink, and everything in our interactions has been very clear and responsible, so I am taking her at face value for now. The question is how much to put in her purse. I did ask twice but she did not want to talk money. Then I made her promise that if she was unhappy in anything we did that she would tell me. At 200 she is an almost irresistible bargain and if I needed to throw her an extra 1k every few months to help with something, no problem; at 400 not so much. At 300 she is reasonable. Any thoughts on how to proceed? I am pretty sure a full date is going to follow, so I need to decide how to play it. Don't want to be too cheap and piss her off, but also no need to pay more than would make her happy. I could try the GaGa game, spend a lot on the date, then give her 200. That shows I am not cheap, but sets a low price for continuing dates.
Input appreciated. Will return the favor soon.
I have adopted a 2 strike rule - cancel once and if she seems truly apologetic, she gets a second shot, tho I do not really expect her to show up then either. If she misses the second one, I am done. I did have one lady I had completely given up on, decided she was just fucking with me, who showed up as I was leaving and fucked me quite happy. Not a keeper, but an enjoyable evening, turned my frown into a smile and probably was more enjoyable for the mini-drama and anticipation she inadvertently created by being a ditz. Then there was the other who has canceled twice and almost begged for a third chance, was very apologetic, told me not to be mad. I wasn't mad, or going to let her do that a third time.
Fun and games.
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Neg may stand for negative, negotiation, negation or whatever which suits your purpose!
Looks like my college coed Unicorn may be coming both through & true. Again, she balks at the point to discussing an allowance so I "feel" that it's one of those cases where it will turn into some (unexpected but appreciated) financial assistance from me plus yours truly playing the PT BF game ala once or twice a week (this will be a stretch) of quasi dating with an attractive young lady 25 years my junior.
The second one (we have not met yet) is a AZN-white POT SB who is quite the looker but new to the realm and is enjoying her time on SA as she's evidently getting lots of platitude by the other old fcuk offs! With this one, I'm not tripping all over myself and I'm even less certain that this scheduled Fri date is going to happen but I will not 86 her number. I will keep this one in the "still alive with some pulse" file to revisit later but once or twice I will send a follow up to let her know that I'm still active without coming across as desperate.
There are two other ones who are mid high 30's, so not my fave as these types are more pushy and more of a PITA type. In addition there are 2 others who are quasi hookers with purely P4P arrangement requirements. I could add 2 more to the latter but when I lock down my Uni, I don't see a need for dropping more $$$ on quasi hooker-SBs.
All in all, I'm going to stick to my 1K per month budget plus perks and if I see her 3 x per month (or 4) then it will be 500 every couple of weeks, some shopping excursions together (extra$) plus the "dating" expenses. I am also prepared based on how it shall go, to drop another 500 even couple of month as a pleasant surprise. Unlike some of you, I'm not currently in a position to drop 3+K a month on a multitude of them and I actually need to concentrate my time on own work (freelance) and not chasing Poon when I ought to be chasing $. Theoretically a Pro would be more beneficial in my case to get my release and then to concentrate on what is essential to me, but gawd darn it I've been there, tried that and just don't like the mask and the musk that comes with a real Pro and if I get to know them and scratch that thin veneer to find out as to how truly Eff'd up they've become with this job, the farther I tend to run away from them!
Man. We are on the same page!
Looks like my college coed Unicorn may be coming both through & true. Again, she balks at the point to discussing an allowance so I "feel" that it's one of those cases where it will turn into some (unexpected but appreciated) financial assistance from me plus yours truly playing the PT BF game ala once or twice a week (this will be a stretch) of quasi dating with an attractive young lady 25 years my junior.
The second one (we have not met yet) is a AZN-white POT SB who is quite the looker but new to the realm and is enjoying her time on SA as she's evidently getting lots of platitude by the other old fcuk offs! With this one, I'm not tripping all over myself and I'm even less certain that this scheduled Fri date is going to happen but I will not 86 her number. I will keep this one in the "still alive with some pulse" file to revisit later but once or twice I will send a follow up to let her know that I'm still active without coming across as desperate.
There are two other ones who are mid high 30's, so not my fave as these types are more pushy and more of a PITA type. In addition there are 2 others who are quasi hookers with purely P4P arrangement requirements. I could add 2 more to the latter but when I lock down my Uni, I don't see a need for dropping more $$$ on quasi hooker-SBs.
All in all, I'm going to stick to my 1K per month budget plus perks and if I see her 3 x per month (or 4) then it will be 500 every couple of weeks, some shopping excursions together (extra$) plus the "dating" expenses. I am also prepared based on how it shall go, to drop another 500 even couple of month as a pleasant surprise. Unlike some of you, I'm not currently in a position to drop 3+K a month on a multitude of them and I actually need to concentrate my time on own work (freelance) and not chasing Poon when I ought to be chasing $. Theoretically a Pro would be more beneficial in my case to get my release and then to concentrate on what is essential to me, but gawd darn it I've been there, tried that and just don't like the mask and the musk that comes with a real Pro and if I get to know them and scratch that thin veneer to find out as to how truly Eff'd up they've become with this job, the farther I tend to run away from them!
Really agree with your last sentence/point, well said. The P4P is great when the need arises, and is usually enjoyable, but not always, YMMV as we know. Being new to this SB game, this feels somewhat different and more interesting. I guess you just need to find the right one or two - that's my appetite for it anyway? We shall see, seems very time consuming, which is an issue for me and could wind up being more of a PITA than it's worth. My guess is being patience helps, which is a problem for all of us when it comes to chasing p....y
To your comment also, I feel the same about pro's, often wonder just how Eff'd up the game really makes them. Some seem immune to it and can handle it - others...I am not so sure, and one very hot lady recently told me she was on anti depressants - and added "Well who's not"? (actually I am not!) - just a Vodka or two a day. I actually would love to find a lady - 30+ but really any age, who I like and trust and I could see a few times a month - like quality, quantity/variety is less important - so this may turn out to be a perfect deal for me. I know others on here have a much bigger appetite - and good for you - wish I had the time and libido for it
I agree that many of the pro's seem damaged by their activities, while the SBs seem remarkably sane, at least by comparison. For the OP I'd advise take her at her word and slip $200 in her purse. If she's unhappy you can always up the ante. I don't hink it's easy to go in the other direction, regardless of others' opinions, I'd be uncomfortable starting higher and going lower. And as far as the overall budget goes, I too can't be spending thousands every month. But right now I've got three in the rotation all clamoring for me to fuck them in the next week. Of course I said yes to all three. So it's going to be an expensive week!
You have to trim the herd down you can't afford to love all of em. Lol. I kept the best one in bed and the one that's the most fun. Escorts are cheaper but not near as much fun.
Mostly pricing comes easy when I just need to have sex with a SB, half of them are pros already. And some not pro, sorta handle it the same way just longer sessions and free time for same price but then the pros give you better sex. I also get messaged by girls visiting the town to come have a session with them in the hotel if pricing works.
Where it becomes really hard is when you meet a SB who is not a pro (your best gut feeling) and very hot/charming that you would love to hang around with her, the SB I spoke with seems to be in a financial mess, she is telling the truth after a long meeting we had, no sex yet cause she needs monthly commitment of 2-3K and even though she is available to meet 2-3 times a week, our schedules don't exactly match and need a lot of juggling. So my dear brothers out here, what you suggest? Should I bite cause this could be a nice long relationship that will be more fun then hanging out with pros, or is it too expensive cause I can still see SBs and Pros for about 1.5k a month and have a variety?